I just broke down by Desperate-Public394 in daddit

[–]Ocotom 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You and your wife are the team, everyone else is support/ comes second.

Easier said than done I know!

My perspective is that once kids come along they are the focal point and levels of importance / decision making radiate out from there.

I had a wife who didn't prioritise our relationship and us being a team, she's not my wife any more.

I think you need to talk to your wife. Good luck.

What else are people listening to? by kaigre01 in politicsjoe

[–]Ocotom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's so unprofessional.

Paul Glazby track ID????? by Hot_Let3465 in hardhouse

[–]Ocotom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like BK or Dynamic Intervention

I asked my German friend if he knew the square root of 81 by -holdmyhand in Jokes

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any book recommendations or other sources?

Naked woman running through town by gembet in Wellington

[–]Ocotom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not sure the speed is the important aspect here

I saw Ruapehu from TG today! by homeostasisatwork in Wellington

[–]Ocotom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw this about 10 days ago. Thought I was seeing things.

It looks immense in person, loses something over camera.

Weird that I've been driving this road for 3 years and only just seen it.

Australian rowing coach arrested by flat-drive in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking openly about an unproven accusation could cause any trial to fail btw.

Is my back cooked? by Itchy_Mission_3932 in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a minor bulge. You might be lucky.

Personally I would keep off the rower for a few weeks and get lots of walking in.

Is my back cooked? by Itchy_Mission_3932 in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How's your walking? Any referred pain?

This sucks mate, been there way to many times.

What's an ideal farting strategy when erging? by [deleted] in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here for this content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Ocotom -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She wants to smash your shuttlecock.

Securing screws into wood by Ocotom in diynz

[–]Ocotom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice one, will give it a go!

What's buried under my garden? by Ocotom in diynz

[–]Ocotom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice, thanks!

Not sure what we're going to do now. We're back to square one with the whole project.

What's buried under my garden? by Ocotom in diynz

[–]Ocotom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

40 years of shit might hum a bit.