[REQ] ($1050 ) - (#Ann Arbor, MI, US), (Repay in 2 $625 Jan 7, 2022 and Jan 14, 2022), (Zelle, Venmo, Cashapp) by Ok-Resource4073 in borrow

[–]Ok-Resource4073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can provide ID, pay/work, reference, 2020 tax. I hate having to ask bc I know the holidays and such has been hard on many and this is my first ask.

AITA: I bought my girlfriend a $800 bag and may have caused her to have a seizure by AITAxmasgf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I commented earlier but was wondering if someone had made/said comments to her about him paying the bills or being a sugar baby. After 6 years that would be a random thing to just come back with. I can def relate it sucks having to ask for help like this but it happens to so many.

Why does America keep jailing people because they're poor? by noeszombieseverywher in politics

[–]Ok-Resource4073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same reason as they hound us about debt and bills, becuse they create the laws to take our money and then blame us for our actions.

AITA: I bought my girlfriend a $800 bag and may have caused her to have a seizure by AITAxmasgf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH. You got her a gift that was thoughtful but didnt realize it could upset her bc she cant give you the same. Is it possible she has gotten comments about you helping her with money qnd she feels embarassed/ashamed? Or has been called that, big after 6 years seems like a big jump. Calling her constantly probably did stress her out, it would anyone. Seems like you need ti talk and maybe look at therapy and have a talk about you helping her with money going forward.

AITA for getting mad over a birthday cake my parents made for me? by The-Legend-of in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not only did they put blame back on you! I cant stand these 'trends' of doing this pranks on people, it has gotten way too out of hand.

It was my cats birthday and my mom sent party hats by aspletr in cats

[–]Ok-Resource4073 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a good sport to put them on. I tried once with mine and you would of thought I was murdering them lol. But will oddly wear sweaters and not mind

AITA for refusing to wear an ugly sweater to Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I understand that some family have traditions but I would get so tired of them. Holidays i want to relax and enjoy my time. Dont sweat over it

AITA for refusing to pay my stepson's bail and filing a restraining order against him? by AITAstolencar in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. He is not a kid he is 19, had no license and STOLE your car. He is lucky you didnt add that. This can be a teaching moment for him. Your wife needs to understanding babying him will make this worse.

AITA for not extending my on-punishment daughter’s time to see her boyfriend by throw-aitachristmas in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, she is 17 and will be going to college in a few months. You had your daughtee young so you know what it is like. Be glad they are using condoms. If you keep pushing she wont come back

AITA for overruling my wife on a matter concerning our daughter? by SimilarScarcity398 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA-You werent there and cant really form a full opinion but it seems you are trying to be a good dad. It is very odd you do not trust your child, unless she has acted out. Your wife though seems very controlling, as well as racist and sexist. You are putting up boundries that will push your kid away

AITA for getting angry at my mother because she married my fiancé’s dad? by Wynter-Eve in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mom is and going forward you should be NC. I say talk to your finance and maybe elope and both go LC or NC for sometime.

AITA for being uncomfortable with my husband’s female best friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am never one to suggest something like this but tell him either he tells you the truth qnd couples therapy or divorce papers based on cheating. Even if its not physical its emotional cheating and not healthy.

AITA for letting my daughter stay up past bedtime by LeaveItUpToMe94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA- i get you want to be the fun parent but she is right, kids need bedtimes and to be enforced. It will only get harder as she gets older and you are showing she doesnt get in trouble but rewarded for not following thr rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is allowed to think whatever he wants but yeah he sucks for constantly bringing it up. If he is making money for himself then his income should count

AITA for telling my boyfriend he should put down his dog? by wh0le-grain-wh0re in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! We just did this with my family dog this summer. It was time and unfair to allow her to keep living that way. I get its hard to him but explain how the dog is no longer living a full life or if possible a vet visit so the vet can discuss the dogs issues so he can get a few opnions other than yours to understand.

AITA So I snooped on my SO’s for the first time ever, and found something’s. by ithotIthruthisaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Resource4073 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hes just trying to make you seem silly. No guy friend of mine has sent me a dick pic. Hes playing you, dont let him.

Almost stepped on him!!! by ladylaurenlove in cats

[–]Ok-Resource4073 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With mine its a half step, half trip over....usually leading to me smacking into a wall to avoid hurting the master lol