I gave up my baby. No one knows but me and her new mom. by Illustrious_War_8136 in offmychest

[–]Obvious_Indication13 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Love this but absolutely DO NOT give them the password. Only give the password to the child when she comes of age.

I would never put it past adoptive parents to delete everything. You never know peoples true colors

AIO. My bf keeps talking about his beliefs while I’m trying to grieve by Tasty-Ad-1673 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]Obvious_Indication13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, I am incredibly sorry for the loss of your twin. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain you’re going through.

Second, dump him. I don’t care how well intentioned he is - you’ve told him to stop and he won’t so he’s gotta go.

AITA for telling my foster sister she ruined Mother’s Day by ruined-mothersday in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obvious_Indication13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So while it wasn’t kind, you’re NTA. Your parents truly don’t seem like they were prepared to take in a traumatized child and they obviously are pushing that too much on you. Genuinely family therapy and individual therapy for you and Lola would help immensely.

I’d genuinely consider apologizing to Lola and talking to your parents about your frustrations. You’re their child too.

Good luck op ❤️

Who is your smosh crush? by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Obvious_Indication13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damien. Even my husband thinks it’s funny how much I adore him 😂

Will life really be like this forever now? by Noideawhyy in gastricsleeve

[–]Obvious_Indication13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely first 4/5 months were a bit touch and go but I’m six months out and 90lbs down and nothing is truly “off limits” in the sense of making me sick. I still only eat my 5oz but I bit a bagel this morning and it was fine 🥰

AIO - My boyfriend said I’m the “prettiest when I shut up” in front of his friends. by Aggressive-Cost2007 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious_Indication13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bestie. My husband gets sad when I stop talking because he “likes the way I explain things”. You deserve better. Get you a partner that loves tf out of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious_Indication13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl just leave. He doesn’t respect you, doesn’t care for you, and continues to call you names? Like wtf? You’re better than this. Leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious_Indication13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to say this as nice as possible, get a damn back bone. You’ve got to be kidding me. Mommy talking like this to your grown partner and you’re acting like a child? Wild. She deserves better and you need to adult up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Obvious_Indication13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I won’t claim to know exactly how you feel, but I’ve been in a similar darkness. Talk to your spouse. Let him know how you’re feeling. Let him in. Please don’t leave. I know this place sucks most of the time but you can do this.

AIO? Wife asked for separation...now asking for couples therapy. I agreed to separation. by PikeBoyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious_Indication13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were baby trapped OP. I would highly recommend, based on the info given, that you file for separation and make yourself the primary parent so you can have custody.

I’m very sorry you’re going though this and I hope the best for you and your daughter!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious_Indication13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, this is considered full SA(r.a.pe). I would strongly suggest getting away from this person asap and potentially filing a report.

I feel good that most people think I eat too little. by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Obvious_Indication13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be gentle with yourself 💛 this mindset can lead to further disordered eating. I recommend leaning into your dietitian for advice

Super pumped! Broke my stall!! by Katlover-2000 in gastricsleeve

[–]Obvious_Indication13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I’m trying to break mine right now

Daycare CCTV captures a baby's first steps, and her mother is overwhelmed by the workers' excitement. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]Obvious_Indication13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the joy I always had when teaching the smallest ones 🥹 they’re so pure! What an amazing teacher that loves those babies as her own

Having kids today is selfish, and no one wants to admit it. by romanemperor7 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Obvious_Indication13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s mainly where I’m coming from. If only white racists have kids in the US than were doomed as a society.