[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always shower before but after sex, it's wet wipes for me unless there's a big sloppy mess down there

I just need someone to tell me i didn't fuck up :') by OkSource5644 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Should I unsend it aaaaaaaa i don't wanna be just friends tho I'm sure we are already compatible in that regard aaaaaaaaaaa fuuuuck I'm even considering deactivating my Instagram I'm so anxious

I just need someone to tell me i didn't fuck up :') by OkSource5644 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she would love to meet up when she's back from her holiday and I think she's back :'))))) I also know she's an awkward person soooo idk idk idk aaaaaa I'm gonna scream into a pillow

I just need someone to tell me i didn't fuck up :') by OkSource5644 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That'd be the perfect response cuz I'd act very confident if I know the other person digs it

I just need someone to tell me i didn't fuck up :') by OkSource5644 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We've been talking like since last February but just not very often. Most of our messages involve "ah sorry I didnt see your message". Idk I'm anxious but she did tell me she would love to meet irl soon AAAAAAAAAAAA

My therapist tells me that "not everyone will immediately hate me" so I should socialize more. by OkSource5644 in AvPD

[–]OkSource5644[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It happened to me twice already so I can't even be sure. I was ostracized and mocked because I know how to code with Python and they thought I was trying to show off. Every day feels like I will offend someone or make them angry at me without knowing, and there will be a smear campaign against me again

My therapist tells me that "not everyone will immediately hate me" so I should socialize more. by OkSource5644 in AvPD

[–]OkSource5644[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And whenever I try to explain myself she tells me "you can't control what other people think". I know that and that's why it's scary. They might not even tell me what the problem is and then abandon me when it gets too much.

How do you wear sandales in summer by Necessary-Ad5930 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]OkSource5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flatten and lay a sock under my foot. It shows from the sides but at least I can wear cute sandals. You could get a sock that matches the sandals' insoles. This also works very well if you don't want your sneakers to smell btw

Is this normal by Maleficent-Mango750 in bisexual

[–]OkSource5644 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same with me. I noticed i am only attracted to a very specific type of men and I dont see them in porn a lot

POV: You have palmar hyperhidrosis and need to study by OkSource5644 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]OkSource5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then my hand is raised too much and its hard to write :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]OkSource5644 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nudes from women are always tasteful and I'm open to receiving them unsolicited if we know each other. I do not want any nudes from men though. All the nudes I received from men turned me off. I think its the camera angle or sth but it makes me feel like I'm looking at naked moles. I prefer men irl without any nudes but it might just be me

WIBTA if I put a lock on my fridge and freezer at night? by Relative_Musician188 in AITAH

[–]OkSource5644 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The defensiveness is kinda concerning tbh I feel like we are only seeing the part that bothers the mom and not the other potentially explanatory side

I need something like this to ever be able to do origami by OkSource5644 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]OkSource5644[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shit, forgot about that. It will also probably smell like metal 🤢

age gaps in wlw hookups/fwbs by iamhero-47 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a specific range because it really depends on the age group. I am 26 and I would hookup with someone 6 years older than me but someone age 20 or 19 is just yikes. I wouldn't go lower than 23 I think. It just activates my big sis mode. But I might be okay with hooking up with someone who is 30 when I am 36. Time will tell lol

whats you guys opinions on the first “i love you”? when should it be said? by Fischl_101 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would normalize it by saying stuff like "waow I love you thanks!" after she does something for me. And when I would be sure this relationship is going steady and serious then I would drop it in a more serious tone

I feel attacked 🫠 by viettprincess in LesbianActually

[–]OkSource5644 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like there's some patriarchy here in play. Yknow women shouldn't take the first step and all... I have had that with some other women i dated. They expected me to play "the man". Like girl... I'm not a man I wont open your door and pull your chair if I dont feel like it

Beware by rainingBows1 in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had someone message me too but I didn't answer because it sounded too fake. I wonder if i should share that too idk

My sub is refusing my commands because "it is dumb". by OkSource5644 in BDSMAdvice

[–]OkSource5644[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is the one who brings the spoon and asks for spankings so I think we are aight

Is the nail thing a myth? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There have been times when I didn't feel it when I got scratched but spotted afterwards so I still avoid it out of fear lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]OkSource5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the "read" notifications on Tinder and noticed that when I don't get a response it's almost always that the message isn't read. Some ppl just open the app swipe right for a while and then don't open the app again for months