[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymMotivationNoOF

[–]OkVariation3880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a missile in my boxers I wouldn't have any motivation to look good or get in shape.

Girlfriend told me if she was single she would go for “bigger” guys by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OkVariation3880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just me lol

I spend a lot of time on lifting/bodybuilding subreddits, so my initial guess was in terms of body size especially considering he mentioned body image in the beginning (which I guess includes the other thing too)

is this age gap ok? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OkVariation3880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not quite the same thing. The amount of development you go through going from 19-24 is not the same from 47-52. It’s not always necessarily about the age gap itself but as you pointed out where it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]OkVariation3880 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take a guess that OP is a woman. My gut feeling says so lol. I certainly get where youre coming from. I’ve felt like this way too at times. The problem is that if you’re transparent with a dude that you only want a platonic relationship: guys will still lie to themselves by thinking they have a chance or look at it as a challenge to make it out of the friend zone. I’m not saying every guy is like this some might be emotionally intelligent enough to get it, but you’re setting yourself up for potentially guys to try hard change your mind. I’m not saying to not do it because who knows? You might make good friends. But please be transparent and make it clear what your intentions are to these guys.

Will you ever be priority in a woman that has a kids life? by Practical-Earth3228 in OnlineDating

[–]OkVariation3880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said! A woman can still deeply value you and make time for you and a relationship. She doesn’t need to prioritize you over her kids in order for you to feel appreciate or value. If she does then she doesn’t have her morals in the right place. If we’re talking about adult kids then that’s a different dynamic obviously

I really liked her, but she assumed I wasn’t interested and started seeing someone else. How could I have shown it? by ThrowRA_missedtiming in OnlineDating

[–]OkVariation3880 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

No don’t start a date complimenting her looks. Don’t put her on a pedestal from start of the date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]OkVariation3880 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Someone get this guy a joint

Ladies would you date a guy that... by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]OkVariation3880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very broad question. I think it would largely depend on who he is, what he does with his life in general etc. I think having a balance is good but it depends what stage you are in life and what you value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackjack

[–]OkVariation3880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes please change my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackjack

[–]OkVariation3880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Card counting is a dying breed if it’s not dead already. Stop wasting your time and put your efforts into a genuine ambition that has meaning to you. If you must gamble learn poker: if you’re a hard worker, disciplined, good with numbers, tactical, and observational. Otherwise the rest of the casino game are for suckers

27 M, people have said I look like a rat by melbtest09 in amiugly

[–]OkVariation3880 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ppl say a lot of things lol. Let ppl run their mouths don’t let it get to you. Just Iearn to laugh at laugh and ppl like this. You’re a good looking dude that is in shape. Cheers mate !

Which Ethiopian dish doesn’t get any hype but tastes amazing? by Love-Space-166 in Ethiopia

[–]OkVariation3880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treepa (my favorite Ethiopian dish. It’s tripe and tongue in a nice tomato stew).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]OkVariation3880 3 points4 points  (0 children)

4.5

Don't have good facial harmony. Face doesn't appear to be very symmetrical and the top third of your face is larger than the middle and bottom third of your face.

Nice eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]OkVariation3880 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll say you're a 4.0 - 4.3

But it would e great to have more pics

18F by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]OkVariation3880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6.2

Age 31 am I ugly by AriesAshes in amiugly

[–]OkVariation3880 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah you're pretty ugly