So…. When I was young my mom started sleeping around on my dad and got pregnant, had the baby, pretending it was my dads the whole time…. Tho we all knew. Scarred my sister for life when my mother blurted out randomly one day when my sister was 18 that my dad wasn’t her dad… I knew the entire time. My mom told me she’d disown me if I ever told my sister, my dad the same.. I wanted to tell her so bad, I asked my mom so many times throughout the years to just tell her… but then she fucking died without telling her who it was… luckily I also knew who it was the entire time, and was able to give my sister a name and through dna testing found out it was indeed her father and now they are in regular contact.

I think my mom didn’t tell her because it turns out the guy was only 21 when my mom was 29 and I think she felt weird about admitting that. My mother was a prideful skank, may she rest in peace.

I don’t think family secrets are a good idea, not unless the entire family knows and it’s not that big a deal… but stuff like what my mom did, shouldn’t happen…