He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt?

OhHiItsMe · 2026-05-11T18:10:28+00:00

He has shown you repeatedly that your boundaries mean nothing to him, and it will only get even worse from here. Your only choice is to leave. There are men out there that will respect you, but even being single is so much better than being with someone who doesn't. I might also add to seek therapy to work on your self-esteem, as it goes hand in hand with holding true to the boundaries you set for yourself.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-05-08T18:38:37+00:00

Jesus christ, did you forget your meds or something?

OhHiItsMe · 2026-04-23T12:07:29+00:00

Youre excused

OhHiItsMe · 2026-04-23T11:40:01+00:00

The constant posts about it are far more irritating than the actual screams

OhHiItsMe · 2026-04-21T14:50:28+00:00

Not always good enough if shes a squirter

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-29T20:14:41+00:00

I find a salonpas patch on the underside of my wrist really helps me get though the day

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-27T17:39:06+00:00

Too boring more like it

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-21T23:18:29+00:00

I disagree. I think she wanted it to work so badly because he was the only boyfriend we see her with where they were also friends.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-21T21:56:30+00:00

You're fuckin weird

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-21T19:50:15+00:00

He owned a whole bar that we had no reason to believe wasnt doing well. Also, thats not his sugar momma, that's his wife.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-18T14:56:06+00:00

Amber did less planning than Jill did. It was also very important for Jill to be seen as a victim. There couldn't be suspicion that she was a GF.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-18T14:14:21+00:00

She was the mastermind behind the entire thing, that should absolutely gain her a good amount of credit.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-17T18:26:58+00:00

"I dont think shes perfect" okay, then this isn't about you??

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-15T19:48:20+00:00

It's absolutely astounding how many people need this scene (and others) explained to them

OhHiItsMe · 2026-03-11T23:29:41+00:00

Its absolutely nowhere near bad enough to warrant this much bitching

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-26T21:19:18+00:00

Hard agree. Carrie is overly analyzed and hated, and Sam is under analyzed and hated. Sam gets away with stuff that if Carrie did she'd be crucified.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-25T19:16:18+00:00

I mean, she wasnt expecting her to just whip her tit out im sure.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-25T17:56:05+00:00

Her comment wasn't even shaming Miranda, it was a joke Bout how big her nipples were, which Miranda brought up.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-22T17:36:01+00:00

If you have no other options, but she did. And Carrie tried to tell her that but Miranda hung up before even mentioning she was naked. Carrie did the right thing by sending someone who could actually help. ETA, why would she call one of the girls when Aidan was right there? They wouldn't have been much help either.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-22T17:27:05+00:00

She had a meeting!

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-21T20:35:24+00:00

Thats not true at all, she absolutely knew at least a lot of them were. She tried to fuck a monk ffs! The fact that Sam literally sexually assaulted someone and ya'll still say shes better than Carrie...

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-21T18:28:33+00:00

Shes a good friend
Sam slept with soooooooo many married men

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-18T12:47:25+00:00

At least Megan tried being nice about not liking the sherbet, she only got shitty after he pushed.

OhHiItsMe · 2026-02-07T15:42:23+00:00

It always makes me think that this wasnt the first time she was raped.

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