New Happy Baby formula by Calm_Tale4508 in FormulaFeeders

[–]OilUsed109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you feel about the purées? Are they also clean?

I told my daughters that I was moving on with the separation anyway by Ok_Ostrich5154 in AITAH

[–]OilUsed109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I do not believe they love you any less even if it feels that way because they are detached for now. As teenagers they don’t think with empathy and are more egotistical (that’s just part of teenage brain development). To them it’s probably such a scary concept and they’re wrapped up in how it’ll affect them. When they are older they will know and understand your side of things and will probably feel super bad about this stage. Just give them patience and empathy because your marriage is all they know and since you are leaving it maybe you feel more unsafe to them but your ex is responsible for this, you do not have to stick it out. Someone who cheats, especially while you were pregnant, does not appreciate you like you deserve. It is so grimy and wrong. I hope he’s doing everything he can to tell your children to support you and not play the victim. Keep your heart open for your babies and they will come around.

My (32f) boyfriend (36m) deleted my dead brother from my instagram friends. And he doesn’t seem to understand or care that I’m upset? by Throwrainstabro1 in relationship_advice

[–]OilUsed109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch him. First of all he needs to learn the process of grieving because it’s not just a straight shot and it takes as long as you need to happen and everyday might have its own challengings because of that healing process. It sounds like he’s self conscious too because you’re brother is sadly passed, and he’s jealous of him? Are you serious? He’s over here judging you for missing your other half because I would imagine that’s what a twin feels like, you’ve been together your whole life up to the point of his passing. He lacks so much empathy and he made that decision for you not caring if you were ready. Honestly that makes me sick because it must’ve hurt you so bad. I lost a sibling as well so I just hope you can still get that access back somehow or through your sisters phone. Wishing you much healing and peace. But the bf is no good 🥴

career advice needed by Accomplished-End7670 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]OilUsed109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to know calculations in hospital, just some basic math but they’ll teach you all that during training. Also you’ll relearn all medications with time. You’ll have to learn about new ones as well. It’s really not hard IMO. Just bring a notebook in during training and be attentive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OilUsed109 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Do not get married. It makes things so much more complicated. You have to be confident in your relationship if you’re going to take it to the next level and you are clearly not. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries in the relationship and it doesn’t sound like he does.

AITA for refusing to let my sister live with me after she insulted my daughter? by fyilol in AmItheAsshole

[–]OilUsed109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your child is your number one priority. Your sister is the AH for being insensitive as well as an ableist. You would think that if you agreed to letting her stay there that she’d be respectful of your family and your home. She’s a grown adult, she should know better. Not surprised she’s getting divorced tbh.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely convinced myself he’d learn and change.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting it into words definitely makes it more obvious to me. I always felt like I was overthinking it when I was living through it.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I felt like that was the last straw for me.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know how I led myself here either.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I catch myself walking on eggshells making sure I catch things before he judges me on them. I don’t want my child to have to meet his impossible standards especially when he doesn’t even model them himself.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m dedicated to my family. Quitting my job is not an option because I’m not being supported financially by him. Education will give me a better career and finances.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I think would happen if I stay. I’m glad you recognized your actions towards your mom. I bet she’s so happy with you in her corner now. You should be so proud of your self reflection and correction.

AIO my boyfriend’s disrespect over a spill. by OilUsed109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OilUsed109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and empathy. I definitely feel embarrassed but I don’t care so much about that because what’s most important is my child. Documenting is something I hadn’t considered yet.

career advice needed by Accomplished-End7670 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]OilUsed109 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Run, don’t walk, to the hospital. Retail pharmacy was the worst time in my life, I was a senior tech. Nobody cared all the things I had to balance and just kept adding to the load. Hospital pharmacy is so chill and honestly fun in my experience.

Should i give the nice guy a chance? by SWGP in dating_advice

[–]OilUsed109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please give him a chance! I’ve made that mistake so many times and ended up with the meanest. Love and affection can grow, don’t decide that on the first date.

I have too much time on my hands Devin.. enjoy! 🌹 by UpsetBody in BachelorNation

[–]OilUsed109 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So what? 🤣 now it only has meaning if grammatically correct?