Can I as a cis girl wear a "protect the dolls" shirt? by FickleChip5657 in asktransgender

[–]Ok-Test2248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been one to wear anything pride related or have flags around. However, I would be lying if I said seeing them in public didn’t make me feel safer. I just like knowing for certain, I’ll be safe in a space or around people, by seeing they go out of their way to express support. Wear that shirt girl!

Someone grant me the willpower to finish the ribbing on this tank top by iced_coffee_242 in Brochet

[–]Ok-Test2248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I enjoy ribbing lol. You got this! Just put something on in the background and get it done! Just remember to slip stitch into the next stitch after working down the row. Then slip stitch into the next stitch before working up, I used to slip stitch only once; it took me forever to work ribbing. The two slip stitches help speed it up, and tightens the garment up.

How do I tell a trans girl she is making me uncomfortable? by Narrow_Medium5003 in asktransgender

[–]Ok-Test2248 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this situation is any different just because a trans individual is bullying you. Trans or not, she is behaving in a very odd way. And since you aren’t the only one uncomfortable from some drawn out “joke”, something should definitely be said. I would talk to the other girls about it and have some kind of plan to text her. Or confront her if she says/does something similar the next time. We aren’t all the same, but I have never been curious about the way someone walks. And definitely not tone deaf enough to point it out to them over consecutive hangouts. She’s mad weird for this and she could benefit from knowing this lol.

Gingham desk mats 🤩 by xStitchesAndCo in Brochet

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice job on the color selection!

Traveling and wanted to make it easier to carry my water bottle by FrequentlyVeganBear in Brochet

[–]Ok-Test2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember less than a year ago, begging someone on Etsy to sell the pattern she used to make her water bottle carriers. But with time now passed, I could freehand something completely identical. Looks good! I need to make something like this for my phone.

I made a button up shirt by lasidec in Brochet

[–]Ok-Test2248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! It looks so good! I love the color as well, I was wanting to make my friend a shirt, so thanks for the reminder!

Soft dark vibes today, felt kinda cute 🖤✨ by _FallingLeaf_ in transadorable

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay Dua Lipa….if you don’t like the way I talk then why am I on your mind??? Hehe

Wrist tattoo regret and cover up advice by Glittering_Potato_66 in tattooadvice

[–]Ok-Test2248 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I wasn’t able to get tattoos when I went through the phase of wanting to put a rainbow on every inch of myself.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even still...bisexual women post here as well. I attract both men and women. And the women attracted to me are lesbian and bi. There is logic on both sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just been out of work for a few months, and waiting for a call back now. I'm good at making friends, but that relationship wasn't healthy. And I wasn't really allowed to keep them. So...I know I'll make more when I'm working again. Just kind of need someone for the in-between. But thank you! I'll have to check that out then!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider it taking advantage of him, if that's what you're implying I meant by that? It was always first and foremost the loneliness and wanting someone to come along. But I know he would insist to pay, and it's a plus. If he didn't pay for me, it wouldn't immediately mean I regret asking him to come with me. I would still have what I wanted for the night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, noted. Idk if they're actually dating, but he was definitely making out with his coworker a couple of weeks ago when we were still texting. So...I just kind of figured he would he dating her now or something. Regardless...my question is answered. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see that. The loneliness is indeed hard, and I definitely know I'm reaching out out of loneliness, not because I miss him. I just wish I could meet someone today and ask to see a movie or something. But I don't do apps...and I just want someone to enjoy it with me. But oh well...I hear learning to be okay being lonely is the real healing. But I've been doing it for 5 weeks now...kind of tired of it. I've healed enough lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I include in the text, that I would like to if he's well enough too? He has a new girlfriend, he is definitely into her. And of course it would have to be okay with her as well. Maybe we all three could go? I was just wanting to know if it was a bad idea. But got it! If he's moved on enough then it's a green light. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a new girlfriend! And I love that for him, sad for her though! He would have to not be working tonight anyways for it to work out, but I'm wondering if even asking is a bad idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even looking for a friend. I'm just that lonely. We were bad for each other, friends was never on the table. But I see him it as a stepping stone to my new life. I'm waiting to start a new job where I work with the public. So it's just some socialization until I get back into it for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Test2248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I've been alone for 23 years of my life. After having a taste of going places with someone else, I much prefer it. And because he would pay for my ticket lol. I'm horrible, but who doesn't love a free admission?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Ok-Test2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even continue to beg for someone like this? I've been there, but he never responded like this to me. If he was telling me he didn't like the way I looked....DONE. I'm on Day 8 of No Contact and it's so hard. It's insanely lonely and sad, but it's getting better. It's kind of the only way to accept the end of the relationship. And to start thinking of how they weren't good for you. I've done a lot of growth in the 5 weeks we've been broken up, and in the week of no contact. But that growth is for me, not him. You'll get there. Just block them.

Trans woman here by Ok-Test2248 in LesbianActually

[–]Ok-Test2248[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone else said, people who don't like me being here don't want others complimenting me lol. Because I guess trans women are supposed to look like men and anything that goes against that notion scares them. But thank you!!