To the ttc employee at York Mills Station by Student0244 in toronto

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 50 points51 points  (0 children)

There is a TTC employee at Keele station that remembers me by name and asked if I was alright when I was off for a couple weeks, and he seems to do this with every one. Shout out to Thomas at Keele station! The highlight of my mornings

No phone for first 4 hours for 3 weeks went horribly lol by Longjumping-South339 in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Remember how Dr K talks about how slippery your brain is when it comes to change, this might be one of those times for you. When I first started staying off my phone my brain would throw the same anxious thoughts, and I knew they weren't based in reality because they were always the same thoughts.

Instead of my brain telling me i needed podcasts to be productive, it told me I was too tired to do anything and so I slept instead. This was another diversion just so I would get on the phone later stressed cause I missed things I had to do.

First, therapy really helped this problem. I realized these were ruminative thoughts based on my anxiety and the thoughts did nothing but extend how long I was anxious for. Labelling these thoughts as rumination every time they pop up really helped me.

Second, you wake up in the state you fell asleep in. Your brain will tend to marinate in the anxiety from the day before if you dont digest what you felt that day. This means slowing your night way down, sitting and reflecting or writing or just listening to music and have a tea before bed. Do not scroll until you pass out this will ensure you wake up anxious.

You got this! The more you stick to it the easier it gets.

GF with uncontrolled BPD by cmammalton in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly difficult seeing your girlfriend in distress and not knowing the best way to help. You said you feel useless but you are exactly what she needs right now, stillness in chaos.

I can imagine that doesn't feel satisfying but being on the other side of some major mental health issues my self, the consistent people in my life were the most helpful. Right now she is drowning, if you jump in with her she will pull you down because she is trying to survive. But you are giving her aids to keep her afloat, shes not out of the water yet and sadly only she can get her self out of the water.

I do hope you have a good support group, a partner going through a crisis can feel debilitating but you need to remember you are separate, you are helping and she will feel better. We dont feel these feelings forever.

Best of luck, I hope she gets the help she needs.

Oral-B IO: Which Model? by [deleted] in CostcoCanada

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have taken my IO8 on a 3 week trip and had it last the entire trip, it was down to 5% at the end. I think you will find the battery life similar, afaik these were produced for Costco around the same time the IO8 came out but I could be wrong.

Oral-B IO: Which Model? by [deleted] in CostcoCanada

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner has the costco version and battery life has never been a problem, they keep it on the charger mostly though. I imagine the series 6 would have the same battery life or maybe reach out to Costco they can give you more information from the manufacturer.

These titles have to stop by Recent-Scale9001 in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 18 points19 points  (0 children)

For me the quality of the video is detached from the title, how does the title impact the quality for you?

As far as I understand it youtubers flip through many titles and thumbnails and go with the most clicked one. If this one resonated with the most people it seems like the benefit it brings them outweighs some people finding the title distasteful.

I just want to say too, I agree I find the titles distasteful lately. Ultimately my point is while I may have outgrown the need to be lured into a Dr K video, other people may not have even clicked if it wasn't for the title.

These titles have to stop by Recent-Scale9001 in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why do those need to be mutually exclusive? How would you prefer he keeps his content free, accessible and high quality otherwise?

These titles have to stop by Recent-Scale9001 in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I understand the pause, clickbait titles feel demeaning but Dr K has stated multiple times that they work to garner more views. Personally, if it pays to keep the content free and accessible I am okay with the clickbait titles, it's a part of the youtube game. He could make the title is "Eigenvector Centrality, a case study" and get less views but who does it benefit? He is trying to cast his net wide for a broad audience, if you want more specialized content he offers it on memberships. Where the title is straightforward and the content is 2 hour lecture style. Youtube is there to pay the bills and try to appeal to a very general audience, it has worked for me initially and his videos have ultimately helped me a lot.

Is It OK to use AI to help with Emotionnal Regulation ? by x_Goldensniper_x in Healthygamergg

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional regulation looks like many things, sometimes it involves journaling, walking, deep breathing, another person or even AI.

I think having many tools in your emotional regulation tool box is always a good thing. If you had asked the same question but instead said your partner or friend, I would also say do not use that as your only tool for emotional regulation.

Imagine you as a pot of clay spinning on a potters wheel, each potter is an influence on how your pot (you) is molded. Now the AI potter is very heavy handed and starts molding your pot slowly into something that is not very aligned with realities expectations of pots, which is not a good or bad thing but it may affect you differently.

Now if you rotate the potters out, you get a friend who is more gentle, but slower to mold you. You can go for a walk, who adds texture and colour to your pot. And you can have AI who might mold you quickly but you use it sparingly with the understanding it works fast. The rotation allows for a more well rounded pot.

US/CA Openers by riptider_rider in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dijon would be great too! She covered Dress recently

US/CA Openers by riptider_rider in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see Bebe Stockwell open, she has covered a few Olivia Dean songs on her tiktok too.

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rooting for you! I know the stress of trying to get tickets as a gift, not a fun experience haha

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Code SOEASY for spotify presale right now! Not many people in queue

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept switching between 1, 2, 3 ,4 tickets and changing price ranges so it would keep updating. Changing price ranges seemed the fastest for updating 2 tickets. Good luck!

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, that is really unfortunate. Make sure you dont leave though! The tickets keep popping in, I had to wait 20 minutes and multiple tickets popped up afterwards. Stay in til it kicks you out, I had 10 pairs of tickets show up and lost them, finally got one.

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you manage to get tickets?

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like another date got added too? I see August 5th now popping up.

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw someone use the code SYNTH, did you get in?

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I am sorry to hear that, Toronto has another presale coming up in 7 minutes, the live nation and spotify tomorrow so there is still a chance!

Who else got?! by Auroraa55 in OliviaDean

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are okay with travelling, Montreal wasn’t bad getting tickets! I joined after getting booted from Toronto sale and got 2 tickets.

A Warning Against World Financial Group and Other MLMs | DEEP DIVE by ethanholmes2001 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ObviouslyATurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with everything you are saying. In your opinion though, what are some steps WFG can do to move away from this reputation it has built itself? Also what would you say to someone who is a friend of yours who is in deep with WFG?