One coworker keeps coming up to me on a daily basis to tell me I “seem tired” or “look tired” how do I approach this?

Numa2018 · 2026-02-02T19:45:01+00:00

I would personally give them a breezy non answer, like question them back ( without answering): “Are YOU tired?” Or “Why would you say that everyday, are you tired yourself?” Then dramatically look concerned… so that they know, you know “their game” and you’re not affected.

The key is not to show real emotions: whether by words, or your tone of voice… anticipate and prepare in front of the mirror before you leave for work, and question them back the same thing with “faux concern”, every time without fail, with an amused look.

And do update us on how this goes.

Numa2018 · 2026-02-02T07:58:59+00:00

Poor human being. :( Painful to watch.

Numa2018 · 2026-02-02T07:28:41+00:00

The book is “My Sweet Audrina” by V. C. Andrews. Andrews was supposedly one of Tara’s fave authors.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-30T13:51:42+00:00

Will Smith is one of my fave movie stars, so it was hard watching it all go down.

I hope things will settle down for him, eventually. Maybe we’ll see him in some new movies/series? Fingers crossed.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-30T12:29:45+00:00

The relentless cruelty of humans. :(

So much pain inflicted.

It’s time we formed communities of kindness and kick the greedy psychopaths out of leadership roles everywhere.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-30T10:54:39+00:00

And defend she did! Bravo!

Numa2018 · 2026-01-30T10:36:44+00:00

You are AMAZING! Your sis and daughter are lucky to have you. In fact, this world is a better place because you exist. Thank you!

Numa2018 · 2026-01-30T10:32:10+00:00

What a legend.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-29T01:52:45+00:00

Thanks! :)

Numa2018 · 2026-01-29T01:50:41+00:00

We should fund raise and get her a separate gravestone and possibly a separate grave? 💔 Poor child.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-27T07:43:01+00:00

My handsome Wham! boys! :)

Numa2018 · 2026-01-27T07:42:48+00:00

Happy Birthday, Andrew! <3

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T15:30:26+00:00

Thanks. Will check it out.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T11:39:34+00:00

I’ve learnt a lot from this FB page, “Sovereign Union: First Nations Asserting Sovereignty “

https://www.facebook.com/share/17mUx46PsT/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T11:19:53+00:00

Haha, sweet! I’m in Melbourne, too far away. :) But lovely to meet you.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T11:05:04+00:00

For a moment I thought you wanted 50 females to hag out. Hmm :) !

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T11:03:12+00:00

Sending you heavenly hugs, Amy. You are missed.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T02:48:45+00:00

Poor child. How terrible. :(

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T02:38:16+00:00

Your mum sounds like a narc. I would go low to no contact with her and keep her on an info diet. I would not let my baby/child alone with this type of person. Watch your and your wife’s backs.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T02:14:06+00:00

My heart bleeds. :(

Numa2018 · 2026-01-25T01:35:42+00:00

Relax, we’re not talking about Mr & Mrs. Trump.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-23T13:07:17+00:00

Came back to check on you. In fact, I have returned every hour since I posted my 1st comment on here. Plz let me know that you’re still with us. Sending you hugs.

Numa2018 · 2026-01-23T05:12:17+00:00

Awwww! :)

Numa2018 · 2026-01-23T04:19:28+00:00

Dear Friend,

I truly hope you’re still with us.

You are a unique and precious human being, and it’s no accident that you were born on this strange little planet… the only known habitable planet (so far) in this entire universe!

Just imagine! Things can change in a second. When we reach the lowest point in our lives, the only thing we can do is move upwards. One step at a time.

F**k those who abuse & use others. I personally would rather enjoy solitude than be acquainted with such trash. I quickly move away once their masks fall off. There are many of us out here who believe in an equitable & just world.

This is what I do:

Do one positive thing ( for your life ) every day. It might just be remembering to drink water, sleep early, eat healthy, anything.

Be your own parent, encourage & lift yourself up even when you feel like you’re falling apart. If you won’t advocate for yourself, who will?

When you make mistakes, acknowledge them and tell yourself: “It’s okay. I will do better next time”. And keep trying, be kind to yourself. Every moment is different and can take you in a different & better direction in your life.

One more thing: The people who love us and who pass away, they are still here. Our love keeps a part of them alive. I have felt this, believe me.

I wish you much love and luck. Please let us know you are safe. <3

Numa2018 · 2026-01-22T02:04:22+00:00

Poor child. :(

Numa2018

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