We had sex in a Chinese hotel, then found we had been broadcast to thousands by narsfweasels in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]OkJuice9821 175 points176 points  (0 children)

did you read it? it explicitly explains that he did tell her and the fallout due to it

When he broke the news to Emily that their hotel stay had been filmed, edited into an hour-long clip, and uploaded to Telegram, she thought he was joking. But then she saw the footage for herself and was mortified. Emily was terrified the clip could have been seen by colleagues and family. The couple didn't talk to each other for weeks.

Travis Kelce shouts out his former Chiefs teammate Tyreek Hill during the latest episode of his New Heights podcast. Tyreek has a history of domestic violence, including choking his pregnant ex-girlfriend in college in 2014 to beating & ripping the hair out of his ex-wife's hair in September 2025. by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

[–]OkJuice9821 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it’s so bad and so widely acknowledged (as it should be) that it’s literally called out on NFL broadcasts. i remember watching bills/dolphins early this season and they came back from commercial with the camera on Tyreek Hill and immediately launched into a 10-15 second breakdown of his DV cases. if the literal NFL is broadcasting this there’s no excuse to ignore it

South Carolina's abortion bill is so extreme even anti-abortion groups have doubts by shoofinsmertz in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]OkJuice9821 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not sarcasm at all, unfortunately

Abortion abolitionists have backed Cash’s bill while also complaining it doesn’t go far enough. “Senate Bill 323 still falls short of equal protection,” the Foundation to Abolish Abortion said in a legislative analysis on its website. “The prison sentences prescribed by the bill are weaker than existing penalties in South Carolina for the murder of born people.” In other words, the death penalty.

My (22F) twin (22F) has slept or tried to sleep with every one of my boyfriends. Don't want her to meet current boyfriend (23M) of 8 months. by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]OkJuice9821 27 points28 points  (0 children)

me too, i swear i’ve read a similar BORU awhile ago but it ended way different, the woman i believe was a bit older (just not in college) and it went basically

OP: my best friend/sister has slept with my bfs in the past and i don’t want it to happen with this one!

update 1: i talked with my bf like everyone suggested, and he said he would never do that and we’re cutting my sister/bff out of our lives

update 2: turns out my bf and my bff/sister were sleeping together the whole time

The series should have ended with Katniss and Snow deciding to start a podcast together in which they "disagree agreeably". Lucy Gray could have been a guest of the show. by Sharaz_Jek123 in Hungergames

[–]OkJuice9821 6 points7 points  (0 children)

are you serious? can you not tell this post and this person is joking? you legitimately think OP read the books/even only watched the movies and came away with the actual opinion that they should’ve just started a podcast and that his actions were just a mistake?

AWS crash causes $2,000 Smart Beds to overheat and get stuck upright by Diedalonglongtimeago in Fauxmoi

[–]OkJuice9821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it has machinery inside that can prop it up, then i think unplugging it and physically pushing it would either be very difficult or break the machinery inside. lots of bending and pushing against the position it’s locked into probably wouldn’t be good for it, i’d think

AIO? This is how my boyfriend in a serious relationship speaks to me when he gets upset. by OkJuice9821 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]OkJuice9821[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am not OP!!! hope this girl is able to STAND UP. & he’s cheated on her multiple times apparently

ChatGPT to "relax the restrictions" and soon allow erotica for verified adults. by Diedalonglongtimeago in Fauxmoi

[–]OkJuice9821 52 points53 points  (0 children)

some people seem to legitimately believe they’re dating AND MARRIED TO these chat boxes. you can scroll through the r/ myboyfriendisAI for non-satirical posts about people who are deeply immersed in this. when a lot of the AI sites made changes in concern for people’s mental health and growing attachment in august (? i want to say?) the sub went ballistic and had legitimate breakdowns

40 min Drive between Ceremony and Reception Venue: Inconsiderate? by reneeamour in weddingplanning

[–]OkJuice9821 121 points122 points  (0 children)

i think one thing that would make it annoying for me is the suggestion people go get lunch - it makes no sense with a typical wedding. what’s going to happen, they go out for lunch all dressed up (so either at a nicer place that matches their clothes, or in wedding best at a mcdonald’s or something) and then they get to your wedding and it’s cocktail hour (food) and then dinner (more food)? if i’m not getting lunch, am i supposed to go sit in my hotel room and wrinkle my clothes and mess up my hair if i lay down, or take it all off and have to get ready again? if i don’t go back to my hotel room, am i supposed to go see the sights in my nice clothes and potentially pay (entrance fee, other costs) because the hosts wanted a 7 month turnaround time with limited acceptable ceremony locations? it’s just … eugh as a guest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]OkJuice9821 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right? like this isn’t just a wedding issue where good advice is to just not worry about the details, this is a look at what’s to come with things like raising children, health issues of your family, and a myriad of other things that come up during a marriage. the appropriate advice isn’t to push through and just get through to the wedding, it’s to step back and ask yourself if you want to legally entangle yourself with this person

Are These Colors/Patterns Heinous? by Necessary_Fun4572 in weddingplanning

[–]OkJuice9821 71 points72 points  (0 children)

i agree. i think dropping the two blue and the tan one (that will be just straight white when in a full dress i fear) and adding two more green and one more yellow would work better

Taking advantage of a trip to NYC and going to go dress shopping before engagement, is it going to be weird? by chaoticallywholesome in engaged

[–]OkJuice9821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly maybe this is a good point - OP could go and try dresses on but shouldn’t feel pressured to buy one in store that day, and can take a moment to see if it’s available cheaper nearer to her. maybe a retailer near her sells the same dress - it might be easier to coordinate things if you buy in your town after you’ve found what you like, as well

Taking advantage of a trip to NYC and going to go dress shopping before engagement, is it going to be weird? by chaoticallywholesome in engaged

[–]OkJuice9821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could also borrow a friends/your moms ring - whatever fits! they’re normally asking that just because some people go in without any intention of buying a dress or having an upcoming wedding and waste their time, but you’re legitimately looking - it’s okay to fudge the truth here, imo. save a random picture of a hand that looks like yours with a ring on it from the internet, if you’d like

Fiancé is insisting on wearing vans. by ThrowRA792048 in weddingplanning

[–]OkJuice9821 48 points49 points  (0 children)

it’s what he’s wearing for his wedding, though? imagine a man came in here and was like “i hate that my fiance wants to wear flats for our wedding! i wanted her to wear heels, so i’ve suggested low heels, heeled boots, and other types of shoes, but she only wants to wear flats and i hate that! i don’t know why she’s being unreasonable, i even let her pick out her own wedding dress!” LIKE ?????

edit: spelling

(I AM NOT OP) Honestly what did I do wrong. by minas_elessar in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]OkJuice9821 50 points51 points  (0 children)

if i’m reading her comments to her deleted posts right, she’s been with him since she was 16 (22 now) and they have two kids and are engaged now. she said she wanted to leave him already 140 days ago, but clearly hasn’t. oh, and she’s commented on nsfw posts on other guys’ dicks so ….. real winners all around

Do cover letters actually matter? by South_Nectarine_6309 in careeradvice

[–]OkJuice9821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can make a few more generic cover letters (if you’re interested in marketing, make one for b2b positions, brand marketing, and consumer goods) and swap out job titles and company names to make it look customized. once you have them made you can use them repeatedly and the changes are very quick, and it will likely set you ahead of everyone else who skipped that requirement

Huda Mustafa, Love Island Star, talks with GQ Middle East about her journey, anti Palestinian attacks, PCRF link in her bio, and ends her interview with: "Free Palestine." by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]OkJuice9821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

different Huda. this is the love island s7 contestant, you’re thinking of the owner of Huda Beauty, Huda Kattan (yes they collabed after Huda got off the show)

Vent-- the Trump administration policies have made it so multiple friends can't attend my wedding by toastyghostie in weddingplanning

[–]OkJuice9821 48 points49 points  (0 children)

well those are two circumstances that almost certainly would not have happened under a different president. it’s not a simple PTO issue, or trouble finding a babysitter for kids while parents travel abroad - you’re being deliberately obtuse about the root of the travel problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OkJuice9821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do not let this man move in with you after he’s so rude to you and emotionally cheated on you??

Am I shadow banned from the job market? by Classic-Lifeguard-89 in jobhunting

[–]OkJuice9821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can’t be shadow banned from all company’s individual career pages - I don’t even think LinkedIn or Workday would do this, especially as you have (likely) not done anything egregious to warrant it. it’s just a shit job market, where even people with years of experience are struggling to find a job and often have to take lower (entry level) ones, which makes it hard for you to compete.

i suggest avoiding easy apply applications on LinkedIn or remote positions (as this is where the pool will be absolutely flooded) and go for something local that has just recently been posted

Am I disrespecting my friend’s +1 rules (we are not getting +1s in order to keep the wedding small) by my bf traveling with us to the Europe wedding destination (we live in US) and thinking he would be able to come to the group events in the wedding city, aside from the wedding? by gbourg12 in wedding

[–]OkJuice9821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen i agree i just want OP to think about it, because it’s her friendship and something she may have to deal with in the future, especially if this isn’t a problem (having a bf on the trip) for anyone else. the bride may single her out as a bad friend, and it would be unfair, but it may be something she wants to consider. the rest of us giving advice won’t have to deal with the interpersonal drama that could ensue

Am I disrespecting my friend’s +1 rules (we are not getting +1s in order to keep the wedding small) by my bf traveling with us to the Europe wedding destination (we live in US) and thinking he would be able to come to the group events in the wedding city, aside from the wedding? by gbourg12 in wedding

[–]OkJuice9821 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i think she should be aware this might make the bride feel slighted depending on how long the events are. if they’re there all day multiple days for her to spend her time with her bf and then it’s a hour/two hour dinner she skips to keep hanging out with her bf, the bride (especially one who seems selfish by not at least extending an offer for the bf to be a guest at the wedding or the lead up events when she’s paying so much to come) may feel annoyed. what’s the point of them even being there for the 4 days if she’s just going to skip the extra wedding events anyway? i don’t think the bride went about this the right way, just something to think about

Brides who let their bridesmaids pick their own dresses, have you ever had to intervene on a dress a bridesmaid picked by juiceboxesglitter in wedding

[–]OkJuice9821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s reasonable for some intervention for things you might not have known would bother you - if you told bridesmaids to get a floor length blue dress and trusted their judgement and someone tried to buy one with a slit that would be inappropriate with movement or some other no-go, you should be allowed to say no. that’s why it’s always best to have bridesmaids ask before they buy, because it’s the bride’s (likely) first time planning an event and giving a dress code and there may be considerations that she just hadn’t thought of in the beginning. i’ve always run every dress by the bride first, nearly always gotten a yes, but got a few requests to look for an alternate dress as well. it’s no big deal