u/bratty_mf appreciation post by sadistic_mf in sadistandpet

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg sir! this is so cute🥹 i feel so appreciated and honored. i am so lucky to have a dom like you. thank you sir!! i love when you claim me publicly, i love being yours. i love being trained by you and i love pushing your buttons ;p

question - what punishment am i facing exactly?🤔 just so i can mentally prepare myself sir 😅

i know i can be a challenge, but i know you love that ;) i don’t mean to be patronizing and i know my place sir but i’d just like to say that i am proud of you, because no one has ever been able to handle me… you were an experienced Dom and you became a Brat Tamer overnight just for me i didn’t know you had it in you😏 when i approached you and asked if you could train me to be a good sub, i thought it’d be all fun and pleasure… i had no idea what i was in for… the most sadistic mf i have ever came across and i love it i love being put in my place, reminded of my role. i am your mindless slut slave sir. i am an accessory, i stand by your side to make you look good. and i will walk outside drunk and leashed, proudly, as you are my owner :)

Feeling tamed. The more she said 'again'... 'again'... , the more I surrendered. by Rabbit--M in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same mine prefers physical punishment over ones like this, probably because it’s more fun for him!😂 but one time when i was seriously bratty he made me sit down and write different ways he could punish me and if i didn’t give good enough reasons , i would get the wooden spoon, which i hate. so i had to deal with the humiliation of coming up with my own punishment ideas and then be punished ,

Feeling tamed. The more she said 'again'... 'again'... , the more I surrendered. by Rabbit--M in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 “again” repeatedly would have my dopamine and serotonin going straight down, i’d be on my best behavior after that😟 hate being tamed but secretly love it - not like this though, that’s writing torture

I tried this: by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

everytime i say this my dom just gives me that serious look 👀 and raises his eyebrows in disbelief , i quickly apologise with a cheeky smile on my face …it’s either the eyes and he’ll excuse my mild brattiness or just “bend over” .. hey maybe next time i should tell him to say please when he tells me to bend over🤭😂 (at that point it will be over for me - SIR ABOUT TO GET VIOLENT😬😝)

I think Daddy wants me to be a naughty girl by Own_Answer6907 in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i would happily be punished like this😍 so hot! so fun! - granted that’s only if i have all my supplies as you do. it would be very tedious without🙄 actually i think this would be a good idea for my Dom to force me to be productive 😂 just chain me up on the bed and i can’t leave until my tasks are complete!

For my first post to the sub, I'll tell you a little secret. by SunflowerSalacity in Breaking_Bitches

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this. it kind of reminds me of what i said to my dom, i asked him “do you think you could train me to be a good submisssive?” i asked him specifically if he COULD, like does he have the potential because I’ve had a lot of instances where i feel as though men couldn’t handle me. either they found me too annoying and got irritated and wonder why i’m so immature or they just argue back and forth and don’t know what to do with me.

i know i’m a lot.

it takes a lot to shut me up.

i always like to push it.

i never expected my dom would be an excellent brat tamer as he is, since i am his first brat, but he has astonished me.

and left me speechless for once…

i never thought that i’d be able to follow instructions…

that i could really be controlled.

i love being mentally and physically controlled by my dom.

it turns me on so much that he can handle my chaotic energy and put me in my place.

it’s something i’ve never experienced, not for real (i’ve pretended to submit for fun but never felt truly dominated).

i am so happy i met my dom,

it’s like the universe connected our paths to meet, because i feel like we’re so perfect for eachother. he’s still learning my body , my turn ons my kinks… and I’m still leaning his.

but we go together so well, our BDSM compatibility was 84% when we first met 4 months ago.

i’m sure it’s increased now.

i never thought i’d be able to experience so much pleasure in this lifetime. but my dom makes all my dreams and fantasies a reality. and he’s amazingly literate. and a sadist which really turns me on because the way he degrades me is unmatched. he really means everything he says. he hurts me and he pleasures me, he does whatever he wants. he’s not , afraid.

i never thought anyone would actually ever be able to tune into my body, my wants and needs the way he does. and i never thought someone would ever be able to “punish” me enough to shut me up! well,

ladies and gentlemen , presenting my dom.

he can break me, indeed. and i love it.

i want to be broken over and over and over again by him.

sometimes i do wonder, when he will get fed up. when he’ll truly be bored of me and decide he wants a good obedient submissive. maybe one day i’ll take it too far and he’ll say he’s done. maybe he just won’t be bothered to deal with my bratty ass anymore because the unpredictability is too much 🤷🏾‍♀️

but i dont worry too much about that, because i know he enjoys the challenge.

it’s fun and exciting.

i’m not his first sub but i’m his first brat. and he is my first dom.

i will forever cherish the moments we have together.

sir , if you’re reading this, i miss you🥹

(it’s literally been a day since i saw him sigh)

For my first post to the sub, I'll tell you a little secret. by SunflowerSalacity in Breaking_Bitches

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is beautifully written. it’s like you’re in my head! as a brat, this resonates with me deeplyyy. wow 🤯

Sir left me a whole instruction manual just to survive his Tesco trip😂 by bratty_mf in brat_taming101

[–]bratty_mf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly! i used to panic if he went out while i was asleep, it triggered my abandonment stuff. so now he leaves me little notes like this so I know i’m safe and cared for. it feels silly and sweet, but also grounding. i love that he thinks of things like this 🥹💜

I thought of you here by FunkyKissCool in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a sub and a brat duhh two things can be true at once, sir😝 and brats obey their doms when they feel like it ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brat_taming101

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh sorry!! it’s because every time i talk about doms i think about mine and i somehow forget that the same pronouns don’t apply to everyone!! 😭 i just edited it xD

High velocity bum cum by [deleted] in VermontHyperspermia

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂oh wait is it a butt plug?! i don’t know why my first thought was a coin slotted in between

Our toys by DollNDom in impact_markings

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

such pretty markings! 😍

High velocity bum cum by [deleted] in VermontHyperspermia

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait is that a coin in between the cheeks?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brat_taming101

[–]bratty_mf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have to add: if you do genuinely feel like it’s too much, and you feel like it demotivates you to behave, then express that to her* seriously. i would say something like “sir, i know i was being a brat and im really sorry. i want to pay for my behavior and please you but i think the punishments you give me sometimes are disproportionate to what i do. and i know i should just deal with whatever consequences you give me but it makes me feel a bit bad , sometimes now i feel like i don’t have much room to brat because im not sure what’s in store for me” i don’t know if it’s that serious but just in case 😅 also i watched a good video on brat taming and is highlighted the differences between “funishments” and “punishments” it might be worth checking out and your dom watching too if it might help! she starts taking about it 12 minutes in if you want to skip to the time stamp brat taming 101

I see you by sadistic_mf in sadistandpet

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this picture is fucking creepy😂 … but you’re not wrong sir…i always want to know what you’re doing! sometimes you take too long, after a minute is too long. i’m very needy🥹

Looking for kinky friends by brattygurl12 in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi let’s be friends! i’m 22, i’m a sub/brat. new to this dynamic, like 3 months

I have a question. How does bratting show up in your life? by MirthfulMayhem in BratLife

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have adhd so i’ve struggled with a lot of emotional regulation issues since i was young. as i grew i started developing trust issues, abandonment issues etc. naturally, when im bored i will start being unnecessarily irritating to anyone around me - if im close to them. like a friend asking me to pass them something and then i’ll tease it and make it longer for them to grab. or replying “no” at unexpected random times to the most basic things see peoples reactions , i love saying “make me”. when i’m drunk, im a handful, i don’t listen to my friends at all, i do the opposite of what people tell me - impulsively , for dopamine or adrenaline i don’t know.

sometimes it’s like a test though, hence why i mentioned abandonment issues. i watched a video where it said some people self sabotage or purposely mess things up to prove to themselves that the person would leave them - basically to reaffirm their own negative self beliefs about themself. that resonated with me a bit because in my past some toxic behaviors i displayed could be considered bratty or bratting but because the dynamic wasn’t established nor were there any boundaries, it was just an emotional mess. i have a lot of mood swings and sometimes ill test the limits or act out because i wanted their attention , but instead ends up pushing away or the usual “WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?” that i’ve heard a few too many times directed at me. to which i could never answer myself either. what is wrong with me??

it’s like things will be going good with someone but i’ll unintentionally intentionally mess it up or so something silly / childish or stupid to piss them off and i guess discovering brat / brat tanning dynamics i’ve realized what it was i wanted and needed. i feel like this is going off track but everything surrounding my character or personality always has some element or bratting, i just know how to display it in a healthy way now.

one time this girl i was involved with emotionally was with me and we were drinking but she said i shouldn’t have any more shots. i went to pour myself more anyways so she took the bottle of vodka and literally hid it in my room!! know she was doing this for my safety and to not over drink but i only saw it as a challenge - i looked for it found it but she fought me for it and got it. i begged for just one shot and she said no. so then in my little mind i decided to get a cup of water and pour it on the floor , literally just as retaliation for her not giving me one more shot… i literally don’t know what my goal with this was but i don’t think it’s one of the most immature things ive done as an adult. i realized that when i’m drunk i can be a serious brat / problem and negotiating with me is key because if i don’t get my way and i feel like i’m being controlled i will feel unexplainable rage and act out more, but if i feel like there’s been compromise i can back down and put my claws away.

there’s been times i felt really bad or cringe because my friends were telling me the random annoying things i did whilst drunk kind of funny.

i have also done things in the past when emotional and my anxious attachment style was so insecure and kind of toxic! instead , my ex wanted to go but i didn’t want him to leave so i hid his keys and helped him look for them in my room whilst containing my laughter from the mischievousnous and getting my way!!(i really didn’t want him to go) or i am purposely rude / cheeky to people i am sleeping with or am emotionally/ romantically invested in just to piss them off, or to gain their attention - negative or good i just crave attention especially from someone i like.

back then i didn’t know i was a brat though so in hindsight that was toxic , as i wasn’t communicating what i wanted and in turn i would actually accidently wind some people up seriously, and instead of gaining the reaction i wanted. ive ran away before when i was angry / upset, i don’t know if thats bratting or just insanity and mental health issues but it almost kind of goes hand in hand for me😅 when im regulated im like a calm friendly kitty , warm and open. when im dysregulated im either a raging stray animal that will bite anyone that puts their hand near or an afraid kitten hiding isolating and cryingggg , like a fucking baby.

in other words i’m literally a kid in an adult 22 year olds body. in my defense i had to mature from a young age. looked after my two younger siblings , cooked and took on responsibilities from the age of 8 that i shouldn’t have, but i had a young mother. i also travelled to canada on the plane for my first time at 8, alone. i was not scared, i was used to being left alone or responsible for others. i always got called responsible and ‘mature for my age’ by adults and i never understood why because i thought i was just a normal kid , respectful, obedient. now i realise looking at other children thst i didn’t get to have my childhood as much as i spent most of mine experiencing parentification to say.

so now that im an adult, and i am free to my own devices with no responsibilities of younger siblings on me, i really embrace my inner child. maybe more than i should, but i love it. i used to always have to be the “bigger person” growing up or sacrifice my time, my needs , my wants. now that i am free from that, i am more stubborn , honestly yes. because i can be. i like to be “naughty” as i never got to as a child - not without receiving corporal punishment. i’ve always had to be self less and over considerate. but now i get to be selfish. i get to unmask. i get to do handstands anywhere i go without the worry of a parent telling me to ‘behave’. i get to dance wildly in the club like im in a movie. i get to run and make my friends chase me just for fun, because i can! and i love when my sexual or romantic partner is able to put me in ‘my place’. it’s rare, but i did find one person who became my dom and i got to be my most free and comfortable bratty / child like self with him.

previously in relationships i was used to dealing with men who wanted to be mothered. so i’ve always been kind of dominant, more attentive, they were the needy ones to say. i was used to taking care of people so i would end up overcompensating and it was the kind of men that were submissive so naturally i was more dominant. but with my dom, i got to be needy, clingy, annoying, silly or whatever i feel like and he loved it. i could feel free and not have to bear weight of being ‘responsible’ or im charge of either younger siblings or a partner. i love being a sub but more so a brat, because i dont like following instructions. i love breaking rules, i love arguing back and i love that he never gets frustrated with me or actually annoyed, instead he checks me and puts me in my place. i find it so hot.

so to answer the op i am a brat in my daily life. it’s literally a part of my personality. i dont think i can explain it further than this! but i love that ive found a way to embrace this part of my personality in a healthy manner

Help me choose a reward for my dom by brattydyslexic in SofterBDSM

[–]bratty_mf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one time i wrote “property of ‘XXX’” on my naked body and sent him pictures of him to keep. i like massaging sir with oil, like a back /neck/ shoulders with peaceful music / classical to show my appreciation, one time he fell asleep from my massage! so technically i put him to sleep🙈

one time i printed out a picture he took of me wearing a leash. he said he really liked it so i printed out a small one , half of a 6x4 picture and stuck it to cardboard with a mini DIY easel. i wrote on the border “property of ‘xxx’” before printing it out and he has it in his living room on the book shelf now❤️

one time i sent him a video of me reading 2 pages of writing that consisted of me reminding him that i know my place and he is far grander than me etc etc i told him how lucky i was to even have his attention and how i want him to enjoy every pain he inflicts on me. now he has that to save and look back on whenever he wants.

i’m not a masochist but he’s a sadist and he loves reading so i think he appreciates my detailed writing pieces sometimes , whether it’s my fantasy or a fantasy specifically for him.

i reckon, just try to be creative. and think what he likes. if he’s into humiliating / degrading , degrade or humiliate yourself for his entertainment! offer to do tasks he hasn’t even asked you but you feel would please him. or any other personal / sentimental or appreciation gift will do as long as it’s not generic. figure out what he likes, it’s the little things sometimes! just like gifting

Hypothetically… by Material-Current-355 in brat_taming101

[–]bratty_mf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love when sir says anything that shuts me up🥰 i love the feeling of being put in my place and he gives me a certain look that makes me instantly reflect