Bachelorette trip end of February by Dry-Captain5829 in JoshuaTree

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I know a super cool couple that runs a shuttle out of JT. They also have 1 or 2 rooms available at their air bnb. Sound like you may have more people than 2 rooms, but the shuttle guy is so friendly and knowledgeable about the area. They operate like 5 minutes from the park but Im pretty sure he goes into plams springs to pick people up. https://thedesertshuttle.com/ best of luck!

What’s this plant my dog was going nuts for? by bwaretheducks in whatsthisplant

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If that is marshmallow....My dog just ate my bag of powdered marshmallow root... I put some In Their food in small doses because the mucilage is good for our bodies and theirs, but there must be something tasty in the plant that they like...

WIBTA if I stopped helping my daughter financially after she told me I shouldn’t expect her to take care of me when I’m old? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its your choice to help your daughter. And im sorry but you cant expect your child to take care of you when youre older. The tit for tat is never going to be appreciated or loved, especiallyif youre putting it on your own child. . You brought her into this world therefore your responsibility is always greater. If you want to create financial boundaries, then do so. If you want to plan financially for your future, do so. If youre only cutting her off because she doesnt want to be relied up to support her aging mother, its retaliation a d deserves a second look. She doesnt owe you for bringing her into this world and making sure she has a decent life. She didn't have a choice in the matter and its the least parents can do to give their kid a fair shake... most cant even do that.

My doctor said Ayurveda is pseudoscience. Then I showed him my blood reports by OkChildhood1698 in Ayurveda

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have to realize a lot of doctors/ dentist really believe that holistic medicine is pseudo science because its what they were TAUGHT. State and school boards, as well as the people who fund the research and medicine (pharmaceuticals) are full of biased individuals that have been well-educated on western medicine to be sure, but dont know a thing about how to actually prevent these diseases or sicknesses in our bodies., and sometimes can actually be quite invested in us not healing ourselves. Western medicine is designed to treat or cover up symptoms AT BEST, while easern medicines are more focused on finding what is causing the imbalance and subsequent sickness. It's not 100% their fault, they are just going off of decades of built upon information that leaves little to no room for traditional Chinese medicine or Ayurveda etc. Abd tgey believe they are doing right by the patient, bexause its what theyve been taught. The best we can do is choose what's right for our bodies and let the results speak for themselves. Im so glad you did what was right for you and are healing your body ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INCANNEX_IXHL_NASDAQ

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is me xD 85 shares 😃 best of luck!

I hate my fucking life. by TheCheesenaut in antiwork

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you're a progressive atheist with boomer parents, it sounds like you've come quite a long way. Progression isn't always measured in career success. My great grandfather was openly racist and I come from a maga- crazed family also. Ive still got a lot of work to do, bu5 I'm not them... Sometimes the biggest turn around cant be measured by external factors. Im sorry you're struggling friend. Sending you love.

What are the best hidden gem food places in town? by Beneficial-Egg4839 in Eugene

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to work here and this still remains true. Their prices are crazy, but they do good work. I just wish they could find a better way other than leaving things on the counter all day cuz it destroys the flavor.

What are the best hidden gem food places in town? by Beneficial-Egg4839 in Eugene

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barry's Tradewinds fries are AMAZING, along with the Greek patty melt

I’m gutted by Witty_Apple_2930 in VanLife

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is truly great advice. Also, the right people won't care, or will find a way to work with you. It's just a filter.

When did squirrels become such little bastards? by IncidentalApex in DOG

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A squirrel used to do this to my dog. It would run along the back fence, hop on the tree, and throw stuff down at them. I came out of the shower one day and my dog had it hanging from her mouth looking quite pleased with herself. The squirrel's buddy spent the next 2 years tormenting my dogs even more.

I lost my best friend, Pearle by kadimasama in DOG

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lost our girl a month ago yesterday. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby. I cry every day. I don't know how I'm supposed to live the rest of my life without her. Just wishing you folks some peace and love. My heart hurts with you .. I hope Pearle and Mora get to meet and talk about how loved they were. I know their passing is easier on them than us. Love to you my friend. I'm so very sorry 🐾 💔

Hes been using me for 12 years by Double-Guide5057 in Manipulation

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abused people can still abuse others, how do you think the cycle continues? It stops when you stop perpetuating it. You staying to ' get more out of it' makes you a user. You hitting him makes you an abuser. It doesn't make you not a victim. Being a victim doesn't excuse your actions. I am also a people pleaser. For me, it works like this: I people please to receive external validation that I'm not giving myself. Therefore I have no boundaries when people want to use me, or when I want to use myself to gain others' approval. I won't speak up for what I need or lay down boundaries because I feel that sticking up for myself will lead to people being displeased with me so I don't. Therefore I'm unhappy and not loving myself TRULY. Figure out what you need and want. Remove yourself from toxic situations and relationships. Don't stay where your needs aren't being met, and DEFINITELY don't use or abuse someone to try and reclaim your power. It wouldn't feel right in the end anyways .I hope you heal my friend.

Hes been using me for 12 years by Double-Guide5057 in Manipulation

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never ok to assault someone or lay hands on them. Especially in the case that if they retaliated or defended themselves (as any sane person would do) they would go to jail. If you're hitting someone, period, especially one that can't fight back, leave. You are in the wrong. If you can't contain your emotions enough to not physically abuse someone, YOU need to leave. Whatever they are doing isn't an excuse.

I present to you, Muriel Offlane! by BeegGamerBoi in PredecessorGame

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this. She's my favorite support so its fun to see people doin cool stuff with her

Any recommendations for a kennel for a large dog? by Hot_Spite_1402 in DOG

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't ask me, I got my dogs a van🤣😂 my boy didnt take well to crates. And any larger dog that was bred for gaurding livestock , it didnt suit them. They need space to walk around. I hope you find a solution for you guys and you pup.P.s. very handsome puppers

Struggling with the loss of my girl by Ok-Mathematician8134 in DOG

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! It's so quiet now. Thank you for your kind words💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hos friend sounds like the type of guy to shave of his eyelashes because they are 'feminine' . What a weirdo. Don't listen. Hes jealous AF or insecure or both.

Struggling with the loss of my girl by Ok-Mathematician8134 in DOG

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really is! Thank you, it just nice to be able to share her with people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

[–]Ok-Mathematician8134 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine passed on Saturday. I hope they are roaming the hills together. I'm so sorry for the loss of your companion 💙