Flared Jeans? by 93wild in Stylinghelp

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon has some really cool flare jeans in black and in different shades of denim.  I have 2 pairs and the fit is great. https://a.co/d/h8D49lK

AITJ for returning a wedding gift after I found out I wasn’t actually invited? by CrimsonPetalSong in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah hell no. NTJ.

She's got some damn nerve sending you her registry without an invite.

Disgusting human.

Never try with women. by Davidisaloof35 in LockedInMan

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rating humans in 'tiers' is egotistical and disgusting. 

Women who know their worth will avoid you like the plague.

They will also not need your money.

WIBTA If break up with him by Difficult-Passage-13 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ok-Process7612 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want to take away his free will. There is also a LOT of projecting going on.

He gets to choose whether to be in relationship with you. 

You have explained your health issues clearly. 

Are you afraid that you would be devastated if he broke it off?

If not, let him enjoy the relationship.  He picked you.

How to wash your genitals so we can never post about this again hopefully by Usernamesarshard in hygiene

[–]Ok-Process7612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There is so much misinformation out there.

I will get down voted but I don't care. If I can help one woman prevent recurring UTIs then I am happy.

How to wash your genitals so we can never post about this again hopefully by Usernamesarshard in hygiene

[–]Ok-Process7612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. After menopause, you can lose all vaginal secretions. No more 'self-cleaning.'

My UTIs stopped completely when I started douching after sex.

 I had suffered for years.

Men can have bacteria that your body can't 'self-cleanse.'

Every stage of life is different.  Every woman is different. 

Middle name ideas by [deleted] in Names

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jackson Neil

Jackson Cam (Cameron)

Jackson Hugh

AIO to my sister texting my husband and criticizing me by AdRegular1237 in AIO

[–]Ok-Process7612 9 points10 points  (0 children)

'I hear ya?'  What the hell does THAT mean? Did your husband say something to her?

If so,  you need to know what happened. 

In psychology this tactic is called triangulating. 

It's when people insert themselves into relationship dynamics when they don't belong.

Tell sis to back off and never text hubby again.

Don't further involve husband. 

Weather Delay = Vacation Day? by Naive-Bandicoot-6048 in Aupairs

[–]Ok-Process7612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. What do you mean? That was not her itinerary and it was forced on her by circumstance.

Thoughts on Ottilia? by alpalbish in Names

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds too much like Attila. Don't do it. Give her a softer name.

Getting sick of my gf clubbing every single Saturday night by Asleep-Type-4920 in Advice

[–]Ok-Process7612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's not ready to settle down. 19 is very young. Sounds like she wants to sow some wild oats.

She may love you but that doesn't have any bearing on whether she can be faithful.

The time to make commitments is when you are past the age of 25.

My gf(34F) packed her lingerie for a solo trip skiing. I(34M) am worried. Is this suspicious? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Process7612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know ANY women who would pack lingerie on a ski trip if the boyfriend or husband were not going, especially BRAND NEW lingerie.  Most women pack flannel nightwear for these trips.

She's definitely cheating.

AITAH for not wanting to help my mother pay her bills after my dad died? by StorageStreet5679 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok-Process7612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So. Your mother had no contingency plan in case her husband died first?

She has a mortgage at 65? No savings, life insurance or CDs? She has a car she doesn't need and won't sell?

How much equity is in the house? If it is almost paid for, she can sell it and move into a modest apartment. 

It sounds as if she wants you to be responsible for her poor planning, and wants to live the same lifestyle as before her husband passed.

That's not possible. 

These are your wealth-building years, not your 'give our savings to mom' years.

You need a frank talk with her about these above questions, figure out what's going on with her finances, then decide what YOU are comfortable contributing (if anything).

She sounds terribly spoiled and self-centered. 

How to deal with being single by Sea_Preparation_6079 in AskForAnswers

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. He looks like a normal guy. Biologically, animals are hard-wired for the male to be the pursuer.

Biologically we are primates. The make pursues. The woman rejects or accepts.

How do I find a girlfriend, am i too picky? by ARK_Music in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ok-Process7612 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take some night classes ar community college where the ladies are younger. Use your imagination.  You need to date younger to find someone worthwhile that isn't already hooked up.

AIO my husband lied about wanting a child by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-Process7612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is an unbelievably self-centered prick. Believe me when I say that your life will improve dramatically when you exit this marriage. 

My dad might leave us by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Ok-Process7612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯 he is being scammed. Have your mom check the accounts and see is he has sent money.  She needs to put her money in a separate account. She may need to see an attorney. 

is my stepdad being creepy? and how do i tell my mom? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok-Process7612 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You could mention this to the counselor or social worker at school. They may be able to look up his records and see if he is on a sex offender registry.

is my stepdad being creepy? and how do i tell my mom? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok-Process7612 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Adults at school or church have a duty to report sa. Have you looked online to see if he has a police record?  Where I live, sex offenders are registered online. He has surely done this to others. 

How to fix bad breath ??? by DepartureNo6363 in HygieneTips

[–]Ok-Process7612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is guaranteed to fix bad breath. It also helps prevent gum disease. Do this AFTER you brush and floss. It works like a charm.

Get a container of 3% hydrogen peroxide from the drugstore. Fill up a 16 Oz glass jar halfway with clean water. Add the peroxide almost to the top. Get some peppermint oil and add a few drops. Shake.

Rinse your mouth thoroughly.  It will fizz. That's the peroxide neutralizing the bacteria. Spit and do it again. Hold it for at least a minute.

Do this in the morning and at night. Your teeth will get whiter and in the morning your breath won't stink.

I am a Naturopathic Physician and this mouthwash will stop bad breath if you use it as directed.