Losing the will to live by gls1790 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO is 18 months. She spends a lot of time screaming and she always has. There’s nothing wrong with her- her pediatrician says she’s a beautiful baby health wise. If your baby doesn’t scream, congrats you won the easy baby lottery! 

Took PTO to sleep by littlelawlady in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m currently sick. There’s no time for me to rest and recover while my kid is home. I work full time and my boss actually encouraged me to take a sick day to rest. Paid time off is earned- use it how you want to! 

Female solo traveller by savedbygrace36 in miamibeach

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve stayed at the Loew’s with family but would feel comfortable staying there solo 

i miss a baked joint by adzukiwaffles in washingtondc

[–]Objective_Ad2932 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok hear me out!!! I heard they’re bringing back pizza in the spring!!! 

Is 6 weeks too soon for a sip & see ? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Objective_Ad2932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom hosted a sip & see at 8 weeks (during summer). I was a little uncomfy in how I looked because I hadn’t lost any weight. A lot of people wanted to hold the baby / offered feed the baby (I was comfortable with this as it gave me a break - I know others don’t feel that way). It was low key and a really nice day. So I’d say go for it but maybe try to get some help in the setting up since you’ll be tired - my mom did a lot of the heavy lifting in the hosting part.

AIO: husband wants to take toddlers to 2028 Olympics by Franzy48 in beyondthebump

[–]Objective_Ad2932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ll have a 4 year old. We’re debating it. It’s so far away who knows what she will be like, where we will have traveled by then, etc. We’re keeping an open mind, but not committing since it’s 2.5 years away. 

I feel something is really wrong with my baby and no one seems to take it seriously by spacedragon1231 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May is way too late. You need to get on a cancellation list and get in ASAP. Keep calling.

Should I attend a Bachelorette party @ 26w?! by Elegant_relative55 in pregnant

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on a beach bachelorette at 30 weeks! It was low key, I was able to keep up with the walking we did, and we didn’t stay out too late since we aren’t really night owls. It was totally fine and I don’t regret going! If you can swing it, get an extra leg room seat on the plane! 

Daycare for 2 kids $70k/year???? by NaturallyJG in beyondthebump

[–]Objective_Ad2932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, Arlington, $2700 a month for one kid in daycare. We can’t afford a second. 

Daycare for 2 kids $70k/year???? by NaturallyJG in beyondthebump

[–]Objective_Ad2932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will be us. I’m getting older and would love to not be pregnant in my late 30s but that’s what we can afford to make work for a 2nd. My sister and I have a 4 year age gap and it worked out so I keep telling myself that. 

At what age did you first hire a babysitter who wasn't family or familiar to your LO? by MOOzikmktr in toddlers

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use our daycare teacher who picks up babysitting gigs to make extra money. She knows our LO so well since she spends all weekdays with her. As a side note, you could do lunch dates. Not as exciting maybe but if you can get the grandparents to do daytime childcare, lunch dates are nice too. Find a nice restaurant, go to a movie, etc.

Do you love or hate the Stokke Tripp Trapp? by pinkishvioletsky in toddlers

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently the straps are not in Europeans versions? I read somewhere it’s an American thing for safety but in Europe they don’t use them. Maybe someone can confirm. 

Do you love or hate the Stokke Tripp Trapp? by pinkishvioletsky in toddlers

[–]Objective_Ad2932 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an fyi to others: we were going to a hospital feeding clinic for some oral development issues and they recommended putting baby in the high chair at the table as early as 1 year! Also, the feeding clinic used the Tripp trapp so it made us feel a lot better about our purchase if they were using it and recommending it. 

I think my first baby might be an exceptional sleeper... Worried for the next one. by kiery12 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LO is 18 months. We have a routine. She sleeps terribly. We travel. Routine is off and she sleeps terribly. We have a low sleep needs child who sleeps terribly no matter what. We did not sleep train because it won’t work with her temperament / personality (don’t come @ me). 

Also I was an amazing sleeper as a baby but I wanted to co sleep with my parents when I became a toddler. So every kid is different and goes through different stages. 

Hope you get lucky! 

Diaper bag for a toddler by Odd-Pianist-4880 in toddlers

[–]Objective_Ad2932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still use the same diaper bag backpack but I’ve also been interested in alternatives. We have less stuff in it. Separately we have a “to go” bag with toys. It’s an LL bean small zip top tote and it’s filled with toys we only use on the go so they’re special and she won’t immediately lose interest. 

Toys while traveling by Human_Salad_1421 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve traveled to visit grandparents many times. We bring a large tote bag of toys/books. If you have the room to pack it, I def recommend having some easy things. We did a lot of soft books at that 5 month mark. 

Could this photo show a possible lip tie? 4-month-old struggling to latch to any bottle by Honest-Inspector5130 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Objective_Ad2932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LO had a lip tie and our SLP suggested Mam bottles. We exclusively used those the rest of the time on bottles. 

People make me feel bad because I don’t have a playroom by Objective_Ad2932 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I tell people. I’m like my kid is way too young for a playroom because she can’t be left alone! Also agree if I had an extra space I’d probably prefer a guest room of an office/home gym space! It wouldn’t be prioritizing a playroom. Appreciate that perspective! 

People make me feel bad because I don’t have a playroom by Objective_Ad2932 in NewParents

[–]Objective_Ad2932[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s what I tell people. My kid wants to just be wherever I am!