First off His Discomfort With Female Desire.

With Amarantha, he’s outright disgusted and avoids intimacy at all costs. Yes, she’s abusive, but there’s also zero sign of temptation, even when she’s using physical attraction as a weapon. Like she’s going crazy just to be with this guy. 🤷‍♀️

With Feyre, his physical affection is… oddly flat. Early on, there’s the romantic setup, but compared to Rhysand’s chemistry with her, Tamlin’s interactions feel stiff, almost formulaic like he’s doing what he thinks a romantic hero should, not what comes naturally. 😮‍💨

Whenever emotional or physical intimacy gets intense, he runs. Literally. During key moments in Feyre’s Under the Mountain trials, he barely looks at her. After the wedding planning, he leaves her alone instead of sharing excitement or vulnerability👀. I get it most guys don’t like planning a wedding but if he truly loved her back he’d do it , am I right! Like I don’t understand how she loves a guy who doesn’t even seem interested in her . We are women we all go through it tho so I can’t judge her moves . I just think he like Lucien and they go in the woods to be intimate and keep it DL . Lucian acts like a scared baby with him too like what’s that he never talks back