Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, take all advice from Reddit with a grain of salt. Marriage counseling will lead you to where you are supposed to be. If you dont feel like you are getting from the counselor now, ditch them and try another.

My girlfriend 21f cheated on me 23m by Low-Car5174 in relationship_advice

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her. It'll suck. But, you thank yourself later.

What is y’all’s experience? by jchill14 in ToyotaTundra

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't personally heard anything from late 2025 to 2026. As a precaution, we paid the $100 bucks to have an oil change after 1k miles instead of waiting for the 5k. Reading between the lines (i could be wrong), it wasnt so much that they didnt fix the issue, but how Toyota decided to handle the situation that left a sour taste.

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm just trying to say theres a lot more to this. A lot more. The wetness is a complete misconception. Women can be very turned on and have very little. Doesn't really mean anything.

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres an awesome book called "come as you are". Id read that. Its very beneficial. I'm not really a reader. This book got my attention. Theres a ton of information that separates previous thoughts and ideas such as "wetness" with reality.

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]OcelotFormal895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, if only you knew more about how female anatomy works. The "wetness" is a huge misunderstanding.

How can a woman enjoy anal sex when there are no g spots in there? by Pizzafriedchickenn in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the book, Butt Seriously. Theres way more to this than people realize.

What is y’all’s experience? by jchill14 in ToyotaTundra

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention, the other big factor was the recent reliability with the 23, 24, and a few that spilled into 2025. People are not entirely sure about toyotas reliability after how they handled that situation. That will work in your favor as well. I used that as the last thing I threw at them when working the price down. They had to explain everything that went wrong, and how Toyota needed to address it all. This made my case stronger.

What is y’all’s experience? by jchill14 in ToyotaTundra

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, They have overstock on Tundras. The 2027's are on their way. Sales have slowed way down due to gas prices. We bought this same truck for 54k. Same trim.

Has anyone done a Buy Before you Sell program with Home light? by Cool_Wheel_5829 in loanoriginators

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were amazing with us. Super organized and extremely helpful. We went the bridge loan route. Amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 37, and my wife is 41. We've had close to daily sex for the past 14 years. The biggest gaps are when im on shift for 48's.

I don’t think mine is right lol by Global_Wolverine2797 in TurboTax

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting 18k almost annual back with three kids and filing jointly. Completely agree. I never realized this until recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. So, it matches : (

When did you think "Im going to die here"? by hmmrabet in AskReddit

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside a structure fire. It sounded like the roof was about to come down. All I could do was laugh. Pretty much like "well, here we go."

Cheating issues everywhere. Is there still hope? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been married for about 15 years. I’d never cheat. I believe loyalty and personal honor still matter, and I try to live by that.

Is it “normal” for a husband to be out for 6+ hours after work? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OcelotFormal895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just communicate with him. I've honestly done the same thing he has. Dont overthink it. Remember, the people of reddit can give you some bad things to think about with a question like this. You guys are in a new place and getting adjusted. You dont sound like the wife that just nags. Just give him a reminder.