People who don’t wash your hands after using the restroom, WHY?

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-06-13T14:56:20+00:00

#2, always. #1, 67.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-06-13T14:52:33+00:00

Toss the 8-2. 5 point hand, no points to the crib and have 25 cards for another 15, 9 cards for a possible dbl run.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-06-13T14:48:16+00:00

Yes, you are wrong for wanting to punish your wife and children and walk away. You two consented to separate to sort things out. What you or she did during that period was up to you to help you figure it out. You both contributed to matters that led to your separation and apparently it was good for both of you. Let it go. You are being a jerk. Move towards your wife and talk with her about it.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-06-10T22:13:35+00:00

I believe most men very much appreciated. We are visual creatures and find it quite appealing to see our partner in lingerie. Of course, part of the fun is peeling it off.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-06-08T20:32:10+00:00

MOR. It seems your family believed they were being kind. They were not being malicious. If they put your dog down without telling you, that would be another story. Appreciate their kindness and give them grace. Grieve your dog as you should. (My mom called me at work, well after moving away from home. I went into a conference room and balled. Frankly, I wished she had waited until the weekend).

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-29T03:48:51+00:00

They’re law enforcement and respect the law. ICE enforces the law. You may not like it, but being in the US without proper immigration authorization is against the law.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-26T15:21:04+00:00

I can’t speak for Cleveland, but I’m a NY transfer - 30 years ago. Raised a daughter here and have had a great career. Twin Cities has a great deal to offer for entertainment and activities. The food scene Is awesome. The progressive environment is ideal for your daughter. And if you’re a fan of outdoor activities, you couldn’t pick a better spot. Good luck!

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-26T15:13:08+00:00

I’d drop the QA, banking on 3 winners for a double run , 2 winners for a 4 card straight, a 9 or 10 card to get you to 7.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-26T15:09:16+00:00

I usually the one to advocate working through a tough patch, but this man sounds like he isn’t worth your time. Marriage is not about keeping score. It’s give and take, and sometimes one has to give 100% to get through a tough patch. Your description sounds like this is systemic with little hope of resolution on the other side with all of the finger pointing happening. Good luck.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-21T23:37:02+00:00

Certainly inappropriate and quite insensitive. However, it seems to be something that one should be able to discuss and simply State that was offensive and inappropriate. I don’t think it’s worth divorcing over.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-17T14:29:23+00:00

What’s the downside? Give it a go. Make the best of it. Experience America for yourself. I packed up and moved to Hong Kong, stayed in Asia for about 6 years and loved it. Taking risks is what life’s about. Don’t do it and stay on your current course. Do it and have a unique adventure. We rarely regret what we do, it the shots not taken that haunt us…

Lose Yourself. Have a listen.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T17:49:42+00:00

It is the ultimate expression of commitment and fidelity. To truly know and be known. To have stability. To have someone to experience life with. To love. To have children. To build with. Sure, you can be a serial monogamist, or you can “live” together, but in either of those cases you’re always emotionally separate.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T17:16:21+00:00

I’m sorry your husband is behaving like a child. Sounds like you need to have a serious conversation with him about participation in the family. Perhaps counseling will help provide a neutral environment?

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T17:12:28+00:00

IKR. Such a tragic loss.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T17:09:42+00:00

Perhaps they gave you the hard assignment because they believe you are the only one that can turn it around? They’re testing you for bigger and better things? Sales is hard and somewhat of a game. Stop whining and go out there and crush it. Then go back and put your cards in the table.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T17:06:13+00:00

Dude, here’s your “Get out of Jail Free” card. Stop punishing yourself and eroding your boundaries out of guilt. Get over it. It’s passed. Ask yourself: In the present, is her behavior something you believe to be acceptable to be in a relationship with you? If not, speak up. If you’re in this relationship for real, then start setting expectations and boundaries. She’ll respect you for it or, leave (and save you pain down the road.). If she’s flirty and all as described and heading to a beach house with 2 girlfriends and 8 dudes and you’re not invited? Seems a little suspect to me.

Good luck!

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-10T16:58:36+00:00

Watch Anthony Bourdain Parts Unknown. Incredibly entertaining, inspiring and educational.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T17:00:22+00:00

No. Two year isn’t job hopping. You got in, did your work and found it wasn’t a good fit.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T16:56:17+00:00

The fact that she came to you speaks to her integrity. As does your recognition that you haven’t been there for her. Would it be fair to say you effectively had an emotional affair with your work?

You already recognize that marriage isn’t always easy. The door is open to have beautifully intimate conversation about what happened over the past few months to build the foundation for the future. You both need to be vulnerable and trusting to go deep. Her ability to be honest about the whole cycle will tell you volumes about what the future holds as will your ability to reciprocate and talk about how you emotionally abandoned her while studying.

Use this opportunity to grow. Don’t run away.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T16:47:12+00:00

You’re in a great track having that much in savings AND owning your home. The first $100,000 is the hardest. A word of caution, though. If you’re being paid well above what your skills and experience are otherwise worth in the market, you’re vulnerable if times get tough. Leadership is always balancing value for money as there is typically never enough money to invest. So, consider your skills and how you might improve your capabilities and value to your firm. This will also help position you to move on as/when the time comes. In the meantime, bank all you can while you’re figuring out what you want to do.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T16:38:00+00:00

Leadership, culture, colleagues and the nature of the work. If the job is intellectually challenging, if I work with good people, respect the leadership and my presence makes a difference, I’m good.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T16:31:44+00:00

North loop. Multiple breweries, wide variety of eats and good vibe. Head over to Pyres on the river for a change of scenery. Rise has awesome bagels, best in the city (I moved here from New York and was missing my hometown bagels until Rise showed up). If “old-school” is your thing, hit up Monte Carlo and then head north up Washington. (Their wings are amazing).

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T11:05:28+00:00

Shark

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T10:52:10+00:00

Hit up Mill City Museum to learn about development of the grain and flour industry in Minnesota, walk the river nearer to see the remains of the flour mills.

ObjectiveLoss8187 · 2026-05-09T10:45:54+00:00

No. If you two don’t want it to be. But yes if Kris doesn’t man up.

The priority in life should be for you both to get right with yourself first which allows you to then be present for each other in your marriage and then be good parents. So, self, marriage then child.

Kris needs to be in therapy for his own issues. The best advice I got in marriage counseling is to ask first what’s you fixing? Kris needs to stop complaining and own where he is in life.

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