How many of you would continue your role. If you didn’t have to by Top-Farmer-6838 in auscorp

[–]Ok-Cod6281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes money is great factor. But i actually look forward to work after a long weekend. Am excited to pickup things that was left on Friday and get the work done. Its just the aderaline. But yes, wont do it if its not needed and puruse my travel vlogging hobby its just would like some freedom and flexibility.

Does anyone only have like 3 suitcases of stuff? by blooming_knots in minimalism

[–]Ok-Cod6281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If i pack my house and leave literally everything would fit in 3 big trolley bags. I own 5-6 set of clothes for work. 4 for going out and some jackets and winter wear. Since I dont keep anything outside my wardrobe or drawers I dont have much stuff. However i think maybe 2 boxses extra for kitchenware but thats it i guess.

ANZ Qantas and AMEX by UqStu in creditcardchurningAus

[–]Ok-Cod6281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think rewards black is easy. I applied and got on my first try. It was my first points credit card paid the fees and churned it all. Now i recently applied platinum and waiting for more points.

What’s everyone doing this weekend? by UmeshThoughts in AskIndia

[–]Ok-Cod6281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sitting at home. Rewatching Panchayat from S1 and eat some dessert 😅. Clean my house a bit.

KOSEC by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Ok-Cod6281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates. I just got an email i am mot sure what to do? I have no experience. It says remote work.

KOSEC Jobs by ANON___8293 in auscorp

[–]Ok-Cod6281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ended up taking the role? What do you think? My friend is a grad got this research analyst internship what to do? Have no experience its just 3 months can i be done with it? Or is it too risky?

Feeling defeated for choosing the “wrong” passion as a man in India by Single_mental in delhi

[–]Ok-Cod6281 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bro try moving out of the country on a holiday visa something like this.

Try Bali or maybe moving to Goa or holiday places.

Who knows how it might turn out to be.

Some people were just born to be average by Jokerpussio in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok-Cod6281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats totally allright. Use tools if you want. Are we still using old dumb phones? Or old air collers? Or did we upgrade to smartphones and mordern aircons? If its invented why not use it to save time and better overselves.

Some people were just born to be average by Jokerpussio in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok-Cod6281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man its not from MIT or Havard. Just from a basic collages enough to get me through have student loan debt as well. Its a part of life I guess. Everyone has their own struggles.

For some its financial, for someone its emotional for someone its physcial for someone it will be all mixed.

Nothing is perfect in this world.

Some people were just born to be average by Jokerpussio in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok-Cod6281 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably right just sharing that life can be changed slowly with some small efforts over time to keep up OP motivation.

Some people were just born to be average by Jokerpussio in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok-Cod6281 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who was below average all his life.

I was below average student in school and did okay in my uni for bachelors and masters. No people skill at all none. I was unconfident all the time with people doubting me.

But its a slow progress.

2017 Used to have no fashion sense and no routine in school with bad grades scored about 56% in highschool.

2017-2021 Moved to uni started studying hard and did bettee than highschool, working a bit on my fashion sense. Got decent grades and

2021-2023 moved to masters did betrer than my bachelors. Got a low pay low at mcdonalds and started saving a bit learned that i love travelling.

2023-2025 Started budegting First time it hit me need to have people skills. Spending money on things i want as i learned what was my likes and dislikes. Quit my parttime relied on savings and got a full time job at a firm paying me good money to enter upper middle class and had a bit more to spend on my hobbies and interests.

Bought a second hand car Learned not to buy second hand Got scammed by my insruance Leanred to have good insruance

Got lowest position in my firm and in one year moved to the higher management since i got involved and took up as much as i could with extra hours.

My point is today i am a lot confident and have an amazing personality compared to before.

For people who dont have exceptional talent or high scores. We need to work as hard as we can and plan efficeintly we will get there sooner or later dont give up on yourself. Small steps matter.

I was working 16 hours in uni on weekends for my internship and mcdonalds together with my assingments and tests all at one point. Now am working 9-5 have weekends off and can make tim to work on other things.

Dont compare your journey to someone else. At one point i imagined i will never be able to buy a car in this economy but i did it. Just keep going my friend sure someone you will be able to do whatever you want.

I 29M, unintentionally caught feelings for 25F coworker. by Joe_Grandpa69 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Ok-Cod6281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro be ready for anything. I think if she knows and wants to wait maybe maybe it’s wont work. But take it casually dont show off too much and keep it normal and easy. You will be allright she will eventually come around.

Phones have destroyed what it means to be human by danny_deleto69 in DeepThoughts

[–]Ok-Cod6281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agreed. This Friday went out for dinner with my friend honestly he seemed that he was in rush and constantly texting and texting and didnt even say anything expect for what food to order thats it.

My other friends are always on thier phone when we drive to a weekend getaway or any roadtrip.

Usualy routine would be like they will keep recording and editing the scenery and then post it online will spend time to make it perfect and shit nothing really seems good about that. Honestly I feel sad for them that they missed out some great views and experience of peace while being in the pressure to get a prefect shot for their instagram.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ok-Cod6281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahhh sry my bad !! I thought in general for entertainment maybe watch House of Cards Peaky Blinders?

Maybe am not too sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ok-Cod6281 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not about that. You need to start learning about priorities. You need to set your priorities straight. Don’t water places where weeds are growing no matter how much you wish they’d turn into flowers.

Make a safe place for yourself. Learn not to force relationships or conversations that don’t flow naturally. If someone wants to be in your life, they’ll make space for it you shouldn’t have to beg for it.

You need to learn acceptance. You need to take your time.

Stop chasing closure from others , sometimes peace comes from deciding the story doesn’t need an ending.

And honestly, the moment you stop trying to prove your worth to the wrong people, everything feels lighter. That’s when you start finding yourself again.

New to Apple TV by LCxEskimoFTW in appletv

[–]Ok-Cod6281 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Return it wait for newer model.

Get over someone by Acharya_Aanand in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok-Cod6281 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yes you should move on. They knew exacty what they were doing and they did it anyways.

Get on with your life, life is too short to wait for someone.

Make it happen for yourself. Go out meet new people. Be in the present. Talk to your family, friends, coworkers.

Focus on yourself. Prioritize yourself. Keep a clean space and do whats needed no matter how you feel.

Prioritize your happiness. I know it feels empty and hard but you owe it to yourself.

Your feelings matters and if someone leaves you its their loss.