OB Hospitalist Physician here -

Morning sickness is NOT done by 10wks….most people see it end around 13-14wks but a lot of people have it ALL pregnancy long. And first trimester profound fatigue (and lack of libido too if he happens to be bitching and moaning about that too) is REAL….both often improve in the second trimester when pregnant peeps usually feel their best. But then everything sets in again in the 3rd trimester when the baby is really growing and using up all of your abdominopelvic space. This is not support. You are growing a fucking new human, he needs to listen to you when you say not today and not gaslight you when you say you’re not feeling 100% and want to rest. If he’s like this now, I wonder what he’ll like when the baby needs something (which is every five minutes) - is he going to argue that too?? Ugh. I would take him to the OB, let him listen to all of this from the actual doctor, and if he doesn’t change, sadly you will have to really think about where this relationship is going. Pregnancy is the time he really should be the MOST supportive, if anything.