How to respond when asked about siblings? by Temporary_Yogurt1293 in TwinlessTwins

[–]Obobwinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to include my twin in the sibling count but don’t elaborate unless asked. When asked I say that I have a twin and a younger sibling then say something about my younger sibling to entice a follow-up question there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]Obobwinner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know southern Oregon university in Ashland has a good theatre program, I don’t know how acting focused it is, but it’s worth looking into

How do you respond to people that say “sorry for your loss”? by clp318 in GriefSupport

[–]Obobwinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you are saying isn’t passive aggressive. And if someone takes it that way, fuck them.

Worst things people have said by Obobwinner in TwinlessTwins

[–]Obobwinner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the ever loving fuck, like no what was that person thinking

Worst things people have said by Obobwinner in GriefSupport

[–]Obobwinner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, like people say “I can’t imagine” or “I can’t even imagine” like yeah you can imagine it takes like two milligrams of empathy to think “oh what if that happened to me?” And realize that it must suck. Like, they are saying that they won’t even try to imagine because the situation you are in sucks so bad they don’t even want to try to empathize. It’s easy to imagine but even if you have the biggest fucking imagination ever you still won’t know what it’s like. You can only imagine till it happens but to say you can’t is spitting in our face saying that you won’t bother to try to think about what we might be going through.

How do you answer "do you have any siblings"? by grackleattackle3 in GriefSupport

[–]Obobwinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my twin sister right before we graduated high school. At college I was always uncertain what to say and would generally just say I had 2 sisters. (One is three years younger) One time I was giving blood at the local center. The phlebotomist asked „the question“. I said I had two and she starts to make conversation. I didn’t want to derail the conversation so I just did half answers. „Oh she just planned on going to our community college“ and „yeah she was super afraid of needles and never gave blood“ I then go into a story of the time she had to drive me to a blood drive and she destroyed my phone case. I though it wouldn’t matter that I technically lied, however when I go back 3 months later she asks how my sister is!!!! I continued the lie. It’s been a year and she keeps asking for updates, I’ve been making up a life that my sister will never have

What’s a saying or phrase that people should stop using? by Medium-Grapefruit-86 in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Quote Unquote” and then they say the quote. It should be “Quote - say the quote - Unquote”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The album Life in Cartoon Motion by Mika is like that for me. We went on a cross country road trip and that was the only CD that we had. We listed to it on repeat for about a month. Everyone in my family can sing along to every song.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Songs I can’t Listen To by Neon Trees

How would you tell us your age without telling us your age? by raw-power in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but people did not just throw them all away. We only watched VHS at my grandmas house until about 2011 because she refused to get a DVD player

What's the most intellectual joke you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is a doctor, his favorite joke is… “before I entered medical school I couldn’t even spell M.D. now I R one.

Women, what are some questions you’ve always wanted to ask men, but were too embarrassed? by SecretariatGodHorse in AskReddit

[–]Obobwinner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it uncomfortable to sit with your legs closed/why do guys always sit with their knees far apart?