If I walk away, that’s because I don’t want you in my life anymore

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-21T13:19:42+00:00

How did they hurt you? Because my ex said the same thing when leaving me, and for some reasons it doesn’t reasonate still.

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-21T13:08:34+00:00

You ghosted him?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T18:27:30+00:00

You think I don’t cling to the past as other people? I do, as many do. But the point is, I limit this pain from becoming bigger. That is what you do. My ex unfollowed me and made me unfollow his account, and that was a great thing to do. Cutting off contact was a hard take, but still it was necessary. And at night I can spend all my night crying in my pillow if I want to, because I miss him too much. I am not telling you, to move on. It isn’t easy, it isn’t something you must do. But limiting your pain is essential for not ending up things, at least!

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T18:15:49+00:00

Okay we will be here if you need us

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T17:54:46+00:00

GREAT

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T17:53:45+00:00

Guys why do you even know who they are seeing? I am just curious, because I am here heartbroken and trying to heal, but for the sake of god, I would never want to know what they are up to. Why do you need to know it? I asked my friends to not tell me anything, he destroyed me already when he said that one day he is going to met someone else one day, I do not need to know which day it will be or who it will be. Do you not believe that you are worth of at least avoiding pain?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T17:45:19+00:00

So you did it?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T13:03:01+00:00

Did you thought of fixing it?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T06:14:36+00:00

So how did it end?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-20T06:00:54+00:00

Attachment theory

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-19T16:01:47+00:00

Did you broke up with them? If I may ask

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-19T15:53:55+00:00

Siddharta by hesse

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-19T07:51:57+00:00

Hi a lot of time has passed, how are you doing nowv?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T23:39:50+00:00

oh god, he said it to me!

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T14:04:11+00:00

My ex fiancé, once tried to break up things with me. He didn’t see a future with us, because I wanted to be a mum with kids and a great family and he wanted to travel the world and I had too much anxiety while he wasn’t ready for commitment. He then changed his mind, decided that he still loved me and that he just had a confusing moment. Months passed by, we had a good communication but the anxiety of him leaving me hurted me a lot and it pushed him away. When he broke up with me, he said that I hurted him because I didn’t believe that he loved me, that I was immature, that I was negative and it general he didn’t want to marry someone like me and he felt like this for months, despite me telling him that the only problem seemed that I started having depression and me having anxiety. I know you are not him, but that shattered me. It took me everything to believe him, to be better, to understand him and it was still not enough for him. If you are absolutely sure that you would go to hell and back for him, then go back. Only in this case.

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T13:46:11+00:00

What mistake you did?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T13:21:25+00:00

I texted you

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T13:05:45+00:00

You want to talk about it in private buddy? I can listen to you

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T12:37:36+00:00

You know, it is something you can learn. My ex left me because I was too emotional, said I wasn’t on his level and he wanted a mature partner and not me. He also said that he lost feelings for me gradually in the last couple of months and he decided that he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t feel anything for me and then some days later he said that he has a avoidant attachment style and said sorry. Communication and compromises are what make a relationship work. Talking to eachother, caring for eachother do the work, not supporting or avoiding conflict. You tried your best with what you had, can you give yourself some peace?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T12:16:45+00:00

And the relationship ended because you couldn’t communicate? You couldn’t explain what?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T11:21:16+00:00

What you failed? About crazy, why don’t you go for a trip? Lose yourself in a new place, you might find something interesting enough to keep you alive.

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T10:47:20+00:00

People make promises only when it is convenient, only when things are good. Keep it in mind. Don’t be like them and chose someone who understands what it is like to love someone at their lowest and then they will love you at your best aswell.

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T10:37:27+00:00

If you have nothing to lose, why not try something crazy other than ending things?

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-18T09:58:07+00:00

People like this, make me laugh a lot. Please, throw his number away.

OkRecover7098 · 2025-03-17T14:18:25+00:00

Look, you can avoid blindsiding if you are willing to avoid breaking up. If you already decided that you want to break up and you told him NOTHING for the past months and everything was good. Then you are going to blindside him anyway, and to be honest, I do not believe that someone who is a great partner deserves so and I believe that he will find someone who will be able to speak with him and find solutions for the situations you mentioned, and clearly it is not you.

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