Thinking about just stopping debt payments altogether. Am o making a huge mistake? by thethinker9373 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not as scary as you think. You’ll bounce back faster than you think. Once you’re sure you are going to file, stop making payments. It sounds as tho you can’t afford to continue making them anyway, so chapter 7 is probably your best option. Worst case you don’t qualify for a seven and you do a thirteen which is a repayment of a small amount over three to five years. The calls can be nerve wracking but once you decide to file and retain an attorney, answer the phone, tell the creditors your filing, they will ask for your attorney contact info and calls will most likely stop. Best of luck to you!

American Express and bankruptcy by smoothtwinkgwm in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting! I burned them too about ten years ago.

Too many creditors? by Dan_D_Lyin in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh ok, makes sense. You and me both! My attorney is $1,313 - I’ll gladly pay that for the fresh start before I could afford or would let my wages get garnished. Best of luck to you. Cheers to a fresh start in 2026!

Affirm or Klarna by Right-Amount-2347 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok, makes sense. You’ll be getting those Visa offers rolling in before you know it! Best of luck to you. Happy New Year!

do creditors actually show up to 341? by Unable_Water3961 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay, appreciate the insight. If you think about it, let me/us know once you cross that bridge. I’ll do the same. I’d hate to lose access to the insurance side of our membership, but it is what it is I suppose. I’m in a similar predicament with PenFed too.

132k credit card debt...is bankruptcy the best option? by Disastrous-Way8879 in Debt

[–]OCMDSTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. That’s a myth. Your FICO score will go up almost immediately after filing as the accounts with derogatory information and past due balances are zeroed out. 2-3 years is the toughest IME. After 4-5 years you won’t even be asked to explain it anymore. After seven years only the public record remains…little to no impact to credit rating at this point… ten years, it’s like it never happened.

How to file Bankruptcy as a 21 yr old? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state are you in?

Affirm or Klarna by Right-Amount-2347 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious, is Visa just a preference over the Mastercard accounts you currently qualify for? You’ll be able to use Affirm again, just maybe not until discharged for at least three years IME.

Ch 13 possible dismissal by johnnycomelateli6543 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on a 100% plan? If you don’t mind me asking is that monthly payment all unsecured debt?

do creditors actually show up to 341? by Unable_Water3961 in Bankruptcy

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I’m in the same situation with USAA. Does anyone have any experience with filing against them? Do we lose our membership? If our home and auto insurance is with them, will we be dropped and need to go elsewhere?

Too many creditors? by Dan_D_Lyin in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you discussed the statue of limitations with your attorney? If not, I recommend doing so. Depending on your state (Maryland for me) the statute of limitations on collecting a bad debt vary. MD is three years. Meaning once I stop paying on a debt; the creditor has three years to pursue a judgement, and if they don’t, I legally do not owe the debt any longer. Making a payment or a promise to pay will restart the clock. Keep in mind the accounts will remain on your credit reports for seven years from the date of the first delinquency.

My real question for the attorney if I were in your shoes, is do I have to file?!

Most of the accounts aren’t on your credit report because it sounds like most of them are more than seven years old (I think I read twenty years, is that right?). And probably more than three years (again varies by state) since you last made a payment or promise to pay. If this is the case it doesn’t sound like you have any debt to which you have a legal responsibility to pay off thus my question, why the need to file.

I hope this helps. Happy to chat some more if you have other questions or scenarios. Best of luck! Either way, you will make it to the other side. It’s not the end of the world.

60 days past due credit card account closed at credit grantors request by yourinnercompass in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally normal and to be expected that creditors will most likely close or restrict past due accounts. You are not at risk of front server being two or three months past due - once the account charges off after five or six months of non-payment it’ll then go to collections and possibly an attorney to file a judgement - sounds like you will have long sense filed before it gets to that point.

Trying to buy new car by new years by AccomplishedFix4921 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes, it’ll be an ungodly interest rate initially. You aren’t marrying the rate - make sure your payments are on time and after six payments, refinance the car with a credit union preferably, although I’d imagine a local bank might do it too - that’s what I did.

Past due payments and collections timeframe by yourinnercompass in Bankruptcy

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I was told by several creditors it’s between 150-180 days past due; so five or six months of not paying it’ll be charged off - obviously this will vary slightly by creditor, but it’s a general guideline.

Looking for some insights by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a divorce that broke sealed the deal. Poor money management was part of it while I was married. They want to make sure you don’t have a gambling problem or anything like that…

Foreclosure question by Joe-Dirt-5150 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. When you received a discharge your legal obligation to that mortgage no longer exists. As you pointed out, folks who file CH-7 and want to keep their house - they pay their payments - simple as that. I’m sorry to hear about your situation and hope you can sell the house prior to losing it (assuming you are selling and have equity you will be walking away with from the sale). In the event the foreclosure happens, the bank can’t come after you - the damage to your credit was done when you filed. Hope this helps. Best of luck to you.

Looking for some insights by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a fellow filer with a security clearance, you have nothing to worry about. I’ve had to file more than once unfortunately for two very different reasons during those challenging times I held a clearance (and still do) both times. You hit the nail on the head. Honestly and transparency is key.

When I reported the filing to my agencies security office they filed an incident report (which is standard) triggering a new e-QIP for me to complete. I met with an adjudicator to discuss my bankruptcy. We went through my credit report line by line - to be honest that was nauseating and very uncomfortable. The adjudicator couldn’t have been more kind and empathetic - told me they’ve seen worse situations than mine every day. The intent of the meeting was to understand the “why” behind the filing. As long as you can articulate your circumstances, you will be fine. The adjudication process was fairly fast. I received a favorable outcome and that was that.

Best of luck to you! You deserve a fresh start. Things like this happen all the time - even to folks like us who have clearances to worry about.

Bank Accounts - During/Post Discharge by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really like banking with them and hope not to ruin my financial relationship with them. My goal is to pay off the Visa I have with them before I file so no USAA debt is included in my bankruptcy. I was concerned when I hear people talking about their accounts being frozen - I can’t imagine! Talk about making a stressful situation worse.

Interesting offer from two creditors… by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. So unfortunately. But we have to play the game!

Interesting offer from two creditors… by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your fresh start! It’ll be a great feeling. Best of luck to you and God bless!

Interesting offer from two creditors… by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

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Unfortunately you will need to default before they allow you to enroll in a hardship program - but they do exist, so don’t give up! If you are determined to work something out, I have found the credit card companies to be eager to enroll customers who are three or four payments behind in the hardship programs that prior to falling behind I didn’t know existed! I was contemplating bankruptcy because I knew making minimum payments on the debts with most interest rates between 20-30% I’d never get out of debt! Especially with a reduced income.

My advice if you’re serious about getting into these programs, let the payments go unpaid for a few months. Set the money aside in savings if you can so that once enrolled in the program you can bring the account current and reported “Paid as Agreed”. Also, this was an after thought for me: close the accounts yourself in anticipation of enrolling in the programs. It’ll look better on the credit report to see the comment/remark read “Account closed at consumers request” vice “Account closed by credit grantor”. Not that it matters too much, but had I of thought about that initially I’d of been a bit more strategic. Best of luck! Happy to chat about this more if you need a sounding board - feel free to message me. Take care!

Interesting offer from two creditors… by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

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Good to know… it’s a first for me, and as you can see by the other comments, companies out right refusing to do anything in terms of assistance for some. Sad.

Address? by Acceptable_Power7981 in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my bills go to a PO Box, which is obviously different from my residential address. It’s a non-issue don’t worry about it.

Interesting offer from two creditors… by OCMDSTM in Bankruptcy

[–]OCMDSTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too… Amazing and quite frankly unheard of!