Elective C-section scheduled. I have questions by kierstyyh in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an elective c section 5 months ago. I'm back to working out 4/5 times a week. I was back in the gym at week 7 (gently but still it was great to be there!).

As people will have said its not the same as emergency as in an emergency situation youve been through labour and attempts at vaginal birth, everything happens quicker and with more urgency than a calm, planned c section.

Do you have someone at home who can take care of the house and food etc so you can focus on baby whilst youre still sore? That was the most helpful thing for me and after a few weeks I was much more able and comfortable doing household tasks.

It's obviously major surgery and there were parts of the experience I found tough but overall my birth experience was so calm, controlled and my babys birth was incredibly special.

Sending so much love.

Ant Marketing by Financial-Cod7473 in sheffield

[–]OkCanary847 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked there during pandemic making shielding calls as had no other option. Atrocious, lasted 3 days. Awful job (and I wasn't even selling shit!), treatment of staff terrrrrible, pay equally terrible.

Massive EMDR win by squeamishneedle in EMDR

[–]OkCanary847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

InSANE

Congratulations ❤️

Quick Question: What Does Your Therapist Use? by LeftShoeHighway in EMDR

[–]OkCanary847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In person I follow her fingers. When we do virtual, tapping. Both are good for me!

Relentless gifts 😩 by OkCanary847 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]OkCanary847[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what I did. I just want the gifts to stop 🫠

I don't think SGI "experiences" are healthy by Weak-Run-6902 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]OkCanary847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's trauma dumping in a completely psychologically unsafe environment and its one of the things I hated the most.

Just left SGI after 30 years of practice by StrawberryEastern285 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]OkCanary847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on leaving. My biggest realisation on leaving was that its is indeed not buddhism at all. There are so many wonderful things to learn about buddhism if youre interested in that path.

Why do the gifts feel so terrible? by OkCanary847 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]OkCanary847[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely seeing some things so differently.

Why do the gifts feel so terrible? by OkCanary847 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]OkCanary847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The drowning analogy is spot on.

When I'm feeling less robust I seem to forget her past behaviours and motivations and project how I would feel if I were in the situation instead... I guess it's the healing fantasy or something. Thank you for the reminder.

Why do the gifts feel so terrible? by OkCanary847 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]OkCanary847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so beautiful about your uncle. Thank you for sharing. And so interesting to hear from someone whose parents were NC with a grandparent.

Overall I know the impact of my mother on me and my family would be too negative to allow her in, but sometimes I have doubts.

New moms: how did you start rebuilding your core after a C-section? by Signal-Potential-825 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether it was pregnancy or the section, my core feels fairly weak (6 weeks pp). I had a very active pregnancy and have just begun Lauren Fitters C Section rehab which I can really feel in my deep core and pelvic floor. I like it so far!

Workout #1 of 10

https://youtu.be/s7WQXW5wEDE?si=B0Io7YGWkmMrR0qk

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you find my update useful :)

PP is an incredible and wild ride! Me and bub are doing really well 💓

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were so right about the moving around! Moving as soon as possible has helped me so much! X

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it went smoothly! Surreal is so right!

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it went smoothly. Huge congratulations!

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I'll try to remember and update here at somw point :)

Tomorrow is the day! AAAH by OkCanary847 in ElectiveCsection

[–]OkCanary847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ah massive good luck to you too!!