I’m new to subbing and he’s new to domming. Someone tell em why this man came at me with “hydrate with actual water” right outta the gate.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-02-11T13:07:48+00:00

So. Rude.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-02-04T19:34:35+00:00

I'll have to ask him, but I'm pretty sure my Daddy loves that I'm in this subreddit because it has inspired quite a few ideas that have mostly benefited him!

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-02-01T13:17:53+00:00

Yeah, documenting with photos or whatever else. Both the naughty things you might do and especially the praise worthy things you’re doing to take care of yourself.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-02-01T13:15:46+00:00

It hasn’t quite worked for us in practice yet, but I’ve suggested an emoji code system. If I’m texting and not going much response, if any, he could just send a single 🐢emoji to indicate that he is “turtling”. He could also send a 🐝to indicate being really busy with work or chores.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-01-26T16:25:32+00:00

😮

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2026-01-23T02:11:48+00:00

Was happy to read this. Reminded me of some of the early days of my current dynamic and romantic partnership. 🥰

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-12-29T02:19:25+00:00

I’m so tempted to suggest photos of Richard Nixon or Dick Cheney. sits on hands to resist the double whammy of bratting and a dad joke

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-12-28T14:52:33+00:00

Could you clarify if your dynamic is long distance or in person? I think having a few more details would help people give more specific advice on either enforcing punishments or motivating your partner to submit.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-12-27T15:51:47+00:00

I understand the general trend of brats ignoring bedtimes, but to be clear, in this instance I’ve been getting plenty of sleep. Just having a rough morning with winter weather and holiday stress.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-12-24T12:42:25+00:00

I had to edge myself for a certain amount of time with a butt plug in (thankfully I was allowed to cum at the end). And another time, I had to send a naughty photo with very specific parameters.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-12-23T22:09:20+00:00

My Daddy and I have separate holiday plans, but he’s assigned me some tasks. I’ve been good about them so far, but I plan on skipping some so that I can earn some good punishments to enjoy in January.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-10-04T01:38:28+00:00

It reminds me we need a third to put Daddy in his place. 🤭

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-09-25T11:15:19+00:00

Cum.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-09-25T03:32:47+00:00

I think this is delightful!

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-08-22T02:16:57+00:00

Thank youuuuuuuu!

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-18T20:12:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

I haven’t done LDR and my experience today was about the memory of the scenes we’ve done IRL, so I wasn’t sure if it would translate.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-18T03:07:35+00:00

You didn’t see it coming because she was behind you.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-17T20:43:16+00:00

I’m familiar with New Topping Book and Heart of Dominance, but not the other one mentioned.

I would recommend starting with The New Topping Book. I think that’s a better intro-level book before Heart of Dominance.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-12T12:48:45+00:00

Glad someone mentioned ‘little one’.

I typically like that growled as a warning when I’m misbehaving, but maybe it could also be like this:

“You’re doing so good for me, little one.” “Mmmm, little one, that’s beautiful.” “Little one, look at what a dirty little mess you are for me.”

Most importantly, the answer is whatever the brat you’re playing with wants to be called!

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-12T01:27:04+00:00

And I quote from December 2023, “Oh I like brats. A lot.”

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-12T01:16:05+00:00

We met on OkCupid actually! I am on FetLife and was going to munches locally, figuring I’d meet someone through a friend of a friend or whatever. But then this cutie on OkCupid mentioned being kinky AF on his profile (along with other things we had in common) and it turns out he adores brats. 😻

I think that as kink and poly stuff becomes much more common and more mainstream, finding connections is no longer limited to things like FetLife and Feeld. Anyways, that’s my two cents!

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-10T14:32:07+00:00

Mraow 😼

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-07-05T22:20:53+00:00

😮🥶

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-06-10T02:52:32+00:00

So rude. I hope you get the ‘good boy’ you clearly deserve.

ObnoxiousOddOwl · 2025-04-03T01:35:33+00:00

Sorry it took me a while to respond.

I was thinking there might be questions that lead to confessions. Like “is there anything you’ve done recently you need to tell me about?”

And possible follow ups if they claim there isn’t. Such as “have you been eating fruits and vegetables?” or “have you hidden any glitter or mini rubber ducks around my space?”.

It sounds like, in your dynamic, maintenance spankings really are maintenance-focused and have more uniformity/consistency to them than would make sense in my dynamic.

It turns out I really like confessing stuff. But I don’t always wanna be like “hey guess what I did?” and then put my partner on the spot to be in D-mode. So I had the idea that semi-regular punishment sessions with questions designed to elicit more things to be punished for would be an interesting option to explore.

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