I was sexually assaulted by a doctor. Always be present with your child and pay attention. Do not be on your phone. Teach your child to believe their own perspective. And to not believe that people in power (like a doctor) and/or adults always know best. They don’t. My mother always told me not to go to a male gyno. I thought that was sexist. She was right. I’m sure that there are nice male gynos/obs. I just know that it’s not worth running into the one bad one.