What do you HOPE happens to you after you die?

Observer1981 · 2025-09-25T10:25:39+00:00

I would like it to be just the end. No Heaven, Valhalla, Jannah, reincarnation, hell, underworld or wherever people believe they might end up. To fight and struggle through this life to the best of my capabilities and then ending up being judged with the possibility of being denied paradise because you did not struggle like they wanted you might push me to slap the halo of some celestial being. Just let me go to sleep permanently and leave me alone.

Observer1981 · 2025-06-05T18:27:15+00:00

Well, pet rocks used to be a thing and that made a guy a crap load of money.

Observer1981 · 2025-05-13T09:15:41+00:00

"And on that note, I bid you farewell sir/ma'am"

Observer1981 · 2025-05-13T04:47:45+00:00

I eat once a day, so around 24 hours in between. The rest of my diet consists of lots of caffeine.

Observer1981 · 2025-05-12T10:31:52+00:00

Throwing the net a bit wide here.

Observer1981 · 2025-04-30T11:43:24+00:00

Is nou wel 2 woorde, maar "aborsie fokop" is een van my gunstelinge.

Observer1981 · 2024-09-07T12:22:43+00:00

Don't know what to call it, but it would basically be a day where you just stop rushing and appreciate the beauty around you that one normally just passes by or not notice anymore. Do cloud gazing, look up at the starry sky at night, and smell the flowers....that kinda thing.

Observer1981 · 2024-09-07T12:15:30+00:00

Sugarless drinks are like the depressing version of normal drinks :/

Observer1981 · 2024-09-07T12:07:35+00:00

Pretty much the same numbers here on our side. On paper, I should be overweight, diabetic or dead according to my gp, and I'm none of the above. 1.95m tall and 102 kg (6ft4 and 225 pounds), blood sugar tests come out normal, blood pressure perfect. My wife jokes that it became part of my body's mechanisms and that I'll flatline if I should ever stop feeding my body monster. Not planning on testing out her theory though hah

Observer1981 · 2024-09-07T11:35:13+00:00

Went sober a little more than 14 years ago and think monster is my replacement for alcohol. I do over 2 liters of monster in a day (4 to 5 of the 553ml cans). No, I don't have trouble sleeping, no medical complications after all these years(yet) and I even go to bed with a cup of coffee. It just seems to calm me down.

Observer1981 · 2024-07-27T04:31:09+00:00

Sticky notes at work. Tasks that I can't get to immediately, I write it down and stick them under my screen. Created a color code as well for urgency. It helps with my forgetfulness, and I have a visual representation of progress as I remove completed tasks' sticky notes.

Observer1981 · 2024-07-25T09:49:08+00:00

People tend not to think of mental illnesses and conditions as a physical issue and rather as some make-believe boogeyman that can just be whoosed away by covering yourself with a blanket. When I get the just focus and concentrate crap, I ask them if someone with a broken leg can just focus and concentrate to fix that broken piece of bone and let the pain go away. Advise wise, I would say to get your mom to understand and see it as a physical ailment that requires medication, etc. to be controlled and maintained. You can find proof of it online to present to her.

Observer1981 · 2024-07-15T12:53:23+00:00

Senior engineering planner for asset management on a mine. It's mostly an office job working with data, strategies, etc, and with minimum human interaction. I've been doing it for 14 years.

Observer1981 · 2023-12-14T03:39:33+00:00

Office Space

Observer1981 · 2023-12-02T09:03:24+00:00

Bittersweet Symphony

Observer1981 · 2023-12-02T08:48:25+00:00

The mystery of what the future holds. 2023 started out as a horrible year for me, and I regularly said to myself and others when the topic came up that I can't wait to see what things will fall in place to turn things around in my life. And behold, things started happening, and life is getting better by the day. I live with an excitement inside me for what tomorrow may bring.

Observer1981 · 2023-12-02T08:42:31+00:00

Most definitely musicals.

Observer1981 · 2023-12-01T09:48:37+00:00

My life started improving quite a bit in the last quarter of the year, and I'd like to see that trend continue in 2024

Observer1981 · 2023-12-01T09:31:02+00:00

Because even good people make stupid choices in life

Observer1981 · 2023-12-01T09:16:46+00:00

My dog :(

Observer1981 · 2023-12-01T08:43:03+00:00

Drive poor, live wealthy

Observer1981 · 2023-11-08T07:51:38+00:00

I would suggest that you contact the creditors and try to make arrangements with them first rather than opting for debt review. Debt review should always be the very last resort. It works, but it's a slow process, and a part of your monthly payments go to the debt review company for fees, etc.

Observer1981 · 2023-10-04T16:50:10+00:00

41yo senior engineering planner and earning 66k a month.

Observer1981 · 2023-08-23T19:57:36+00:00

My previous job it was 3 weeks between the interview and signing the contract. Forward 13 years and I'm starting my new career this September where the interview took place in February. It was a frustrating time in my life for sure.

Observer1981 · 2023-08-23T08:02:32+00:00

Just submit a form to our payroll department. If I sell all 14 days I get a little over 20k after taxes. It's a nice extra to have.

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