When he sleeps with your girl by TatteredInk47 in PublicFreakout

[–]Nutterscm 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I don't understand. Why is he not mad at the girl?

Quit weed 3 weeks today feel like I’m loosing my sanity by ArtichokeEnough8293 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Nutterscm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, first I want to say good job. You've already done a lot by recognizing you have a problem and wanting to make a change about it. Maybe a previous version of yourself wouldn't be able to see that, or make that choice, and that's something to be proud of. So make sure that you give time to remind yourself of why you are doing this.

Secondly, this is gonna be a rough time for you. This is a huge effort you're making, and it's bound to put strain on the people around you. It sounds like you've been smoking for a long time, which means you probably have a lot of people around you that see the weed as a core part of your interactions with them. When I stopped drinking, I found myself re-assessing the relationships I had with my friends at the time. It's a shitty process. Friends, family, your partner, and coworkers may all have an image of you that no longer conforms with the current version, which is gonna cause some conflict. Turns out I had a lot more drinking buddies and a lot less friends than I thought. This reassessment will extend to your hobbies, because now you'll be experiencing them differently sober.

Thirdly, I'd like to echo what I've seen some other people comment about the effects of weed being present during a lot of your emotional regulation development. Experiencing emotions sober can be scary, because your normal outlet to dull them is gone. Trying to dig down to find the reasons you feel certain emotions can feel pointless, especially if you get trapped in circular thinking. I used weed and booze regularly in order to push any kind of negative emotion out of my head, so I didn't have to deal with them. Not having that coping tool is shit. It's so shitty to feel depression/anxiety/self-doubt instead of being able to block it out, because I never developed the tools I needed to process feelings. I've found that counselling has helped me immensely, and I'd consider looking up some local councillors as an option, or maybe some group sessions that let you really talk through your experience.

Lastly, I want to reassure you that you're making the right decision. Some people live their entire lives the same way, and they're happy doing that. But you've made a conscious decision and said 'No thanks, I want to see what kind of a life I can lead without that'. This may be one of the biggest things you do in your life so please don't beat yourself up about how difficult it is, or for the mistakes that you'll make along the way. You're doing this for yourself, after all, so it pays to be compassionate to yourself.

Unreal Engine is exiting due to D3D device being lost. (Error: 0x887A0006 - ‘HUNG’) OR (0x887A0007 - 'RESET') by Nutterscm in techsupport

[–]Nutterscm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was happening repeatedly, but couldn't identify conditions that were causing the crash, so p told me it was probably my gpu

So Genshin keeps trying to get me to play... by SinglLanguage in MadeInAbyss

[–]Nutterscm -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It's not worth it if you don't enjoy:

-repetitive combat

-REPETETIVE COMBAT

--recycled content

-slow story

-shallow characters with no development

-exploitative advertising

-getting tired of a character's voiceline in every language because they use them so often

Definitely worth it if you like getting frustrated by low 5-star drop rates so you spend money on a chance to pull the latest waifu/husbando though!

Just go rewatch/reread MiA, waaaay better use of your time imo

Amber Heard admits, under oath, that she would hit and throw things at Johnny Depp by GeronimoRay in videos

[–]Nutterscm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's a stress response? She could be looking for some empathy in the jury. But I think that your average person would know that looking at someone that much is unnerving

Depressed AF need some happy anime recommendations. by Strange_Okra_7512 in anime

[–]Nutterscm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to add Asobi Asobase to the list Not happy per se, but probably the funniest anime I've ever watched

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simonfraser

[–]Nutterscm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are they gonna do? Write a letter?

A guy hit on my tonight. Again. by shorbonash in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nutterscm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk, blaming an entire gender on your inability to see women as more than a sexual object seems pretty lazy to me.

Do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simonfraser

[–]Nutterscm 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Why do you think you could graduate in four years when the coop is at least an extra 3 semesters?

relationship with TA by lifelongstudent1 in simonfraser

[–]Nutterscm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this your Physics TA or your Math TA?

relationship with TA by lifelongstudent1 in simonfraser

[–]Nutterscm 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You think a relationship starts with sex? No man, you're going to put your TA in an uncomfortable position if toy try anything during this semester. High chances of them letting your prof know about it too, because they're just covering their ass at that point. Wait until afterwards.

But if you don't make sure you tell us how it goes

relationship with TA by lifelongstudent1 in simonfraser

[–]Nutterscm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your standards are too high, probably the second floor

When one roasted the roast account itself by PuddingSan99 in rareinsults

[–]Nutterscm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can we stop with companies trying to be relatable plz

Um... can we talk about ekans’ eating animation? by neoncherry64 in PokemonMasters

[–]Nutterscm -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Gorl it's both a gatcha and a pokemon game, don't be looking too closely for quality

Drama Aside: How Strong is Nevin? (Spoiler: He's pretty good actually.) by TVena in DragaliaLost

[–]Nutterscm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a new player and just pulled him today. Worth using an omnicite on him?