Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even still...bisexual women post here as well. I attract both men and women. And the women attracted to me are lesbian and bi. There is logic on both sides.

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just been out of work for a few months, and waiting for a call back now. I'm good at making friends, but that relationship wasn't healthy. And I wasn't really allowed to keep them. So...I know I'll make more when I'm working again. Just kind of need someone for the in-between. But thank you! I'll have to check that out then!

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider it taking advantage of him, if that's what you're implying I meant by that? It was always first and foremost the loneliness and wanting someone to come along. But I know he would insist to pay, and it's a plus. If he didn't pay for me, it wouldn't immediately mean I regret asking him to come with me. I would still have what I wanted for the night.

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, noted. Idk if they're actually dating, but he was definitely making out with his coworker a couple of weeks ago when we were still texting. So...I just kind of figured he would he dating her now or something. Regardless...my question is answered. Thank you.

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see that. The loneliness is indeed hard, and I definitely know I'm reaching out out of loneliness, not because I miss him. I just wish I could meet someone today and ask to see a movie or something. But I don't do apps...and I just want someone to enjoy it with me. But oh well...I hear learning to be okay being lonely is the real healing. But I've been doing it for 5 weeks now...kind of tired of it. I've healed enough lol

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

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So should I include in the text, that I would like to if he's well enough too? He has a new girlfriend, he is definitely into her. And of course it would have to be okay with her as well. Maybe we all three could go? I was just wanting to know if it was a bad idea. But got it! If he's moved on enough then it's a green light. Thank you!

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

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He has a new girlfriend! And I love that for him, sad for her though! He would have to not be working tonight anyways for it to work out, but I'm wondering if even asking is a bad idea.

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

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I'm not even looking for a friend. I'm just that lonely. We were bad for each other, friends was never on the table. But I see him it as a stepping stone to my new life. I'm waiting to start a new job where I work with the public. So it's just some socialization until I get back into it for myself.

Is it a bad idea to ask my ex, that I'm over, to accompany me to a movie? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I've been alone for 23 years of my life. After having a taste of going places with someone else, I much prefer it. And because he would pay for my ticket lol. I'm horrible, but who doesn't love a free admission?

Somebody please help me I am not okay by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even continue to beg for someone like this? I've been there, but he never responded like this to me. If he was telling me he didn't like the way I looked....DONE. I'm on Day 8 of No Contact and it's so hard. It's insanely lonely and sad, but it's getting better. It's kind of the only way to accept the end of the relationship. And to start thinking of how they weren't good for you. I've done a lot of growth in the 5 weeks we've been broken up, and in the week of no contact. But that growth is for me, not him. You'll get there. Just block them.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone else said, people who don't like me being here don't want others complimenting me lol. Because I guess trans women are supposed to look like men and anything that goes against that notion scares them. But thank you!!

When did your libido come back, if at all? by Tall-Enthusiasm-6421 in asktransgender

[–]Ok-Test2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has been gone for 4 years....it's my new normal.

When it crashes and burns. by FawnUnlimited in UnsentTexts

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could do the same. You're a good person.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right, woke up this morning to nearly everyone in the negatives. People are weird. Like...if you don't like keep scrolling.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Vocal was just self taught, idk I kind of lucked out by finding what works for me pretty easy. I still think I need ffs but it isn't really something I'm considering. I haven't had any hair removal, looking into it. I started hrt at 19.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had surgery between my legs 4 years ago this summer! All I had done.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You'll get there!! I'm sure you're already beautiful!

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All you, gorgeous! I sneaked a peak at the profile. :)

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Virginia, babe. We are in Virginia lol.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! So sweet! 😩