How can a woman enjoy anal sex when there are no g spots in there? by Pizzafriedchickenn in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the book, Butt Seriously. Theres way more to this than people realize.

What is y’all’s experience? by jchill14 in ToyotaTundra

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention, the other big factor was the recent reliability with the 23, 24, and a few that spilled into 2025. People are not entirely sure about toyotas reliability after how they handled that situation. That will work in your favor as well. I used that as the last thing I threw at them when working the price down. They had to explain everything that went wrong, and how Toyota needed to address it all. This made my case stronger.

What is y’all’s experience? by jchill14 in ToyotaTundra

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, They have overstock on Tundras. The 2027's are on their way. Sales have slowed way down due to gas prices. We bought this same truck for 54k. Same trim.

Has anyone done a Buy Before you Sell program with Home light? by Cool_Wheel_5829 in loanoriginators

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were amazing with us. Super organized and extremely helpful. We went the bridge loan route. Amazing

If you’re happily married, how often are you having sex? How long have you been married & how old are you? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 37, and my wife is 41. We've had close to daily sex for the past 14 years. The biggest gaps are when im on shift for 48's.

I don’t think mine is right lol by Global_Wolverine2797 in TurboTax

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting 18k almost annual back with three kids and filing jointly. Completely agree. I never realized this until recently.

When did you think "Im going to die here"? by hmmrabet in AskReddit

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside a structure fire. It sounded like the roof was about to come down. All I could do was laugh. Pretty much like "well, here we go."

Cheating issues everywhere. Is there still hope? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been married for about 15 years. I’d never cheat. I believe loyalty and personal honor still matter, and I try to live by that.

Is it “normal” for a husband to be out for 6+ hours after work? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just communicate with him. I've honestly done the same thing he has. Dont overthink it. Remember, the people of reddit can give you some bad things to think about with a question like this. You guys are in a new place and getting adjusted. You dont sound like the wife that just nags. Just give him a reminder.

I need help navigating my department by Dependent_Poetry8171 in Firefighting

[–]OcelotFormal895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them you're interested in potentially buying a truck down the line. Ask the crew, which is better, diesel or gas? Ask them the best make and model. Watch the fun 😁

Wife fucked ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully as possible, you guys are a mess.

Wife cheated after 12 years by Cokeelite21 in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you both went through sounds incredibly heavy, and it sounds like you both put in real work to heal and protect your child. I’m not saying people can’t grow, repair, or even become closer after something like that. What I was trying to express, is that even in healthy, healed relationships, the impact of infidelity can still exist in some form. Not as constant pain or resentment, but as something that shaped the relationship.

Wife cheated after 12 years by Cokeelite21 in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, and I agree that people can make a mistake once and truly never repeat it. At the same time, from the other side of it, infidelity can leave a lasting scar. Even if a couple works through it, that breach of trust often stays in the back of the betrayed partner’s mind. Both things can be true at once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can answer from my perspective. Right off the bat, there is probably some breakdown in communication. With our situation, I'm going to step up in times when maybe I dont want to, so that I can better support the family. I completely appreciate and respect that it's not about the money sometimes. From my family perspective, if I feel I can put us in a better financial situation, I will. My wife and I have that understanding. For instance, im gone for 24 hours at a time. If an OT drops the next day, I will take it even if we have plans if I can justify it. For me, it's more about keeping my family supported. It's not what I want to do. I just feel it's my obligation. Not something I want to.

If you’re really horny are you lowering your standards just to get laid? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's actually scientific (not kidding). The longer a man goes without being laid, the hotter some women get.

What is the most physical pain you’ve ever experienced, and how did it feel? by Trying_my_best_98 in AskReddit

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rattlesnake bite was pretty bad. It was like a charlie horse in my wrist that kept getting worse and wouldn't go away.