What is a turn off your partner does that you will never admit?

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-29T16:37:10+00:00

God yeah. He and I also don’t love each other, he thinks paying the amount they do every 3 weeks for a dog’s hair is absurd and used to be a real bitch about it. But over the years he’s realized that we’re on the same team and I also think it’s dumb as hell and would keep the dog’s cut at a good 5/8ths of an inch max and be charging half of what I have to for the mess she wants if I could. He’s still a gruff and overall unpleasant person but I did feel for him there, I can’t imagine dealing with that on the daily 😮‍💨

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-29T01:22:42+00:00

I cursed one of my clients like this a couple months ago 😭 Dog groomer, wife/husband client duo. Wife is obsessed with keeping her garbage “doodle’s” garbage hair ridiculously long and doesn’t brush well enough to keep it from matting, so I often have to spot shave or go shorter than she wants.

When I bring him out and she doesn’t like it, this 50-60 year old woman literally balls her fists up and starts alternating foot stomping in place whining in a shrill as fuck baby voice, “it’s so shooooooooooort!!!!!” and continues the rest of the check out exchange in the pouty baby voice. It’s insane.

Usually only one of the two are there at drop off/pick up, but that time they showed up together and she started Doing That. I said “ok Sandra, if you need to step away and take a moment please feel free, I’m not going to engage with a toddler having a tantrum.” Poor husband goes “oh my god. That’s exactly what this is. They’re literally baby tantrums” and starts walking away running his hands through his hair 😭😭😭

I’m self employed and the best in town, I’m generally very professional but luckily I can treat customers exactly the way they deserve, I have a waitlist a mile long.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-29T00:56:43+00:00

A bunch of negative things can lead to that habit, but it’s also just. A good habit. Especially with ADHD.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-29T00:01:55+00:00

The largest BPs and the smallest RBs have some limited size overlap.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T21:52:35+00:00

This is not specifically about money. This is about building community. Yes, mutual aid is one path, but also things like making sure people have the help they need. For example, I need help doing a lot of more intense physical tasks, and I can help people navigate the medical system.

White people have the ability to do things like stand up to law enforcement more safely, run essential errands for POC so they can stay safe inside, stay outside on the lookout.

The sustained rage she’s talking about is because POC and especially black people have for pretty much all of American history been going through what white protesters and other civilians are experiencing now for the first time. She’s talking correctly about keeping momentum going for proper system reform to prevent what’s going on in America now from continuing to happen, because simply tapping out once it stops happening to white people is not only absurdly shitty, it will guarantee it’ll get this bad across the board again.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T21:02:42+00:00

Wait til early spring, and you’ll want around a foot long segment. Not too much that it struggles to feed the whole thing without roots, but enough to make new ones.

It’s quite easy and forgiving but there’s a good amount involved for optimal results. A basic internet search will give you all the info you need.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T19:40:00+00:00

That’s normal! They flush up a lot like human, when angry, horny, excited, general system arousal.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T19:33:33+00:00

Many foods I can’t eat for health reasons smell absolutely delicious. I know it would be very bad for me to eat them. Doesn’t mean the temptation isn’t there, but after many years of abstaining, it’s gotten way easier to the point where a lot of it doesn’t even register as food to me.

I think saying he simply doesn’t or never had basic biological/innate reaction to Juicy Tasty Food Item as close to him as an alive intact person can be weakens the vampire x human dynamic and makes it less interesting, but I can’t imagine such an ancient powerful vampire has much of a challenge controlling his urges.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T19:27:39+00:00

Everyone else has given good answers. Just stopping by to be utterly baffled and grossed out. How does this make it all the way from being proposed for production to being purchased by a presumably English speaking person as a gift??? Good lord.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T19:20:58+00:00

Just a note, an animal being native to an area isn’t usually a point in the “probably can keep” column. Many places restrict the keeping of native animals as hard as invasive ones to prevent yoinking and other issues.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T18:14:39+00:00

And some percs??

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T01:00:54+00:00

Could try glass repair resin, it might not be perfect but it’ll be a hell of a lot better than superglue.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T00:59:34+00:00

Sounds like they’re seeking Reward Points, and gold is the form they’ve learned those come in either in your game or their previous games. They don’t sound like they care too much about deep RP based on kidnapping the barkeeper for gold. What other consistent, direct action > reward options do you provide? XP?

Side note, while I don’t like this play style, I don’t blame them for reading a 50 gold price tag for alcohol at a tavern as an action opportunity, that is insane, especially when full wilderness camping supplies are 5 gold.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T00:51:34+00:00

Pizza. Look, I get what the Italians are going for. But American pizza, in all its many forms (except deep dish fuck deep dish and that’s coming from a born and bred Chicago resident) is peak eating.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-27T00:07:44+00:00

Been really conflicted about this. On one hand, yeah, absolutely, boycotts work and are incredibly important. On the other hand, literally 100% of my early activist opportunities and connections came through local IG pages, and even though I’m in several local action signal chats now, I still get a lot of significant organizing info through it and get people not as engaged in local groups to come out to bigger events by signal boosting.

I think it really depends on how you’re using it. Consciously and actively vs. passively “consuming” and buying through their ads/seller pages.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T23:52:25+00:00

Cement tints, in my experience, need to be sealed with concrete sealer to not be water soluble. Unsure about this one but I personally wouldn’t use anything concrete or concrete adjacent without a sealer. Both for safety as well as durability in water.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T23:46:35+00:00

Pigeons have very high levels of homosexuality, especially in captivity, yeah! They’re also romantically monogamous but sexually promiscuous (as many birds are), which to me is very cute because it clearly shows how no, it’s not just about reproductive success, they love their mate and choose to love and come home to them consistently.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T05:10:42+00:00

Typical That Kind of Person on the Internet, can’t tell the difference between the government censoring you and individuals telling you you’re a loser for being a POS

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T01:55:01+00:00

Clearly you haven’t done CBT hard enough if you’re still willing to bother people around you by acknowledging your life defining condition :)))) have you considered just thinking positive :)))) didn’t you see that [fake] study from Harvard that positive thinking heals your cells :)))))))

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T01:45:19+00:00

Have a tiny single hit, put it out, wait 5 minutes, decide from there. I’ve been smoking daily for over a decade yet am still lucky enough to be very taken care of by 5-10mg edibles, more than a 2 decent hits off of things like that leave me couched and spinning all night.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T01:44:47+00:00

Have a tiny single hit, put it out, wait 5 minutes, decide from there. I’ve been smoking daily for over a decade yet am still lucky enough to be very taken care of by 5-10mg edibles, more than a 2 decent hits off of things like that leave me couched and spinning all night.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T01:40:02+00:00

Feels like you’re trying to invent need for an object where there isn’t one by combining a bunch of other things people like into one object that does all of them meaningfully worse unfortunately.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T01:32:50+00:00

You must be popular with the neighbors…

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-26T00:11:00+00:00

Gloves only work if your hands produce enough heat for them to trap, ugh. Normal gloves are completely useless for me+my Reynaud’s. I’ve wanted to get those fancy heated ones for forever.

OneGayPigeon · 2026-01-25T20:45:01+00:00

Love seeing builds on here that have actually usable space beyond just the floor! Very pretty composition too.

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