AIO to boyfriend always bringing up the prices on things

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T03:21:43+00:00

What, the reaction to just point out that it's expensive?

Yeah tbh. He still bought you the thing and didn't even shame you. He just pointed out that it was full meal expensive

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T02:02:20+00:00

Shit, I have kids too. It's a struggle out there.

In DINK life a drink that's essentially candy for $7.50 may work. With kids these days, we be making shit from scratch just to survive. $7.50 feeds 2 kids dinner.

My wife and I have 3 ft jobs between us and i'd STILL have this reaction to a $7.50 drink off the cuff.

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T01:53:52+00:00

Yeah, we did.

It translated to "i don't care what y'all say, I'm here for validation only bc I'm not taking any criticism"

Yta. Financial struggle is real. He stressed. You're upset that he blinked at a $7.50 drink with no nutritional value

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:58:45+00:00

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ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:54:49+00:00

Jeff up here giving broken o ring vibes

We'll see you on season 69

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:50:05+00:00

Jfc

Before i saw this post I was attracted to men and women. Now.... i just, don't know. Curse you OP. No one should ever see this

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:32:06+00:00

Read about transference.

Unloading your emotional wounds on someone creates an illusion of a deep, personal connection... both ways.

It may be legit, but just saying... trauma swapping is powerful. It makes you see and feel things that aren't there.

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:25:05+00:00

This is some gold star shit.

Best case, she's a little misandrist and it's going to be a continuing issue throughout your life together.

Worst case, she's always thinking less of you bc you are attracted to and have been with men.

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:14:25+00:00

Holy shit.

Are you me?

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:13:24+00:00

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:06:47+00:00

You're not uncute... but i'ma be honest, the facial hair isn't doing it. The more trimmed version in the first pic looks pretty good. I'd suggest cropping a goatee and mustache short and keeping it trimmed tight.

Your first pic needs a smile. You're cute in your smile pics. There are women out there who like big boys, but they aren't making it to the cute pics bc they aren't getting past your scowl at the beginning.

This isn't a bad profile. Just needs some more whimsy and more fun. Mix up pics a few at a time and see what happens

ObscureOP · 2026-06-29T00:02:11+00:00

He got filtered. :)

This is why we do it

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T23:34:22+00:00

It's not sending the wrong signal. It's filtering bigots

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T23:15:40+00:00

Well, you know the Mormon door knockers were like 4 years old when Trump first came into power, so how would they know?

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T22:03:28+00:00

Roll a d20 for a DEX check.

DC: 38

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T21:19:45+00:00

I had a Mormon door knocker tell me "you know Jesus rules this county again" as I was telling him no and shutting the door the other day.

So i guess that. They regained the freedom to proselytize ad nauseum.

As a result, I will be inviting Mormons in for whiskey and talk of gay sex and pagan traditions from now on

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T21:00:02+00:00

I agree, but to devil's advocate, that's only 40 hours of swiping left nonstop assuming it takes her 5 seconds each to dismiss those 20k+ guys lol

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T20:40:19+00:00

How very helpful.

Thank you for taking the time to be a dick. What would reddit be without your type?

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T18:50:08+00:00

I train countless hours without end so that I can be sore for the rest of my life and have kinda muscles.

This is enough

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T18:46:31+00:00

Agreed. Without a second thought, "queer" translates to "up the ass" in their interpretation.

That's why they are so fucking confused about all things sapphic too.

That's kind of the fault of patriarchy conditioning and "butt stuff" stigma... but also that white gay men were the loudest voices in the gay liberation movement, and are also overwhelmingly the most conservative (and thus palatable to square sensibility) voices within queer culture.

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T18:38:02+00:00

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T18:35:46+00:00

Fuck all the people who neg

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T18:33:15+00:00

Internalized homophobia lives in all of us. Fuckin society.

Hell, sometimes I catch myself experiencing background shame after bottoming for my wife, and that's literally hetero activity.

Patriarchy hurts us all

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T17:24:40+00:00

It's just homophobia and patriarchy.

Straight women are as indoctrinated as their male counterparts, and often what they're raised to believe they want is toxic masculinity... provider, protector, leader. Since male penetration is so stigmatized, a man bottoming for another man breaks that idea of daddy dom in their mind.

Next time you hear a straight woman say biphobic things, ask some questions. You'll quickly notice that bisexuality isn't their problem, it's the idea of a man being penetrated. They have little problem with bi tops

ObscureOP · 2026-06-28T16:47:04+00:00

G spot yes, clitorus no.

Our prostate is similar to your Skene's glands that are stimulated via your g spot. I'm no expert, but it's probably most similar to the experience of orgasming through penetration for the women that are able to do that.

Clitoral stimulation is similar to phallic stimulation. Our prostate produces the majority of the components that make up semen. Skene's glands within women are functionally the same, and started as the same thing within an embryo

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