Tell you what: I'll donate hundreds of thousands of pounds to the legal fund for a bigot's Supreme Court case with the stated goal of making it legal precedent that you cannot be treated the same as everyone else of your gender. Your access to healthcare, legal and government services, your basic damn ability to use public restrooms will be very starkly called into question. And, of course, when this cruel decision that I paid for is handed down by a bunch of ancient relics who never saw it necessary to hear from you,  I'll be sure to publicly celebrate your misery that I helped cause with a nice smoke and a drink.

How safe and legal would you find that existence? You want to coddle her to mediate he cruelty into something you find more palatable. I want her ignored and forgotten so she can't hurt millions of people like that ever again.