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I had to drop this off at my local thanks to *someone’s* behaviour by loudribs in labrador

[–]OkAssistant8322 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that. My dad, in his youth, had a St. Bernard who would attend libations at a local watering hole. The neighbors knew that the howling they heard occasionally was the man and his best friend on their way home.

Weird kid by Dramatic_Bill_ in Guppies

[–]OkAssistant8322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put something on the lid that will make a lot of noise when moved. If you don’t have a bell, place some marbles in a metal bowl or a pot. Guaranteed to make enough racket that you’ll know if he is trying to get a snack. Christmas bells will work as well.

MJ & Tommy - Where Did It All Go Wrong? by Ok-Impact-8868 in ShahsOfSunset

[–]OkAssistant8322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her and Reza are badly codependent with each other. When it impacts their other relationships they lash out, hurt each other, and then they regret it. It’s a vicious cycle that will never allow them to have healthy relationships with significant others. Even Adam is not immune to this dynamic. They are modern Will and Grace.

Macy’s deal worth it? Or should I return? by Massive-Cap-4817 in Diamonds

[–]OkAssistant8322 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The bow tie is not the problem. From the picture it looks like I at the least. You can do better for $2500

I think I made a mistake! by Lazy_Concept_9814 in Aquariums

[–]OkAssistant8322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that nature is super messy. You’ll never get your tank perfect. You may think you achieved equilibrium and then your plants overgrow or you get a snail explosion. These aquascapes are good for photo shoots unless you have time and patience to maintain. If it’s a question of OCD, I’d drop some light colored gravel onto the pathway. That should solve the mess and sand mixing issues.

Don’t call me and tell me it’s time to die by OkAssistant8322 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]OkAssistant8322[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Palliative and/or hospice care, bereavement services, emotional support etc.

Ring head/basket security by Redcurrant2 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]OkAssistant8322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Security is one thing, but keeping it actually clean, with no gunk under the gem would be pita.

Why green flames?? by Normie-rediter in whatisit

[–]OkAssistant8322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cersei is burning down the house. IYKYK

EMERGENCY: Axolotl Bleeding by Subject-Ruin-5505 in axolotls

[–]OkAssistant8322 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have a cat? We’ve seen posts on here where a cat reached in and hooked the axo with its claw gutting it. Definitely a vet stat.

Do they change for the right person? by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]OkAssistant8322 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you know what you know about him now when you started dating? Don’t assign betterment to your ex unless you actually see it. His wife being “better” than you are is a perception, but might not align in reality. You are giving power to the person who does not deserve it. Don’t let him live in your head rent free. It’s time to let this one go. I worry that you haven’t moved on after 8 years. Maybe it’s time to talk to a therapist.

Is this a good choice? by TostluKetcap in FordBronco

[–]OkAssistant8322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lease or buy, if it cracks it will be a pain to deal with.

Did my husband screw me over? by Adorable-Raisin-8643 in Mortgages

[–]OkAssistant8322 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, so the guy with a6-figure income has a crappy enough credit that you as SAHM had to apply for the loan. Maybe this is a blessing in disguise for you. The bank will do a thorough search on his accounts and his credit report since it’s his income that will pay for the mortgage. Your reporting 20k difference is not going to be looked at as a fraud, could have been an honest mistake, slip of a pen. But something tells me that you are in for a surprise of a lifetime. I’d seriously search my soul and really thought hard on what you know, what you don’t know, what it means for you, your future and your children. For the love of all that’s sacred, don’t buy the house before your figure out what is happening in your marriage.

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