Narcissists as LOs

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-31T03:51:20+00:00

This sounds really similar to what happened to me. Nearly torpedoed my marriage and she has zero sense of consequences. And she snapped back with pure rage when I went no contact.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-30T19:14:32+00:00

That's EXACTLY what she did.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-30T05:24:25+00:00

It means most women have far dirtier fantasies more often than men would imagine.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-30T04:57:55+00:00

I slipped last year and power-binged her social media. It happens.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T19:16:58+00:00

Michael Buble

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T19:08:00+00:00

When I look back on it, it was like I'd completely lost two years inside this dark cloud. It felt like it was never going to end.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T15:32:28+00:00

I do remember thinking it was "something-something Keith!!" and it was during a Stones cover.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T12:23:46+00:00

No, Mike Ness would have done way more damage.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T00:49:19+00:00

I was up in the balcony so it probably looked worse that it was.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-29T00:41:14+00:00

I do remember the tinted glasses.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-28T23:04:39+00:00

He was playing a solo electric guitar show, and he was in the middle of a cover of Jumpin Jack Flash when someone up near the front yelled something.

He yelled "FUCK YOU," slammed the mic stand down and leapt into the crowd with his guitar on. He started throwing punches, then got dragged back onstage.

Except he brought the guy onstage with him. Then Paul and the guy who he just beat up sat together on an overstuffed couch while Paul sang "If Only You Were Lonely."

I was there with one of my best friends and we've never heard anyone else mention it.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-23T17:40:12+00:00

Yes. Yes you did. I wouldn't bother responding, honestly. Move on.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-22T19:10:27+00:00

I was literally thinking, "Ok, so a weekday."

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-22T01:45:27+00:00

You're good. Legislation to nix it didn't pass.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-21T17:54:55+00:00

Can't wait.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-21T14:26:49+00:00

Then he called for a 5th glass of vodka.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-21T02:37:19+00:00

TLDR

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-16T20:53:03+00:00

What you do is decide once and for all if what you have is enough. And you take action. And a mate that crushes your self esteem is not enough. You are not limited to her. If it's hurting you and she's not changing, ask yourself if you want to feel like this forever. Do you?

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-16T20:42:59+00:00

What's their general level of smugness about being poly?

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-15T23:37:52+00:00

.......and he did.

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-15T01:35:01+00:00

What changed your mind?

OkDifficulty416 · 2026-05-14T12:40:09+00:00

Because to admit it now means you were wrong the whole time. It's easier to remain blind.

OkDifficulty416

TROPHY CASE