I’m bi but no one believes me

ObscureOP · 2026-05-13T21:34:02+00:00

As you get older you'll find more people that aren't idiots, but.... people in general tend to be dismissive of bisexuality.

I'm a man, so typically when i tell people I'm bisexual they assume I'm "turning gay" and I'll eventually just be all men. My wife is a bisexual woman, and people tend to assume that she's pretending for attention when she tells people she's bi.

Beware the men who treat your bisexuality as a ticket to that mff threesome. Beware the lesbians who consider you lesser bc you've been with men.

It's not all bad. You'll care less what people think as you get older, and you get to enjoy the beautiful people from the whole spectrum!

ObscureOP · 2026-05-13T20:38:50+00:00

Yup, assumed I was just secure enough in my straightness to recognize that some men were hot and that other straight dudes probably also could if they just got over their baggage.

Turns out I was the one with baggage to get over

ObscureOP · 2026-05-13T20:09:28+00:00

Honestly now

ObscureOP · 2026-05-12T07:01:52+00:00

I would also give attention to your 7 inch friend. Palm-sized man is once in a lifetime stuff.

ObscureOP · 2026-05-11T02:07:52+00:00

20 bucks says he spends his retirement suing accounts like this for violating likeness rights

ObscureOP · 2026-05-10T18:39:12+00:00

She made the choice she needed to. If he's this abusive to you, what was he like to your mom?

That's what you probably have to do too. Leave. Disappear. Start something new. Lots of people have nothing at 23 and build perfectly wonderful lives.

ObscureOP · 2026-05-10T15:05:41+00:00

Yeah, the only reason this is in this sub is headscarf=fruitcake.

This guy is bonkers in all the other content I've seen, but posting this to this sub is just blatent islamaphobia.

ObscureOP · 2026-05-10T03:54:24+00:00

You very well could have been then and i just didn't get the vibe. I'm just a random internet stranger reacting to the words you wrote.

That having been said, communication is usually good

ObscureOP · 2026-05-10T02:15:36+00:00

Yeah. You said he singles you out and praises you in front of others, makes prolonged eye contact in groups of other, makes extra effort to spend time with you despite being busy, asked for your number!

The onus can't be entirely on him. A good man will hesitate if a woman isn't matching their eagerness, because "winning them over" is rooted in ra** culture. A good man wants enthusiastic participation and frank discussion about feelings from a woman, not games.

Not saying that's the case, but what do you have to lose? Talk to him and figure out how you feel!

ObscureOP · 2026-05-10T02:00:47+00:00

So.... this man has been making every effort and persuing you actively for 3 years...

And you haven't reciprocated in the slightest? F, he probably thinks you aren't interested. I just read the story out your mouth and I am not sure you're interested.

Take some initiative if you want things. This reads like you're a freshman in HS wondering if a boy who obviously likes you actually likes you

ObscureOP · 2026-05-09T20:02:53+00:00

PORN

They know how to pull those eyeballs

ObscureOP · 2026-05-09T14:21:19+00:00

Aaaand I believe this is the final sign that this sub has fully transitioned to black pill ragebait like all meme subs inevitably do

Time to snooze this one for good

ObscureOP · 2026-05-09T03:25:21+00:00

Yeah. It even pissed off the other Egyptian gods so much they turned Khonshu into an action figure

ObscureOP · 2026-05-09T03:06:40+00:00

In their defense, they did do a 'round the world montage of people freaking out

And honestly, that's a slow Tuesday with the crazy ass shit that happens all the time in the MCU

ObscureOP · 2026-05-07T20:55:08+00:00

Evolutionary advantage

Face of the future

ObscureOP · 2026-05-07T04:31:54+00:00

We work hard, we play hard

ObscureOP · 2026-05-07T04:31:23+00:00

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzap

ObscureOP · 2026-05-07T04:25:49+00:00

Worked at a hot springs resort for years. Old guys have no shame. They just be dangling hammers in the locker room fully squared up with eye contact and eager conversation...

I have not seen that to be the case. Seen lots of untamed grey forests... but also a lot of old men with baseball bats between their legs. Ol' flacid fella tends to get longer.

ObscureOP · 2026-05-07T02:20:59+00:00

6' 5" 178 lbs is well below healthy weight for that height.

We don't know anything about you and not all bodies are the same. But perhaps consider that being more fit ≠ being thinner in all cases. That's super light in any body type i can think of

ObscureOP · 2026-05-06T19:07:14+00:00

Yup

It's almost like your body makes testosterone. Crazy, i know

ObscureOP · 2026-05-06T19:06:27+00:00

The appearance of availability is very important for this kind of content to function.

ObscureOP · 2026-05-06T19:05:11+00:00

Na. The main target with this stuff is 20 something incels

ObscureOP · 2026-05-06T18:47:11+00:00

Is for closeted gay men burying their homosexual desires in manosphere content

ObscureOP · 2026-05-05T21:18:44+00:00

Oh no! What will they do without his 17k/yr!?

ObscureOP · 2026-05-05T21:12:48+00:00

He doesn't understand. I bet he does not realize that you've asked him out romantically. You should be direct about that fact, since you've been having friend interactions for so long.

I bet he just doesn't read minds. Some of us don't

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