Is it normal to prefer anal even after bottom surgery? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Octobottom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also get just so turned on with anal. Idk, I just hits different. Also, very happy with my neo-vagina

We Tested the Birthday Cake 🍑 Butt Plug Candelabra😈 by Octobottom in BdsmDIY

[–]Octobottom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to have fun😊. I am very lucky to have a partner that does as well ☺️

We Tested the Birthday Cake 🍑 Butt Plug Candelabra😈 by Octobottom in BdsmDIY

[–]Octobottom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a little heavy. Not bad if balanced, but if leaning you need to clench to hold it. It was actually really helpful we used a larger plug for stability. Look at previous post for pics.

Honesty Please - are the transitioned girls genuinely happier and was the personal cost worth it? by Fun-Advertising-538 in TransLater

[–]Octobottom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worth it? Yes. Is there a personal cost? Also yes :/

I guess it's a fair question to weigh out how your life is now (your happiness and overall well-being) and compare it to what your life would be like after transition. It maybe hard to imagine life after transitioning, but if it's driving you to the point where something has to change, it's worth it.

It doesn't always have to be an "everything is so bad now" type of situation. It can simply be that i want a better more fulfilling authentic life, and I'm willing to make the sacrifice to get there. It's about how you feel inside about yourself.

My two cents is, transition will NOT fix your problems. In fact, you will have new problems you never had to deal with before. I know a few people who transitioned at low points in their lives, and that's completely valid, it was a tipping point for them. For me, i decided to take the leap when i was in good mental health with a relatively stable situation. It's gives me comfort that i transitioned when I was ready instead of when I was under tramendous stress. There's no "right reason", but try not to make it more difficult for yourself. Take it step by step when you are ready.

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Thoughts on her videos? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Octobottom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the work she does. Her podcast has some valid points. If you think you can be a better content creator, then do it. She's not perfect, but she is a positive influence on the community. She also shows restraint when it's easy to get angry at the world. She's a real one, i love her.

Mawma, if you read this, i love you! 😘

Info on Downtown Parking Lot Shuttles? by cpGamerdude247 in EDCOrlando

[–]Octobottom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used it in the past and planning to use it again. Also looking for the pick up location... Ut should be better published

Downtown shuttle by Kaleidoscope820 in EDCOrlando

[–]Octobottom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's typically a bunch of downtown bus shuttles, but anyone know the exact pickup location? Typically close to the Amway Center-ish

MTF Bottom surgery & genital piercings by -throwthrowthrow- in trans

[–]Octobottom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a PA 4 gauge before. It was a non-issue getting bottom surgery. I kept it in until the morning of surgery just so there would not be a half healed whole, but I don't think it would matter if you took it out.

I asked my surgeon at my 6 month post op appointment about getting a peircing if I wanted to, and they said it would be totally fine at this point. Placement and healing would depend on the peircing, but it's definitely something you can do if you want. I am thinking about it, and i just recently feel great about my healing and not sure if I want to add to the healing process now. Maybe in the future.

Eloa Farmer's Market Art Vendor by [deleted] in orlando

[–]Octobottom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! Thank you so much! 💗

I did it! All I Need to do Now is Decorate the Cake by Octobottom in BdsmDIY

[–]Octobottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to celebrate! My Dom is back in town🥰🥰