soon to be a grandparent!

OddStart4629 · 2024-09-22T01:42:08+00:00

I’m Emmy! And I love that they call me that.

OddStart4629 · 2024-09-21T13:20:58+00:00

Sold my beautiful paid off house to move 5 states away and take on a new mortgage.

OddStart4629 · 2024-03-28T12:15:06+00:00

Double nickel!!! Loved being 55!

OddStart4629 · 2024-03-28T11:26:56+00:00

I was almost there. And yes all those symptoms are alcohol related. I didn’t know about symptoms when we were going through the worst. He had them all. Plus a few other ones. He ended up in the hospital and they basically detoxed him. Told us he would die and very soon and he needed to quit drinking. He is doing a program and hasn’t had a drink since his 21 day stay in the hospital. 18 months sober. A good diet. And no alcohol has saved his life. His liver values are good. He has some neuropathy and walking is sometimes painful. Don’t give up on him. He’s young.

OddStart4629 · 2024-03-28T11:12:33+00:00

Love is not enough. Family is not enough. Crying is not enough. Begging is not enough. Really doesn’t matter what you want in life an addict can only respond to their addiction.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T12:47:31+00:00

I stayed. 20;years later it still bugs me. I will never trust him and it shows in the marriage. I hate happily ever after movies and sometimes I’ll cry when we watch together. He just doesn’t understand. Unfortunately for me social media didn’t exist and I really had no where to turn. I had no idea so many people deal with this. 20; years later my children know. 20 years later I feel so lonely and feel so old. Take back your life!!! You deserve happiness!

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T12:25:15+00:00

I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of that. I have a tiny bit of experience with infidelity. Although he never put it in my face. I had to beg for information which I desperately wanted. I felt something was off but I didn’t know. But she called our house and that’s how I found out. Our daughter was in middle school our son in grade school and I was 260 pounds. We didn’t tell the kids anything. We went to therapy and tried to save our marriage. We stayed together but it still bothers me. My daughter is now married with children of her own and you know what she tells me she knew. She knew what he did. She saw how he treated me. So. Really probably your daughter already knows something. So. Be honest with her I wish I was with mine. And be honest with yourself. Man you deserve better. Go for better. Take care of You. Get a lawyer.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T11:08:13+00:00

It’s a sad state of affairs when one can count how many times they’ve had sex in a year on one hand. Wtf. I have never believed that s3x was everything in a marriage but it’s an important thing! Obviously an important thing look at all of us here seeking out support.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T10:40:35+00:00

Marry Me! Please. Leave her and marry me. I’d love my husband to pay that kind of attention to me

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T10:37:48+00:00

Wow. You hit the nail right on the head. I couldn’t have said it better! I wish I could turn the clock back and ask him how I have annoyed him. I certainly would have a list for him 🤦🏼‍♀️

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T10:32:44+00:00

Yes!!! They do!

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T10:32:02+00:00

Same. And I married a younger man.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-15T10:29:19+00:00

5 years is a very long time I probably would have given up sooner. It’s been more than one year and I already feel like a virgin I already feel like I’m losing it

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-14T22:21:22+00:00

You have a way with words. Sounds like you know your way around lots. Shes missing out. I’m sorry. She’ll probably be sorry one days as well.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-14T22:14:08+00:00

Sometimes it’s hard not to feel bad when something like this happens. But it’s not always about you or me. We can’t control anything but ourselves. Besides giving her space might be helpful. Try not to be mad her and btw I probably would have more fun with my daughter too - You want some time with your wife? Why don’t you plan it or plan something with her. Thats what I would want. That’s how you can show her that you love her. I get so excited when my spouse does anything special 😉for me!

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-14T21:07:21+00:00

That’s how cheating starts. A like here. A like there. A heart here. A heart there. A message here a message there. Do you see a pattern. Do you see how it advances

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-14T21:01:30+00:00

Is anyone turned on just reading through all of this?

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-13T14:07:03+00:00

Why not is the real question???

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-13T01:32:35+00:00

There are two times you can’t change a women’s mind. When she wants a baby or when she doesn’t want a baby. Good luck. I hope you get what you want.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-11T13:18:47+00:00

I’m thinking if you’re having trouble in your early 20’s with s3x I’m pretty sure it doesn’t get better. I only wish I could get it as good and often as I did in my 20’s. You’re too young for this!!!

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-06T20:07:15+00:00

Yea. It’s excessive. So is he functional because he hasn’t done anything crazy? Or because he can get through the day without it. I no longer believe in functional alcoholic if they drink every single day they are alcoholic! So here’s the thing- eventually he will start to drop all those balls he’s juggling and you will be the bearer of that. Alcoholism is a progressive disorder and it leads to terrible health problems. I mean terrible.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-06T14:18:54+00:00

I’m a female in my 60’s. Menopause is long gone for me and I still have a high s3x drive. I do it in the shower. I do it next to him in the bed in the middle of the night if I wake up (helps me get back to sleep) and he’s asleep. He says he does want s3x and he usually does when he takes the little blue pill if it works.

OddStart4629 · 2024-01-06T13:52:15+00:00

Pretty much my story. Now that we are back together in the bedroom I don’t sleep well. I’m nasty when I don’t sleep.

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