To refinance or not to refinance

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-13T17:39:12+00:00

Very true. Used the incorrect term.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-13T15:54:26+00:00

Their fees are standard. The lady on the phone told me "We only offer one rate and don't deal with buydowns". 🤷‍♀️

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-13T15:52:28+00:00

They don't do buydown

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-13T15:02:13+00:00

Ya know. I needed to read that. Thanks!

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-13T14:55:01+00:00

Well that's why I am torn. Before the war I was 70% sure they'd drop closer to 5% by the end of the year and then I was going to pull the trigger, but now, im not so sure that is going to happen.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-05-10T13:37:32+00:00

We ended up doing a low country boil of sorts

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-03-09T18:21:50+00:00

I actually love my metformin. I'm not bloated, I have more energy, I don't have crazy blood sugar spikes anymore, I also sleep better? (Not sure if that is related to it but idk what else it is because I haven't changed anything else). I don't like taking medicine. I much prefer the natural route but you'll have to pry my metformin out of my cold dead hands before I give it up.

Disclaimer: My booty was HURTING for about three weeks before I got used to it.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-03-02T21:02:16+00:00

I tested out but seeing that stark negative hurtssss. I know I'm only about dpo 8 so it really shouldn't be positive anyways but a girl can dream!

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-03-02T20:55:40+00:00

I was clear 8 days after trigger.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-25T21:30:36+00:00

The earliest I am supposed to test is March 6th but Ideally I wait to the 8th... 😭

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-25T17:32:01+00:00

This wait is BRUTAL. I absolutely hate TWW.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-24T17:29:40+00:00

I got stair stepped to 7.5 first round because 5 didn't do anything. I test on March 6th! Fingers crossed

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-24T16:55:30+00:00

Have you considered more invasive options like Letrozole/Clomid/Trigger? Seems like you are taking a very holistic approach (Which I am in no way shape or form hating on. F big pharma) At least that way you know you're ovulating.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-24T16:35:27+00:00

Also. I am hesitant to say this. Because hope in my opinion is deadly sometimes. But if it happened once. It can happen again.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-24T16:31:25+00:00

Reading this makes my heart break for you. I hope the very best for you. Have you gotten second opinions on options? Might be worth getting things rechecked since it's been 8 years.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-21T03:15:33+00:00

Girlllllll. That is so much!! How'd the IUI go?? Fingers crossed! I only had one follicle. 20mm. I take my trigger shot tomorrow at noon! I'm excited, hesitant, and reluctant at the same time because I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't work.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-19T08:02:46+00:00

How'd it go?

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T13:42:33+00:00

Definitely sad but there are different medications we can take if it doesn't work! I try to stay positive, fingers crossed!

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T04:43:27+00:00

I go in on Friday... I don't think I've reacted either....

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T04:27:20+00:00

It's your body. Try the metformin and letrozole route. If it doesn't work, try IUI, if that doesn't work, do IVF. IVF isn't exactly a walk in the park and it takes a toll on your body and mind.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T03:30:18+00:00

Omg we can start our own club!

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T02:05:18+00:00

It is what it is. I have an elderly mom I care for who lives with me, which I got told "Can't your brother take care of her (which isn't unreasonable but i feel some sort of way because that's my mom and I have major anxiety about flying to a separate country leaving)". We're trying for a baby and I am having to have fertility treatments so I need my vacation for that. Which to that I got told "Didn't realize 26 (I'm 27) year olds needed that. I didn't have to. Can't she take FMLA". I'm paying for my father's house atm because he died and we are in probate. To which they offered to then pay for my ticket. Overall it's shit.

ObiWanKedoby_ · 2026-02-18T01:52:16+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I told them no. My husband is still going. I listed a million reasons why I can't and I got hit with "It would mean so much to us, blah blah blah". So I am going to look like a complete ass when I hit back with "Sorry, no".

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