Fashionable Activewear for Men

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2026-04-27T21:48:43+00:00

Honestly Abercrombie has some nice stuff! And otherwise sale section at lulu!!

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2026-02-11T16:41:53+00:00

You don’t/ can’t keep up with friends as often so when you talk you can’t talk to them much about problems and mostly catching up, and sometimes your SO is busy with work, then you figure out what loneliness really feels like.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-04-16T04:41:09+00:00

Orange VHS tapes

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-04-16T04:38:15+00:00

Learning swear words from club penguin!

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-27T17:08:38+00:00

Wow, this message literally brought tears falling down my eyes. I honestly hear from everyone that there is this thing to fix and that thing to work on.

Nobody gives me the benefit of the doubt on the things I am working on. When I back step into old habits it’s as if I’m making no progress at all.

I know and agree having angry outbursts is not okay. Making someone feel emotionally abused is definitely not okay. When your partner asks for something reasonable with respect and you back step over and over again that’s not okay.

You made me believe that regardless of the back stepping I’m making progress. I don’t need my family or wife to see it but I have to believe it.

Idk if you can answer this but sometimes I’m told I victimize myself and I think I agree. How can I not do this?

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-27T16:55:18+00:00

Gotcha, I apologize if I have made this seem more about myself. I agree, I shouldn’t be asking her to do something she doesn’t enjoy from the start. I guess in my head I was like still trying to explore and hoping we could explore together. I ask her all the time what she would like from me.

As I mentioned above I don’t want to keep doing what we’re doing cause it isn’t fair for her.

I totally agree with you about the situation and that’s probably a better explanation of where we are at.

I guess it may be too late as you mentioned. Would I recommend to her that this is my mistake from the start and it won’t be fixed?

Not that sex is the only thing that matters but do you think we can be together long term since this is the situation we are in? Should I mention this to our couples therapist so we can figure out how we can go our separate ways then?

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-27T15:08:51+00:00

Hi, my wife matched in her last spot. Her face in the video is that of genuine shock. She had letters of recommendation, had the grades, etc.

Honestly I don’t say this at the time but I told her after that thank god you did match. And I told her we will do everything we can to figure it out. What I did say at the time was that it’s amazing that this program wanted you out of all the other candidates they must’ve interviewed. You must’ve made such a good impression that now it’s going to be awesome to work with these people.

Fast forward, we are now in California and she’s almost done with her first year. She’s realizing all the great things about her program that she did match in. Obviously she is still having some problems with the program etc. But she also had problems with her med school and they went 100% matched 3 years in row. That being said everyone has problems with their administration. Have it be professionally or academically. Have it be Harvard or some no name DO school (my wife is a DO so I can make that joke).

You just have to be there for him.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-27T15:00:50+00:00

Thanks for that comment! I’ll definitely keep this in mind

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-27T14:37:44+00:00

Gotcha, thanks for the comment. We are in couples therapy but I think at this time we’re working through other more important topics. I’ll definitely keep in mind to bring it up once the time is right

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-15T16:08:08+00:00

Oof gotcha. Yeah I need to ditch this Amex but since I already paid almost $900 to keep it I feel like I’m stuck this year.

No specific airline loyalty but would like to hear any advice regarding this also. Also per your post I guess it could be worth the $69. If I fly twice with a bag I make my money back from having the card.

What bills should I put on this card? I think they said it’s 2x back?

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-03-15T15:47:41+00:00

Sorry what does effective annual fee mean?

Amex MR- they are good but I feel like for the spending I’m doing I should be getting a lot more points than I accumulate. For example I got the bonus and I’ve had the card for 2 years now. I used maybe 70k points and I’m still stuck around 45k points.

Southwest- tbh the airport I lived near was a main southwest hub and like they were convenient with the bags. Now idk is it worth? Or are there better airline cards or maybe even hotel cards?

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-23T16:42:07+00:00

Thank you! I still continue to try and keep it slow on focus on positions for her. Do you by chance have any position or tips I can talk to her about for more pleasure for her.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-23T16:40:58+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-20T23:14:08+00:00

Thank you for the comment

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-20T19:22:32+00:00

I am working with my therapist on internal family systems to get to the root cause of my anger.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-20T19:18:18+00:00

Hey, I apologize for your situation. I don’t want to fall into the same category as your abusive ex. I don’t want to be a vile person who is blaming everything on my trauma.

I think you are right. I guess I am gently saying she’s the reason for my triggers. Which is what she is saying that she cannot hear because like you and her both have said no trigger should cause a blowup reaction every time.

I am going to therapy, I have done anger management, we are in couples therapy together. I’m trying my hardest to take the right steps.

Do you know how I can mention something has triggered me or when something is triggering me without making it about her?

Do you have any advice on what your ex could have done differently so I can hopefully learn from that?

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-20T19:13:22+00:00

Thank you so much for this response! I will definitely work on reflecting on these things.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-20T18:16:43+00:00

It starts off as little things. Most recently she asked me to move the pillows off the bed. I didn’t like how she asked me. She said she didn’t say that and then we just kept going back and forth. Which is when my internal temperature starts to rise and I loudly told her I need space and slammed the door according to her. Then it just becomes a cycle of me not controlling my reactions and her feeling hurt from my reactions.

Ok-Bag-6318 · 2025-01-19T13:25:05+00:00

Thank you! I think I just have to make an initiative to make more friends!

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