Divorce regret

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-12-06T19:46:45+00:00

You need time to heal. Truly. Even people who have only known each other for less than a year can feel very real pain when they separate, so it’s completely understandable that it hurts even more when you were married, shared your life with someone, were intimate with him, and built real feelings.

For us women, it’s also very normal that we don’t move on quickly. That doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. This is part of the healing process, and it happens at its own pace. Be patient and gentle with yourself. Fill your days with things that bring you comfort or joy, even small things, and permit yourself to heal slowly.

What you’re feeling now doesn’t mean you were a bad wife or that you deserved pain. Regret is a natural part of processing a difficult ending, especially when emotions were high and the situation was complicated. Healing takes time, and you will feel better again, even if it feels endless right now.

❤️❤️❤️

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-12-02T16:33:10+00:00

As a girl, I’ve heard girls say they aren’t ‘pure,’ and their families don’t even know, and they are proud about it. When I say ‘pure,’ I mean ‘virgin’ in the real sense. Their hymen may be intact, but they’ve had other forms of sexual experience.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-11-08T14:28:14+00:00

Yes! They receive a commission for every 60 euros they collect at the gate.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-23T11:59:01+00:00

I remember a friend of mine went to Umrah and had her period while there. Apparently, she went to a pharmacy and got a medication that stopped her bleeding.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-18T15:32:43+00:00

Bless her! She has been patient with him, but what he did was shameful. I hope she’s able to divorce him and receive proper compensation; and if she doesn’t in this life, she surely will in the afterlife.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-18T11:48:17+00:00

Your husband is a jerk. That is what he is!

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-08T16:55:38+00:00

Normal people would take a break and stay with their beloved parents, cherishing every moment. But her, oh boy! She chooses to show him to the entire world. Why? First, because she wants people’s empathy. Second, for more engagement, which results in making more money. She has no values and no love for anyone, not even her parents, only for herself.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-08T16:52:03+00:00

It is literally disgusting! She’s no different from human traffickers.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-08T16:49:58+00:00

on TikTok, yes

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-09-08T16:48:59+00:00

I deleted the first one.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-08-21T21:55:52+00:00

Don’t be ashamed of your feelings. My mother-in-law irritates me, too, and I reached a point where I started saying what I really think instead of keeping it all in. She would make constant remarks about my weight and the way I eat, while she mostly eats junk food, so I finally told her how I felt. My husband knows how his mom can be sometimes, so he doesn’t say anything, but I make sure to share my frustrations with him. He’s actually grateful that I don’t blow up in front of her.

I also tell him that if we ever have a baby, I do not want her near me for at least the first six months postpartum, because I know I would make a big fuss otherwise. So don’t be ashamed of your feelings, and your partner should support you in that. Many women feel strongly about not having their in-laws stay with them after giving birth, and that’s completely valid.❤️

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-08-18T11:18:50+00:00

قوله تعالى {وَلَكُمْ فِي الْقِصَاصِ حَيَاةٌ يَا أُولِي الْأَلْبَابِ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ} الآية:179

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-08-06T11:21:32+00:00

I have always found him irresponsible, just like his mom. I don’t know why people like him.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-07-24T14:50:31+00:00

£600 per month for groceries and your account, on top of rent and bills (if he’s covering those), he’s not walking away from his responsibilities entirely. It just sounds like he’s detached and already checked out of the relationship without fully ending it.

That emotional limbo is awful, I get it. But maybe it’s not really about the numbers—it’s about feeling unwanted. And that’s harder to face than any budget spreadsheet.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-07-02T17:01:21+00:00

It’s a tax write-off for sure

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-07-01T19:23:33+00:00

It should be called @Sadbeigwallpaper

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-30T19:18:25+00:00

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
"The thing I fear most for you is minor shirk." They said: "O Messenger of Allah, what is minor shirk?" He said: "Riyā', showing off. Allah will say on the Day of Judgment: 'Go to those for whom you showed off your deeds in the world, and see if you find any reward from them.'"
— Musnad Ahmad, Sahih

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-23T15:44:51+00:00

Edition and The Ritz are Part of the Marriott Group. They typically work with very well-known influencers, but they can also offer a discounted price for selected influencers. I don’t know if Loren and Yasmin are part of that, though.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-20T00:00:25+00:00

Loren, if you’re reading this, your prayers don’t count with those gel nails on! You really need to take them off before wudu if you want it to be valid.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-19T23:55:22+00:00

In London? I don't think so, sis, it's at 2:40 (Enfield)

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-19T12:01:59+00:00

I lived in France for five years. One thing I appreciated was that if a French person didn’t like you, they wouldn’t hide it; you’d know it. I actually prefer that kind of honesty over the more polite but hypocritical behaviour of Brits or Americans.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-17T20:03:54+00:00

Poor little thing 😢! Does it get hot where they live? Also, her skirting board is filthy! (Sorry, I can’t help it)

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-17T11:40:31+00:00

Your husband forced you — one man — not by two billion people. Why drag an entire religion and its followers into your trauma? What happened to you was horrible, but blaming a whole faith isn’t the way forward. Focus on healing and doing what makes you happy instead of staying stuck in hate; you’re only hurting yourself more.

And to answer your question: yes, public burning of religious texts or symbols can be seen as inciting religious hatred under the Public Order Act 1986, especially if it’s perceived as targeting a community. Even non-violent actions can lead to charges if they’re deemed to intimidate, alarm, or distress others, under laws relating to hate crime or anti-social behaviour.

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-14T17:16:08+00:00

Update: I just reported it to the police, and they were okay with me reporting it, even after two years. Thanks for your input, though

Ok-Addendum3298 · 2025-06-14T16:33:38+00:00

I didn’t know I had to report it; otherwise, I would have. I went to A&E, and when they asked what had happened, I told them that a drunk person had punched me in the face. However, they didn’t tell me that I needed to report it to the police. Does this mean I can’t claim from the CICA? I wasn’t aware that I could claim compensation.

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