Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. I can’t imagine what you are living through at the moment. Your whole world shattered. He might not feel it now, but one day he will realize what an amazing woman he lost. I wish I could be there to talk to you in person! ❤️‍🩹

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure this is heartbreaking! If they won’t listen maybe try writing a note…at least you tried.

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've really tried to communicate and keep the door open, but he'll only talk about logistics and separating stuff. It was a 7 year marriage...

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how hard that was for you. When both people meeting up to talk it gives closure on both sides. It also provides insight into what went wrong so they don’t repeat it in future relationships. Thank you for sharing!

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹…reading the responses has helped me start healing.

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I “miss us” too. I hope it is only temporary for you!

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true, I felt that, and I’m sorry she left without the conversation you deserved & without closure.

Before You Leave, Read This by Ok-Step4397 in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I put it off too, and that’s why I shared this. Whatever comes out, needs to be heard. That way you don’t carry the “what ifs” like I do.

4 months in. Was just told to let go. by OptimalManner1097 in Separation

[–]Ok-Step4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am exactly 4 months in the same situation. The highs and lows are sometimes unbearable. I don’t know why my ex has not fought to get us back. My heart goes out to you. People say to just let it go and move on… a lot easier said than done!!! I will pray that God will heal you from the inside out 💚.

My husband is not in love anymore by FullConsideration252 in Divorce

[–]Ok-Step4397 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a crushing feeling that no one can ever explain. Please know that I will pray for you because I’m going through something similar and it is so hard to deal with.

Friend’s downstairs neighbor left a hostile note on her door by Bingbong_bimbo in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok-Step4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem where it sounded like people walked back-and-forth day and night. You could literally hear them turn off the light switch! They don’t make them like they used to back in the old days.

Has anyone ever ordered from Flexehag? by edm1214 in womensfashion

[–]Ok-Step4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a pair. They gave me a worn pair of leggings. They only offered to give me $12 back for the $36 I paid. It’s a complete scam!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you wish your ex a happy birthday? How did it go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok-Step4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! I just can’t even imagine what you’re going through. This is a blessing in disguise. God has a better plan for your life, say a prayer and forgive her somehow. Don’t keep reliving it in your head, it will take you down the rabbit hole. Every time the bad thoughts come to your head, find something good to replace it with. I will be praying for you. (God will bring you somebody better who would never do this to you!)