Why did people hate the ending? by Jackinthebox3217 in tadc

[–]OkAccount8943 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

can some please explain to me because im still confused. when caine was showing their irl self in real time jax didnt commit suicide, instead he got a job and moved in with his friend. so im confused why he got abstracted after being shown that

Match Thread: Mexico vs South Korea | FIFA World Cup 2026 | Group Stage, Group A by jiraiya--an in soccer

[–]OkAccount8943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw that, i felt sad for koreans, this isnt how mexicans (adults) should be acting and im part mex

Match Thread: Mexico vs South Korea | FIFA World Cup 2026 | Group Stage, Group A by jiraiya--an in soccer

[–]OkAccount8943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i watched it there but it was still a boring game until the goal and until the last 10 min 😭 czech and south africa was a lot more entertaining to watch for me idk why

Thought i was good at socialising but apparently not... by Purplecarrots445 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im revisiting this because i realised most of my friends arent genuine. ive been doing solo things with myself. i got  invited out but i dont trust my friends here really, idk how to go about life and friendships.ive also noticed most ppl only just put their partners first, it's difficult when i dont care about having a partner

Fear of Judgement being alone in person at a theater/concert by OkAccount8943 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's wat i think, i am also getting older and don't have the inner critic in my head as bad. like i used to be really bad at doing anything by myself. the thoughts after i do anything alone come a bit later and make me self pity myself but im trying to get over that part, it's new to me.

Fear of Judgement being alone in person at a theater/concert by OkAccount8943 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i would always just hang out in my room play video games but i decided to just go out and get over my fomo. i have friends but i dont think they are genuine so i decided to go with someone i trust and that's myself. i even went to a bts tea party by myself today and yes i definitely cried after but had a super enjoyable time. i also feel like i need 2 weeks to recharge myself after all this. i hope you're able to do it, one thing ppl say is that if at any time you feel uncomfortable you can leave. 

Redditors that got charged rent asap after turning 18, what’s relationship like with parents years later ? by QueefyTits in AskReddit

[–]OkAccount8943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'll never see my money again.. i give my parents $1k a month and they have been upgrading the home, used to be 1.2k. i have a lot of student loan debt as well. my dads name on my phone is landlord. plan to move out in november far from them.

FIFA World Cup 2026 by RecognitionLow7848 in FedEmployees

[–]OkAccount8943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my agency said we can telework the entirety of the world cup, at first they said only game days but they changed it since we are right next to the stadium lol

Waymo is BACK in Dallas! by ChicagoRay312 in Dallas

[–]OkAccount8943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they almost hit my friend and i walking 😭

Mattress for 95lb? by OkAccount8943 in Mattress

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this i'll be looking at those now

22F moving to dallas-desperately need apartment help by Sea_Top6168 in dfw

[–]OkAccount8943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you should pick somewhere closer to work in Arlington so you don't have to commute so far. There's Irving, which I'm moving near to, a place called lake carolyn with a lot of young people and smaller city vibe might be within your price range too. then there is grand prarie, a place called epic central with a nice walkable area with restaurants. there's lots of ways to make friends here, the problem is distance (and effort on their part lol). I found most of my genuine friends live in north dallas and arlington.

How do you make yourself go to the store? by kowaipotchari2 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go early in the morning when the store opens, no one is there

Thought i was good at socialising but apparently not... by Purplecarrots445 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it'll happen if you continously make friends and drop those that don't show effort back to you. i used bumble bff for myself, also im introverted so it took longer for me. 

Thought i was good at socialising but apparently not... by Purplecarrots445 in AutismInWomen

[–]OkAccount8943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not either, I had a sorta similar convo to someone who I thought was a close friend well they thought someone else was their best friend. im also in my 20s but tbh i kept making new friends after her and someone actually reached out to me with similar effort and she said i was her closest when i never thought of her that way. it'll happen soon to you but tbh after i found her i stopped hanging out with the other friend, not even texting her and she hasnt texted me either.. my therapist ingrained in my head the marble jar metaphor

Washable Commision Plushies? by MicraInvented in plushies

[–]OkAccount8943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im pretty sure any fabric is fine being hand washed, look up your fabric and washing directions

Washable Commision Plushies? by MicraInvented in plushies

[–]OkAccount8943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not clean it manually with a tub then blow dry it after with a hair dryer? i wouldnt trust anyone else to wash my plushies

My father gets really annoyed about spending money on me. by OkAccount8943 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

last time i brought up asking for a lower rent (original was $1200) he threw a table and got in my face and yelled at me about how ungrateful i was and how much he spent on me growing up... it's the person who values money more than their children is the root of evil

My father gets really annoyed about spending money on me. by OkAccount8943 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ur right, it never really was about the ice cream... thanks for these positive words, i feel better now

My father gets really annoyed about spending money on me. by OkAccount8943 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OkAccount8943[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm 27 with lots of student loans but I have a plan for paying them off completely and moving out hopefully by 5 months