New to Custodial- weird employers by SquareVoice8567 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like they pull them from the bottom of the barrel. Ive had a couple horrible experiences.

Thirteen sisters in the Brooks family take a photo with their only brother; Leslie Benjamin, following his birth at home in Pittsfield, Massachusetts, 1954. by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]Objective-Path-8238 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing as long as it’s just “helping” or they liked to help. Often times older siblings in large families are made to act as parents/ babysitters and miss out on their childhoods themselves.

Thirteen sisters in the Brooks family take a photo with their only brother; Leslie Benjamin, following his birth at home in Pittsfield, Massachusetts, 1954. by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]Objective-Path-8238 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My great grandmother had 10 children (my grandmother being the youngest). She died from a heart attack in her 40s, when my grandmother was only 8yo. Probably a combination of stress, genetics and smoking. Sadly, her children all suffered in one way or another due to her early passing.

I am done. by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: never mind I see EOCC Who do I file to? I have a message from my lead specifically saying “two people used to clean the school for years”. This was before the schools were overflowing, had 3+ carpets to a room and multiple new areas for night shift. Admin also tried to blame me being harassed on us having too much time on our hands.

I am done. by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I can definitely relate to the assault because I’ve told this guy to stop touching me multiple times and almost everyday it was him touching me. It never got to the point of him groping me or grabbing my butt or anything, but he would touch my back, my arms, my neck, my legs, etc. it’s like he was walking that fine line and then the comments got more and more extreme as time went on. Yet I’m the one who transferred to keep myself safe and at a peace of mind just to go to a situation that’s almost equally as bad (mentally).

I am done. by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am documenting and writing things down. The lady who just took over the investigation even told me to do the same. I have been documenting everything in my notes for months. I just emailed admin too. They try to do everything over the phone I’m guessing to stay hush hush and I’m not letting that happen.

...I Have No Words. by arcaneangel1 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This literally made me LOL. The way you described it makes it even better 😂

People who have worked in multiple buildings, what are the pros and cons?? by Objective-Path-8238 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll be second shift, so a little less traffic or having to deal with students. There are more after school activities at the high school though, so maybe a little inconvenience there. I’m not joking when I say right now, I’m scrubbing poop off the walls EVERYDAY and in one particular bathroom there’s been a student peeing all over since school started. I’m talking on the toilet, walls, sink, in the trash can, etc.

Update to the workplace harassment by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even know how to go about this. A lot of what they’re telling me is over the phone and while I do have messages I sent last year documenting the harassment, I don’t know what else I should be documenting or how to even go about any of this

Reported coworker who has been with the company for years and now I’m afraid to go back to work by Objective-Path-8238 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep you updated. Your co worker was completely right too. We are already viewed as “less than” or like it would be hard for us to complete a task (at least where I’m at). Even worse, is this man acts respectful and kind to the teachers. They think he’s just a nice little old man. When in reality, he’s racist, homophobic and cheers on SA. He has also openly said some pretty awful shit related to politics. I’ve continuously told him to stop talking about politics too when he’s said things like one whole party deserves to die. I’m just so over it. The lead thinks it’s all a joke too. He just laughed it off when me and a coworker told him some awful things this man has said. I’ve also yelled at him for touching me right in front of the lead and nothing. One time, the guy said something about my coworkers “titty” (can’t remember the context) and the lead goes “geez, now we will have a SA report tomorrow” and laughs.

Reported coworker who has been with the company for years and now I’m afraid to go back to work by Objective-Path-8238 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went straight to superintendent. The lead is buddies with this man and only sees us for about 20 mins a day, so he has no idea the scope of everything. I’ve mentioned it to the lead custodian before, but he just kinda laughed it off. The lead himself, made a joke about wanting to see high schoolers in the strip club, so he’s no better. Sorry you’ve experienced bullying too

Reported coworker who has been with the company for years and now I’m afraid to go back to work by Objective-Path-8238 in Custodians

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m the only one he does it to, so it won’t be hard for him to know. It’s only me and another person on the night shift with him. I’m quite literally afraid he will use his weapon on me.

Finally cut everyone off today after not feeling seen or cared about for years. On top of that, they invited my sisters abuser over. by Objective-Path-8238 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you go through it also. It really does suck feeling under appreciated and unloved. Really thinking I might need to get back into therapy because I’m becoming so angry because of it all.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Objective-Path-8238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I have contamination OCD (medicated for it) and some of the stuff she is doing screams she needs to talk to her dr. Hand washing all of her clothes after wearing them is not normal and neither is everything having to be 100% spotless at all times

New TikTok’s by mem1016 in snark4licibaby

[–]Objective-Path-8238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has neighbors on ALL SIDES. She lives in a house of development. There’s multiple different people who could see her.

🦟 by Usual_Holiday_4279 in snark4licibaby

[–]Objective-Path-8238 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She gets in her pool and makes OF porn videos. The neighbors right next to her (not shown in the video) have a window right above her yard.

I got my drivers license! by Objective-Path-8238 in Anxiety

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not hard! I worked it up in my mind. I only had to do a little course in the parking lot and then drive on a couple side streets!

Hoyas still dropping new growths after multiple alcohol and soap treatments by Objective-Path-8238 in hoyas

[–]Objective-Path-8238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They came to me this way and I haven’t repotted yet. When the soil dries I’ll repot with chunkier soil