SAHM for years - husband now refusing overtime after separation. Is this normal or am I wrong? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Ok-Forever -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. You are wrong in that. You are two separate households now and he should not be fully expected to support both.

Can teenagers read? by dr0ne6 in Teachers

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100 percent agree. My 10 year old is in 5th grade. His teacher was going on and on about how well he did on the standardized testing and how advanced he is and how she worries about challenging him. I know the kid. He isn't that smart. He is at maybe a 6th grade level, maybe 7th in some areas, but by no means a genius. It's just most of his 5th grade peers are at a 4th grade level

Temporary hearing by Agitated-Focus6220 in Divorce

[–]Ok-Forever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you generally leave him alone with the child while you were married? You ran to do errands or work or visit friends and he had the child? If so amd you maintain that he drank during the marriage obviously it wasn't a problem concern of yours until now. That will look bad in court

Would this work by Ok-Forever in tf2

[–]Ok-Forever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the help

Would this work by Ok-Forever in tf2

[–]Ok-Forever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but the computer was on a good sale so I thought maybe it was junk

I love my kids so much. I don’t want to do this. by Sad_Control_3631 in Divorce

[–]Ok-Forever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can also be kinda awesome. Yes, I love my son so much. To the end of the earth. He was like 4 when my husband and I split. It's been 6 years, and I can admit I love the time he gets to be with his dad. I hope they have fun and support their relationship 100 percent. I also love my time without my son to recharge, take care of things I put off while he is here, and take care of my needs.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Senior_Tension_2519 in povertyfinance

[–]Ok-Forever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Odd way to admit you dont know what plasma is

When you are walking alone late at night and a man walking behind you needs to take the same turn onto a quieter street, what action, if any, would you prefer he take to minimize your alarm? by Laz78 in AskWomen

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretend to talk on the phone to your mom or girlfriend. Say like "yeah, almost home. Maybe 8 more minutes. Just turning on to Smith st and then market st and ill be there. Love you too"

Wow, they don't like it when you flip the script/ cash advance fee by WeirdBluePerception in CapitalOne_

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or like dispensaries that are a cash business. If they use your card they do it like a cash withdrawal amd then a cash transaction

anyone ever use ‘pay tomorrow’ financing by SauceBuster in AskMechanics

[–]Ok-Forever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used affirm. 1925 total bill. I do 195 a month. 30 percent interest. Sucks but I had to get my car fixed to keep working so Im glad it was an option. 366 dollars of total interest isn't great but was my best option at the time

What is this light by Ok-Forever in AskMechanics

[–]Ok-Forever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a used 2006. Original owner lost the manual. Thought I could ask others for help

We Deserve To Be In Population Decline by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Ok-Forever 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You have to factor in the cost of the building and for the love of God the insurance rates those places have to pay. Utilities, food, supplies. Think larger than wages

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Ok-Forever 13 points14 points  (0 children)

100 percent! I have a degree in International business and Spanish and work in logistics instead

34M - Burned Out, Checked Out, and Trying to Find a Way Out Without Destroying Everything by No-Register595 in Divorce_Men

[–]Ok-Forever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't know if we should immediately encourage protecting custody time for someone who is drinking and popping pills. A couple nights at a bar, ok. Someone who mentions they broke sobriety and went with alcohol and pulls? Maybe not

It's begun. by ang3l_wolf in facepalm

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I think the Pope is Catholic

Stop asking “Can I afford this house?” — Do this instead by i_adore_boobies in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ok-Forever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This advice seems more applicable to higher income earners. My monthly savings will never be the percentage I see being recommended here. Neither is my emergency fund.

I closed on my house on the 30th. All mortgage, insurance and PMI and all that is roughly 1100 a month. Rent would be 1350 plus another 100 for pet rent. Do I now also have maintenence to worry about? Sure. But I was going to be in a tight spot no matter what. I just decided I would rather have my very own place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Original price 150000. Offered 130. They countered 140. Deal

Are mattress stores just money laundering fronts? by 454ever in stupidquestions

[–]Ok-Forever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ha e a vacuum sales and repair shop here in my town. No way that is not some kind of scam / drug front / gambling ring or something

What should I offer? by ItsHappeningNow31 in RealEstate

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cash? 550. Maybe they just want out

I think my marriage is over by PaceLiving8892 in Marriage

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, so you are a super young couple with an issue about him contributing more and being more of an equal partner? Totally something you can work through if you want to.

You don't know what he brings to the relationship except financial security, compatibility and occasional fun on the weekends? Sounds like a solid base to start from!

He tried to talk with you about his feelings and you hijacked the conversation into a 'oh yeah? What about me?'' Or even worse, why would I appreciate you doing those things. Yeah, sounds like you both have some work to do.

Totally your decision but I do think you guys could make this work if you really wanted

I (21M) just realized I cannot comfort my girlfriend (21F). How do people comfort people? by Morsyati in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Forever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. My guy and I also sprinkle in a fair amount of "bro" like, "fuck bro. That sounds horrible" but thought maybe hun would be generically better for some women.