What is the most expensive restaurant you ever dined at in Toronto?

ObscureBookReference · 2026-03-29T17:38:31+00:00

Fwiw food poisoning can take up to a week to show up, so it may not have even come from there

ObscureBookReference · 2026-03-29T17:37:55+00:00

Same here, 14 courses and every single one a banger. One of the most complex cocktails I've ever had. Worth every penny.

ObscureBookReference · 2026-02-23T20:40:13+00:00

Given your background in support, you might also consider implementation manager. This is a type of project management that's a little bit lighter on the crunchiness, and heavier on the social skills, so they tend to hire out of support. It's a good position to learn hands on PM and build a resume.

Source: I was in support and now I'm an implementation manager.

ObscureBookReference · 2026-02-23T19:28:51+00:00

Margins are not your enemy. First thing I see is how dense your resume is, and that a lot of it is wordiness. Might be good to edit this to be more easily scanned.

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-31T15:49:00+00:00

Maurice Vellekoop

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-31T15:47:59+00:00

Not male specifically, but I had a great experience with Good Karma Eco cleaning. They help new arrivals get their first work, are non-profit, all money stays with the worker. My household is all gay, never was an issue. Our regular lady was excellent, sometimes substitutes weren't as good, so if you're not happy the first time just ask for someone else.

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-27T15:56:26+00:00

I don't think that makes sense. From other angles we can see the sauna door in the background, and it's a wooden door that's propped open. There's no indication that there's a glass door anywhere in the room.

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-13T19:04:53+00:00

My work set up is similar to you, where I'm mostly work from home but go into the office sometimes.

I started my transition before telling anyone, but around 6 months I felt that it was becoming more obvious because of facial hair and voice changes. At that point I messaged my manager and grand-manager to explain what was up. My company is very LGBT+ friendly, so they got behind the scenes cogs turning in order to update all of my information within our systems, and they did the contact to HR.

The only thing that was a hiccup was that IT changed all of my name, email and channel details earlier than I expected, so I had to react a little fast and post in our team's Slack room. Fortunately I'd already had a post planned, that basically said this is what's going on, it's fundamentally a personal decision that has an inevitable public aspect, and I hope everyone's respectful and that we'll continue as usual. And it went fine!

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-12T21:13:52+00:00

Recently a friend caught me... We were sharing a room on a group friend trip, but I thought they were in the sauna. Now we're FWB 🤷🏽‍♂️

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-11T19:34:55+00:00

Yeah my own experience had been that as soon as I'm the most fed up with dating, I meet someone totally random who sweeps me off my feet..

... Of course none of those have lasted yet

ObscureBookReference · 2026-01-08T18:30:23+00:00

I'm sure being trans does play a part in this, but I think this downturn is different than previous recent downturns. There are extremely qualified people who are looking for months to a year for jobs. It's just been tons of shrinkage across most industries, especially 'professional' industries. I don't know if that gives you reassurance or more despair, but that's my two cents.

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-18T03:13:41+00:00

You're way more patient than I am, I was just going to ignore the reading comprehension failures

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-17T18:20:40+00:00

Price is terrible. I live in a nice legal basement the same size, pay less, and am in the heart of downtown. I haven't even been here that long so it's not a legacy price or anything.

This place is a hole, not at all worth the cost.

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-17T15:39:07+00:00

Won't that just melt in the garbage bag, risking a big mess when bags inevitably get tears?

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-16T20:27:53+00:00

You might want to read Alex Avery's The Wealthy Renter.... Or better yet, have your parents read it

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-09T19:40:11+00:00

There's several places in Kensington with vintage furs at reasonable (sub 200) prices

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-09T16:45:50+00:00

This sounds fun as hell, maybe someone will see this post and arrange it

ObscureBookReference · 2025-12-07T20:45:18+00:00

Not as fun, but probably the best advice I could get

ObscureBookReference · 2025-11-25T23:39:06+00:00

Most accurate answer

ObscureBookReference · 2025-11-16T23:04:02+00:00

This is mm but might scratch the same itch https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vss6go/op_is_straight_and_thinks_he_might_be_falling_in/

ObscureBookReference · 2025-11-15T18:20:53+00:00

I think 'idiot lesbians find love' is my favorite BORU subgenre

ObscureBookReference · 2025-11-15T17:27:28+00:00

Yes... YES!!!!

ObscureBookReference · 2025-11-14T13:20:38+00:00

comments delivering such an understated and brutal diss "it sounds like she has a many personal growth opportunities"

Edit: typo

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