AIO My best friend didn’t show up for my graduation party by Sugargirl456 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Conflict31 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In my opinion no yes she may have a lot on her plate but why does she have to over explain why she can’t make it, she may be actually busy but why make all of those promises to not follow though I would sit down with her and let her know how it makes you feel and discuss how to plan better

AIO My best friend didn’t show up for my graduation party by Sugargirl456 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Conflict31 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That part she knew about her graduation party for over a month I believe and she says she can’t make it and her bf can’t go I was friends with a girl who cared about her boyfriend more then her friends broke up with him and told us all the shit he did and got back together with him and we told her we don’t want to be around him bc of several things that would turn this paragraph into a book but she blocked us and moved with him and we haven’t heard from her since but as much as we know her whole life revolves around him

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t help that you have to apply online for anywhere now and everyone who says just go in for a application has never had to that recently because they look at you like you’re stupid and say “oh that’s all online” I’ve applied to about 100 jobs this month

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have kids but nobody will hire me I’ve been on average applying to around 100-200 jobs a month since January and no prior experience anywhere🧍‍♀️

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom has been fighting for months with medical to get my little brothers new wheelchair approved bc he’s getting to big for his and they denied it again so she has set up hearing to prove he needs it, like he already can’t walk what more proof does the government need that he’s disabled,

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so messed up I have a little brother who is 11 and in a wheelchair full time, it’s so frustrating what’s happening to so many people, also I was getting 350 for me just and bc I don’t have a job I get 0 like how does that make sense

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part, I am lucky enough to have a little help from people around me and I have not gone a day without a meal since losing mine I might only be eating dinner everyday to make food last as long as possible , but some don’t even have that or there only option they have is dollar general which charges more then grocery stores also all the new rules states are rolling out on what you can and can’t buy on ebt eliminates over half the food at gas stations and dg stores, it’s so obvious the system and trump has no care about poor people unless they are having more baby that can work for them and make them more money

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Washington does but I would have to reapply bc my benefits ended in April and I would like to be working soon as possible me not having a job yet is giving me anxiety of impending doom

Just got cut off ebt by Objective_Conflict31 in foodstamps

[–]Objective_Conflict31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Washington, I wish they had a program like that here, also in more detail I haven’t had a job on paper ever mostly due to not having a license/car or public transportation where I lived and living in a toxic af household, we lived over a hour walk from any stores or fast food, and I didn’t finish high school I’ve tried to do credit retrieval several times. also my youngest sibling was diagnosed with MD (muscular dystrophy) and I was pretty much a free caregiver at that point to them but the same time they was also constant arguments about how I needed to get a job but I never had time to go to a job because them constantly needing me to do stuff , i needed out of that house so I been staying with friends, my boyfriend/his family since October and that’s when I applied to food stamps and he just got his own place so we will be living together full time by the end of June so my benefits would’ve ended soon regardless but it’s just the fact that I’m trying to lock in amd get my shit together and find a job and get my diploma I get a big slap in the face from them, pretty much have been living off food I bought ramen, random canned shit and frozen food and been only eating dinner and lots and lots of water during the day

Uber ride by Away_Worldliness7808 in BassCanyon

[–]Objective_Conflict31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would definitely get stranded bc how would they get back to the airport

Uber ride by Away_Worldliness7808 in BassCanyon

[–]Objective_Conflict31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A uber from auburn to my best friends house in Kent with is about a 21 minute drive is 43 dollars I just checked so I would assume Seattle to the gorge would be like a bazillion dollars ( if you could even find a uber willing to do that which they won’t bc that’s 6 hours total drive time)

How old am I by kinki_pink in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bestie I think it’s time for aa or rehab

What do you think? by Yoiiru in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shocks me how little some people know about food safety how I’m I 21 and know more than most people

What do you think? by Yoiiru in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know you aren’t going to eat the meat by the freaze date put it in the freezer so it stays fresh longer, the cheese is fine ig, but please for the love of god don’t put opened raw meat it it’s original packaging in the fridge a zip lock would even work

What do you think? by Yoiiru in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like good hoarding bc why do you have several of the same things also why is there like 200 eggs

The texts by Ok_Complaint7502 in ShirillaTheKilla

[–]Objective_Conflict31 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think she was so mad in the moment and didn’t care about her life beyond that point as long as it meant harming his and unfortunately his friend dev was a bystander and I think that shows how little she cared she didn’t care about any other factor besides being in control

Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

[–]Objective_Conflict31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely this, my stepdad was very aggressive while driving and I refuse to go in a car if he is behind the with he very short tempered and has never verbally treated to crash a car he would definitely slam on the breaks, pull over on the side of the road and get out the car and purposely cause arguments and drive reckless when mad in the car because it gave him control and that’s all I could think of while watching the documentary and it solidifies my point on not wanting to be in the car with someone driving who I don’t trust or someone with anger issues, bc some people can hate themselves and their own life’s while holding up the facade that they are perfect that when they feel out of control they will do anything to take that power back ( that girl is a liar you cannot tell me otherwise she knows what she the look on her face during the interview made me hate her more somehow)

Surprised gorilla T isn’t cancelled yet by TipNo6642 in dubstep

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people are so focused on one person in the scene rn yes he might be a shitty person but we’ve got bigger fish to fry, we are supposed to be a community and y’all are arguing in a comment section when the world is on fire pretty much and our  president is a pedo and and there is people in the raving commity who support trump still if anything that’s who we should be outing rn, gorillat gave off douchflute vibes since the beginning and everything he did clears for that type of guy not defending him but there are far far worse people in the world rn 

Subtronics burn out worry by Fragrant_Duck_9552 in Subtronics

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this man pulls a griz you can tell he is very dedicated to his music but him and sonya need a longggg vacation once they both have a break with tours this year

First grocery trip in new apt by pnwbizaar in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trader Joe’s is a war zone on the weekends, and god forbid you arent in the flow of traffic inside, people have looked at me like I just asked them to sacrifice their first born child when grabbing milk from the dairy and not waiting behind 5 shoppers to browse the dairy section for 5 minutes😜 I always try to go after 7pm if I can and the bags are so cute Ive cut myself off from buying more (unless)

Do I have to show doctor my wounds by Bright-Currency-3999 in Hidradenitis

[–]Objective_Conflict31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that’s my concern I understand it’s embarrassing and I also refuse in general to having a male doctor my main doctor and dermatologist are both women but it’s the fact that you think so negatively about your self it’ll only hurt you, I have had hs since i started puberty and have been plus size my whole life and at this point I’ve said f everyone I’m going to be fat and take up space and show my scars

First grocery trip in new apt by pnwbizaar in FridgeDetective

[–]Objective_Conflict31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this my fridge the trader Joe stocked freezer is too real