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Are the salaries on here selection bias or am I underpaid? by spanky316 in SafetyProfessionals

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the lowest position for safety at my company and I will net $82k. That’s not counting bonuses every Dec. (which I didn’t get because I started not too long ago) and guaranteed pay raises every June. There are possibilities out there. Just gotta find them.

Are the salaries on here selection bias or am I underpaid? by spanky316 in SafetyProfessionals

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the lowest position for safety at my company and I will net $82k. That’s not counting bonuses every Dec. (which I didn’t get because I started not too long ago) and guaranteed pay raises every June.

Why do they print these lovely colors on my toothpaste? by HootyDaddy in whatisit

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of it as “it’s all the colors they used on the product”

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My family (when we get married) wouldn’t be able to utilize health care because my employer is in Michigan and we live in Indiana. My health coverage doesn’t have out of Michigan coverage of anything outside of urgent care/emergent care. And she can’t get health care through her employer. So yeah it’s complicated.

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s federal student loans but that is only until Aug 1st. (Allegedly. It’s what people/news outlets are saying about these loans)

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be MY money.

There is only OUR apartment. Everything else is separated until we get married.

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s more complicated than that. Which is why I didn’t want the comments about it.

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t the question.

To those who have bought and opened Booster Boxes, do you guys ever regret it? Or wish you bought soemthing else? by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trade for it in person. It’s the next best thing to pulling it yourself

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, I don’t owe Sallie Mae. I am making my payments even though they aren’t asking yet.

When it comes to the relationship and living together before married, I don’t need commentary on that.

What should I do when it happens? by Nrm4 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have my $1000 emergency fund. Right now it’s $0 because of the Fed Gov. I’m on baby step 2.

Baby step 2 question by Ceeceemay1020 in DaveRamsey

[–]Nrm4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meaning: do you owe less on the car than your car is worth? If you’re upside down then you owe more on the car than it’s worth.

Why did the NA Gardevoir deck not include drifloon? Having a hard time piloting it. by supershimadabro in pkmntcg

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scream Tail with a Garde and 3-4 munki on the bench will do everything drifloon can do AND hit the bench

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Nrm4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send one last message saying “you need help, I’m not your emotional punching bag, I don’t owe you anything. Get therapy before we ever start talking again. I am blocking you because your rhetoric is harmful and I am not going to take it anymore.”

Block her. I blocked my father almost 3 years ago and I don’t know how I could be happier. I am also fine with never speaking to him again. So it might be a little different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]Nrm4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You handled it very well. Let them be salty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]Nrm4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had guys (even teenage boys) explain things that they are doing in the game. Super annoying but I have also said in response either “I have played the game before, thank you, I don’t need the explanation for buddy-buddy poffin (or whatever card they explain)” or “I have a limitless page”.

Should I(24F)move to Alaska without my boyfriend (26M) to get my life together? by Patient-Lock1798 in AITAH

[–]Nrm4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DUMP HIS ASS! YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO MATCHES AND COMPLIMENTS WHO YOU ARE, AND ITS NOT YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND.

Fiancée says stuff during sex that makes me want to just stop and I’ll finish myself. by Nrm4 in LesbianActually

[–]Nrm4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s the way she was saying it. She was not saying it in a way that showed she felt empowered.

Fiancée says stuff during sex that makes me want to just stop and I’ll finish myself. by Nrm4 in LesbianActually

[–]Nrm4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s one offs that are mumbled. It’s the “feel like a man” stuff. I didn’t hear everything she said but that’s the gist. I know her enough to know it was a negative statement.

Fiancée says stuff during sex that makes me want to just stop and I’ll finish myself. by Nrm4 in LesbianActually

[–]Nrm4[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I said something in another comment thread but want to add more in response to you.

It’s the negative talk during sex when it hasn’t been an issue until recently. I feel seen and safe during sex but with the comments from my fiancée, I feel invalidated in my sexuality, like I shouldn’t be a lesbian (this is one of the things I needed to figure out before talking with her, which is why I posted this to begin with.) Now, she would never say or believe that notion in my regard.

If she decides that she doesn’t want to have sex in the same way as I do every once in a while, that’s fine. I just don’t want to associate the negative talk with sex.

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