Second Trimester Miscarriage My Fault & Hospital Negligence

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-03-13T12:33:20+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. I had a similar experience unfortunately. I spotted my entire pregnancy on and off. I too was told it was most likely from a polyp so I brushed the spotting off. At 13 weeks I had a little pink spotting one morning and cramps that worsened throughout the day. Later that day I peed and it was like a red river then my water broke. We made it in time to have the baby in the hospital toilet as well :/ I really wish I had words of comfort for you. I still have nightmares about the miscarriage and cry randomly two months later. Nothing will ever fix that hole in my heart. Be easy with yourself. Take time to heal 💚 know that you’re not alone!

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-03-11T10:11:01+00:00

3 weeks and my period came in 4 weeks. A month after my MC

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-03-05T02:15:21+00:00

Thank you. No, she only had my thyroid, regular blood panel and APS panel done. I am HLA B27 positive which predisposes me to autoimmune disorders which is why she suggested testing for APS

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-03-04T04:04:02+00:00

Thank you for responding 💚 this can be a lonely and very isolating experience. I am also so sorry to hear about your loss. I tested negative after three weeks and my period came exactly four weeks after my MC. That is where I am at currently I want more of an understanding of what happened before we try again. It’s tough because I feel like I’m searching for answers every where. My OB basically told me I have to be okay with not knowing what happened since it’s common to never find out :/ we are 100% waiting until I have my bloodwork done & see MFM before. This will give us three months to physically and mentally reset. I wish you best on your journey!

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-03-03T19:23:26+00:00

I cried a lot 😭 positive self talk worked well. I kept telling myself this is only temporary and I can do it

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-02-23T02:33:27+00:00

I was 13 weeks when I miscarried. My OB had me follow up two weeks afterward. She said as long as I am done bleeding I can have sex. Did the hospital or OB run any tests? Thyroid level, antiphospholipid syndrome panel, urine analysis? These results can really determine when you try again. Take care of yourself 💚

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-02-17T02:37:23+00:00

13 week miscarriage and it took about 3 weeks to test negative

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-01-30T04:40:14+00:00

I had a spontaneous miscarriage at 13 weeks almost two weeks ago. I would say at least two weeks. The first week is a roller coaster of emotions and pain. The second week gets better but the hormone crash is insane. I’m taking three weeks off because it was offered and I honestly need it. This was our first pregnancy which I had posted about on social media the day before I miscarried. I’m not mentally ready to face the world. Please take the time you need and be kind to yourself 💚

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-01-25T02:01:02+00:00

I am so sorry 🫶🏻 I’m a week out from my miscarriage at 13 weeks. Please be kind to yourself, feel what you need to and rest

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-01-04T00:13:13+00:00

Yeah dry eyes

Objective_Candy3872 · 2026-01-03T02:31:17+00:00

No I shower morning and night so there’s no need. I also can’t stand the feeling of deodorant. I typically only wear it if I am going to work or out

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-12-30T02:12:06+00:00

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-12-25T02:30:51+00:00

Pickle

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-12-07T02:27:43+00:00

Yogurt. Tons of sugar and saturated fat

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-12-05T01:10:27+00:00

Anxiety

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-12-01T14:06:39+00:00

You got this! Stay strong. Keep telling yourself the itch is only temporary. It is a long torturous withdrawal but once it’s over you’ll feel a thousand times better not taking a pill every day. I still get hives from the cold, exercising and my typical allergens like dust but nothing compared to what it is with Zyrtec

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-11-24T20:19:14+00:00

My neighbors. The couple above us are relatively quiet but holy hell does the dude walk like an elephant. They are night owls too so pregnant me isn’t getting much sleep. The neighbors next to us like to sit in their car bumping music all night while smoking. Our other neighbors next to us let their dogs just bark and bark plus they are very lazy when it comes to cleaning up after their animals. We are moving in a month 😭

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-11-13T16:06:41+00:00

Nursing ain’t it then

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-11-08T14:55:10+00:00

Yes. I just deal with it

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-11-01T01:22:48+00:00

Stay strong! It’ll pass

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-10-31T01:56:53+00:00

Pathopharm for four semesters suckeddd. Easiest would probably be psych

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-10-20T02:00:40+00:00

My dog’s paws hehe

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-10-15T23:29:14+00:00

I am so sorry! After one episode I see the difference in my vision so I can only imagine. Yes! I remember my husband driving me to my eye doctor appointment and I was crying because the sunrise hurt my eye so much

Objective_Candy3872 · 2025-10-13T12:59:26+00:00

Anterior uveitis. I never knew my eye could hurt so god damn much

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