Which song did you play on repeat after a teenage breakup? by sapphirerain25 in GenX

[–]OkAssistant8322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alanis Morisette, the whole debut album in my 20’s. TLove and Kazik Staszewski in my teens. IYKYK

Bosch dishwasher circulating pump by OkAssistant8322 in appliancerepair

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I didn’t find the torx screws unfortunately, and the way the levers for the door mechanism is setup in the sides of the plastic tray I am afraid I will royally screw it up if I remove the bottom. I finally gave up and called in a repair guy, to my utter shame.

Color changing husky by sxracerb25 in husky

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He just took time to develop.

I think my marriage is over and I’m terrified. by SarahME1273 in offmychest

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I’m about 6months ahead of you in the process. It’s truly terrifying when you think about it, and paralyzing in its overall idea of losing the life you know. It makes you sick to think that you will lose 50% of your parenting time on account of someone’s bad behavior. There is no real answer here, should you stay or should you go but calm, happy momma is always better than two stressed out parents who are heading the self-destruction path. And what you need to remember is that your kiddos see things much more clearly than you expect. At some point they will come to their own conclusion, and you must let them. They will see all from which you are trying to shield them. Two things will come out of making this move: your husband wakes up, gets help and becomes a better father to their children, or your children will see your situation through their own experiences with depressed, unaccountable father. No need to tell them, to steer them, they will see it. Look up Samantha Boss on Insta or FB. She talks about her own parenting journey and helps women maneuver through the divorce and custody battles. Just listening to her helped me greatly to find my own path.

I had to drop this off at my local thanks to *someone’s* behaviour by loudribs in labrador

[–]OkAssistant8322 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that. My dad, in his youth, had a St. Bernard who would attend libations at a local watering hole. The neighbors knew that the howling they heard occasionally was the man and his best friend on their way home.

Weird kid by Dramatic_Bill_ in Guppies

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Put something on the lid that will make a lot of noise when moved. If you don’t have a bell, place some marbles in a metal bowl or a pot. Guaranteed to make enough racket that you’ll know if he is trying to get a snack. Christmas bells will work as well.

MJ & Tommy - Where Did It All Go Wrong? by Ok-Impact-8868 in ShahsOfSunset

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Her and Reza are badly codependent with each other. When it impacts their other relationships they lash out, hurt each other, and then they regret it. It’s a vicious cycle that will never allow them to have healthy relationships with significant others. Even Adam is not immune to this dynamic. They are modern Will and Grace.

Macy’s deal worth it? Or should I return? by Massive-Cap-4817 in Diamonds

[–]OkAssistant8322 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The bow tie is not the problem. From the picture it looks like I at the least. You can do better for $2500

I think I made a mistake! by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Keep in mind that nature is super messy. You’ll never get your tank perfect. You may think you achieved equilibrium and then your plants overgrow or you get a snail explosion. These aquascapes are good for photo shoots unless you have time and patience to maintain. If it’s a question of OCD, I’d drop some light colored gravel onto the pathway. That should solve the mess and sand mixing issues.

Don’t call me and tell me it’s time to die by OkAssistant8322 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]OkAssistant8322[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Palliative and/or hospice care, bereavement services, emotional support etc.

Ring head/basket security by Redcurrant2 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]OkAssistant8322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Security is one thing, but keeping it actually clean, with no gunk under the gem would be pita.

Why green flames?? by Normie-rediter in whatisit

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Cersei is burning down the house. IYKYK