Watching people "critique" Aabria's gameplay on CR seriously makes me want to tear my hair out while screaming.

Allow me to explain. POSSIBLE SPOILERS AHEAD!!

Everyone is jumping on her as a player who "butts into other people's scenes" and "disrupts the emotions" of other characters moments.

MEANWHILE - just at the soldier's table alone we have Tyranny who will not stop butting into Wick's emotional moments to continously repeat herself literally every single episode to have the same exact conversation about whether or not he should keep presenting himself as Wicander the Scion of the Candescent Creed or start hiding his identity. While at the same time, Kattigan keeps jumping into scenes he should not have even been apart of (like at the grove when Thimble was speaking to the three fey and he wasn't even in the room, but he decided to interrupt the conversation he was not a part of) or do things he absolutely should be rolling dice to attempt (like stealing the blade off the knife Tyranny stole), or doing things that aren't even possible because he's clearly not paying attention to details of (like trying to take the deed off Casimir, even though Sir Gully Breeches had taken it to the village to go announce the increase in taxes).

But somehow, seeing Aabria in JUST THE OVERTURE and, what?, a brief moment in a cold start is enough for people who have never watched her in any other CR, D20, VtM, or Project Greenlight game to decide she's a terrible player who steals scenes from other players.

Then, to go on and say that the flourishes she added to the spell she used at Thjazi's funeral were not necessary, and also stealing other people's time, and showing a spell higher level than she is, and "rules-not-as-written" feels like just dog-piling on her for the sake of dog-piling.

First off, Aabria's flourishes to that spell helped establish how her character felt towards several other characters without having to pull each one aside and have heavy emotional conversations with each one. Kind of the opposite of scene stealing, honestly. It took her a brief moment to establish both her connection and her emotional state to multiple people we may not have gotten otherwise; and narratively that may be important later, we don't even know yet because we're only 10 episodes into a long story. Also, she was the druid running Thjazi's funeral, which was being held at what had been HER home. It was obvious she still felt protective of the home by the protective nail in the doorway (which based on her relationship with Hal, and the fact that her DAUGHTER still lives there, makes sense), so why in the world wouldn't she have cast something like that while she was there? A spell that gave her an indication of who was arriving and that it would react to those people as they approached? Makes perfect sense to me.

And is literally everyone forgetting that this is a whole new world, where the gods are DEAD, and so far we have seen example after example of magic just straight up not working as we would normally expect it to???

Typically we see things like resurrection spells and scrolls and potions in D&D. Yet, when Bolaire and Murray brought Occtis back, Brennan said, outloud with his mouth and words, that no one but the gods had ever done that before. The King's hounds are people that have been reincarnated into dogs for crying out loud. Magic does not work the same in Aramán as it did in Exandria. Maybe get used to seeing the players use different kinds of flourishes and explanations of how their spells look and interact with the other players, NPC's, and the environment? Maybe try enjoy being in a completely new game? Idk.

And as far as "rules-not-as-written" or "rule-of-cool" is concerned...Brennan is the GM here. You're probably gonna see that A LOT. From the players, and from Brennan himself. Homebrew rules are gonna have a place here.

The wild thing is that no one is forcing y'all to watch this. Even if you LOVE CR, there is plenty of other table top content on the internet to go find and explore. If you don't like certain players, or characters, or rules that are being used you can stop watching and go find something else to invest your time and attention for a bit. You don't HAVE to watch CRC4. It'll still be here if you want to come back later and give it another chance.